So you are asking if one would rather use a toy on oneself or prefere a guy? For me there is the right time and place for everything wether it is a toy or a hard cock. Sometimes warm hard flesh is the only way to go but occasionally it's nice to be in controll via toys. Thats just my 2 cents.
'A bird doesnt sing because it has an answer-it sings because it has a song' chinese proverb
with you toys would be fine
either is good but yes toys with you
I`d do toys with you but I do have a har strap-on
From the first time, when I was young, ALWAYS AND EVER, an aroused man's hard cock in my ass, is heaven.