No. Fantasizing
adds to the passion, especially when masturbating
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
I like to think of Snape when I am having sex so no it is not cheating because Snape is fictional.
ok please fantasizing is healthy, to dream is healthy,live each moment to it's fullest,it will be taken away for all of us,make sure to hug the ones you love
It's only cheating when you act on it without permission from your partner. Whether that be meeting in real life and screwing or even having cyber sex, if you are keeping it from your partner, you're cheating. If it's just a nice healthy fantasy, like dreaming of finding Anne Hathaway naked in your bed and spending a weekend there having various types of sex, that's not even remotely cheating.
I would say no, but be careful how you treat the fantasy because it could destroy your relationship
No, cheating is reality where the rubber is meeting the road
Absolutely not! Everyone fantasizes at one time or another! Like now, I’m having thoughts about Bill lol
Fantasizing isn't cheating, I think everyone fantasies so my opinion it isn't cheating.
Silentbeauty took the words out of my mouth !!
100%
No. Everyone has fantasies and it keeps the imagination alive.
It is unequivocally not the same thing. They are neither synonymous nor analogous.
Not even close to the same thing.
No. Everyone's imagination is their own, nobody can take that away from them.
Personally, though, for me to 'get off' I have to have an image of my partner in mind. So, no imaginary girlfriends for me as it would not give me any satisfying orgasms lol.
Cheating is anything that makes your partner lose trust in you.
The problem is that you two may not have the same definition of cheating. Also, your loss of trust may be completely internal to you and have nothing to do with your partner or their actions.
I looked at porn and fantasized about intangible fantasy women, but I never displayed even the perception of actually cheating. The one time she thought I was cheating, she lied and came home early to catch me but I was putting together a surprise bday party for her that weekend.
My ex thought that I was cheating because I was violating a commandment to not covet another. (she was very selectively religious). But on the other hand, I thought she was cheating because she was texting a local guy and sending him sexy pics, deleting most of her texts to him and then she initiated a meeting in a darkened parking lot at night. Did they have sex? I guess not but to me that was emotional cheating and they would have physically cheated if circumstances would have allowed them to meet that night.
Everyone's definition is different. A couple, whether monogamous, swingers or poly, needs to define the rules early.
If it is then masterbating is also .
, I don't want my girl to be just a bag of meat (and I know I'm exaggerating) .
No, if anything, fantascies make cheating less necessary. We all know that forbidden fruit often does not taste as good as we imagined! 
