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BelleduJour
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Well, I'm not sure if you're talking BDSM and if you are, I'm really not into that kind of sub/dom sex HOWEVER if you're asking about being sub/dom in terms of taking over in the bedroom and taking the initiative, I am very comfortable playing either role. It just depends on my man and the moment. Most of the time, it will start off one way and end up the other and that is just fine by me - a little tit for tat is always good.
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I am more submissive. smile
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Def more submissive.
Echo88
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Submissive for sure
Andee
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I tend to be the submissive, but we don't have a relationship that is defined in those kind of "Fifty Shades" roles
"If you knew what you were doing you would probably be bored."
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I am both, somewhat, if i feel safe i can give my world away, however, I do like to take control sometimes, especially in the beginning of foreplay. ( I do like to see the pleasure on his face)
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Tend to be a little bit of both but more on the submissive side when it comes to my male partners.
paul_moadib
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Dominant one.
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Jack_42
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A friend who is a psychologist and I were discussing sex and I said my priority is pleasing the other person and he said that is submissive - yet I am not actually lying there passively whilst my partner does things to me but I am the one doing things to her. Not sure if that is submissive - though in his terminology my first priority is what determines the issue in his technical sense?
Soleillalune
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Submissive preferring dominate Loooooving man
janet_haney
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Dominate, but not in a formal BDSM sort of way.
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I am whatever he needs me to be - does that make me a submissive or a switch?

Lately - he's been ill - so I've been the dominant and calling a lot of the shots.

When he's feeling better it'll switch around.

Whatever thrills him - I'm happy
AudioLee
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I don't think we know yet in our relationship... maybe we're still working it out. Or maybe it goes back and forth as things change and develop.
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I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )
Ravyn
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I am a mother of two so outwardly I am very much in control, but my true inner self is very much a different person.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
kamdev58
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Quote by Mystic_Angel_77
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.
SeaSiren
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I am certainly submissive & He is strongly Dominant
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We used to swap ;)
sprite
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Quote by kamdev58

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.





umm... the vote is in, it's unanimous!

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
DavidTheDeer
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When I meet new people I restrain myself until I get to know them so I don't offend them too much, this applies to relationships too, until I get to know here limits I'll play it on the safe side.

Now, once we've been together for a while I tend to be the more dominant one, but if she wants to take control of things I won't stop her from spicing things up smile
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I am very submissive, but I also have times where I can be dominate.
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i am submissive
Z1992
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I'm dominant. Unless she is on top, then she is dominant.