There is a horse's ass like that where I work. He hates his wife, he married her because she was hot and now she is over weight and he hates her. He says he has hated her for the last six years. Their youngest daughter is five years old. Any time he starts getting on my nerves I just remember of all of the people he makes miserable, he makes himself more miserable than anybody else. He is his own worst enemy and has no clue that he makes himself more miserable than anybody else because of his own attitudes. He is his own punishment.