A warning for all males on Lush from a common phenomenon.

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Some people even use their much hotter friends' pics as themselves.

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Look, I Said I was sorry I "borrowed" your picture.

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Wait a sec. The AV of Dudealicious really is Dudealicious. I've seen that sweep across hairdo in his other pics. I mistakenly thought it was a seagull flying at his head but he kindly informed me it was a windy day

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I've already forgiven you. I just don't know how long you expected to pull it off, though. Your hair isn't even remotely curly...I just...I just don't know.

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Hey...this is all in fun, now.

Keep personal issues in private.

Please and thanks.

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Sorry dani, but this guy picks fights in the chat rooms all the time. This just looks like he found another place to trash females.

I even wonder what sort of guy is upset by getting a hug from an av that looks like mine (and no it isn't me as I clearly state in my profile). Most guys beg me for a hug.... or more.

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Yes. This seems to me like a pretty ridiculous thread. Kind of seems like it goes without saying. I generally suspect that people don't use their real photos, and if they do, I don't expect anything more from them, so it really doesn't matter if they look like what they say they do. As for the reasons somebody might do that, they could have self-esteem or body-image issues, severe social anxiety which the anonymity of Lush is helpful with, or maybe they are a transgender individual who is tired of being told they are not who and what they are.

Since almost nobody on Lush is after a face to face meetup, you're never going to know anyway. Are you also suspicious of profiles that have no pictures, but a description? It's an anonymous erotic fiction site. Some of us have writing careers or professional careers and don't want to have our actual name or photo up for publicity reasons. I say that as though personal privacy isn't enough, since you clearly don't think it is, and have probably misjudged the internet as an entity if you had to learn that lesson the hard way.

That's nothing against you personally, I just hope you won't get so bent out of shape, and enjoy the fantasies that these ladies are offering you without subjecting them to an interrogation or feeling lied to. If they're not giving you strictly factual information, they're telling you a story, and it's a story you wanted to hear. Just sayin'.

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My avatar it’s not me.. yeah I know.. Duh! . The reason it’s not me is because it doesn’t need to be me. Although Bla, bla …

Anyway, I’m here at an emotional level not at a truly physical one. I’m also not looking to grab anything. This not to say that I could not exchange a real photo of myself with someone that I feel comfortable to do so.

The woman that you may have spoken to might be a housewife/mother/girlfriend that probably needs a little innocent escape from the everyday life, so they cannot show you their real self, even if they would like too. Or they might be a bit different from what they had said a month ago.. like they are red not blonde, hmm. So, you have provided that need, nice for you and them. I don’t feel that LS was ever conceptualized as a human hookup, however it might happen, as it does but the chances are slim.

There are some good sites that do that very well where however a verified registration is required and I would look for those so I would not waste time. Most of vast wide web has no rules and actually makes its own rules, as for example of the subjective numbers. Metric or Imperial system it doesn’t matter, on the net what’s 5 becomes 7 or 9 or better or 15 or 20+.

What you say it applies also for us men (if you and I are indeed men, Ha Ha). There are many threads regarding this. I remember reading one (if I’m correct) that says that a majority of females here are actually men. This opinion it’s widely shared on the net, like there are hardly any women in cyberspace.

So take it in stride and have fun, read an erotic story, interact as you’re doing and have fun but expect pretense or a limit where I would chat, I would even talk with you but I would/could not progress to a face cam.



Would have to look this up.
Can't see it very well.


I think I like it a lot.




Heyyy where's LS

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lol seriously, all this grudge because I said no to your unsolicited hug? Don't you always react the same to unsolicited virtual whispers from guys? Don't you usually tell them "Do you whisper to strangers in the pub?".

Since you are in the "Lush is 100% fantasy" camp then you shouldn't equate virtual fantasy whispers to whispers in a pub. The reason why I refused your hug is to make a point, not because of your av .

And before accusing me of something adele, check my friend list, they are all ladies, I dare you to ask them if I ever spoke with them impolitely or showed any sexist attitude toward any of them. It seems to me you are the sexist one who believes that males are creatures who must beg for hugs from you and supposedly to automatically accept unsolicited hugs from anyone; you're simply projecting.

As for the others who are ridiculing me, you are totally free to have a different point of views and state your opinions but refrain from mocking and personal attacks.

I was also in a room where you told a member after looking at her profile and seeing she was lesbian, you were (not just going to stop talking to her, but) going to block her.

Note that I am not including anyone who's using the avatar of a celeb/cartoon/symbol without claiming she's the one in the pic, I am talking about people who deliberately put a non-famous internet beautiful woman with a full album of selfie pics of her, yet claiming she is this woman when asked about it, and there are plenty of them here

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Wow.
Who said anything about being unattractive? I love my face. I don't like sharing my photos that often.