My biggest flaw....I don't believe in Me....this creates a whole lotta other flaws, but in reading this thread I realized all of them I think are big have to to with confidence and the fact that I let people treat me like crap because I wanted to be wanted.....HAHAHA joke is on you....I am 38 and trying to overcome this....I WANT ME....so now to believe.
I have so many flaws that I sincerely think that we might as well call it my humanity
Very loyal to the ones I care about, which makes me sound needy or controlling.
my temper when i feel i have been wronged...i wish i could stay calm and cool
I have a bad temper but hey no one it perfect.
I try to make everyone else happy regardless of how it affects me
I can become very outspoken if things piss me off
Lol i laughed reading all these normal people. I at times have skimmed over all or most if those flaws. My biggest and most would be i am so hard to really get to know. I keep everything closed and only let small things out. I have regretted this so many times but my friends are truly people i love. Also stubborn, pride, out spoken at times when it comes to my family and holding hurt in until explodes
Being blunt. I have almost no filter. Don't ask me a direct question and expect me to sugarcoat it. I can't lie if my life depended on it.
Not contacting Lucy much sooner, maybe I could've spared her some hurt feelings.. I love you pussycat ...
That I worry too much about what others think of me. When all I should really be concerned about is how I feel about myself.
My biggest flaw? I don't sugar coat things, I tend to say what I mean. People are constantly trying to figure out what I am telling them when I am telling them exactly what am trying to tell them (I'm not sure if that makes sense but its what I mean...lol).
I'm a martyr to my own modesty...
xx SF
I try to be too tolerant and then when I blow it is like a nuclear nightmare and the other person is always shocked because I allowed them to think for too long that I would take their antics when I should have nipped it in the bud earlier. Ignore. Ignore and then Chernobyl. I should have been more honest and then maybe we could have worked it out.2fzjupc7pccGqOMS
Being distant with my friends and family too often.
Hard to say....I have so many....
I'd say it's the stubbornness/apathy/distance thing....I also tend to "gunnysack" things a little too much (meaning I let things that bother me build up and then, when I've hit my limit, blow up....giving little or no warning to the person I blew up against). I tend to expect a lot of what I think people SHOULD know....and get frustrated when they don't. Although I'm getting better at this.
I care too much. I know I shouldn't. I keep telling myself not to. I just can't help myself. People keep asking me, Why do you care? I don't have an answer for them. It's A curse. I know I have many other faults. But this is the one that bothers me the most.pAs5u9xN9p0T8jzO
Pushing people away when I feel they get too close
Oh, Lord have mercy, I have a list a mile long.
My biggest one is probably my stubborn attitude or how I'm quick to jump to conclusions. It gets me in trouble sometimes. *blushes*
That I give people my everything all the time and never stand up for myself and it comes back to bit me in the ass