When Lush members just disappear...

21 Dec 2011

Quote by ArtMan

One that has not logged in for 3 months is abygaleturner69. I really enjoyed her stories and she always left great comments on mine. Her page is still there but who knows.

Let me say, be glad her page is still there...that's always a good sign...

Funny, I just noticed one of my first friends here actually just logged back on today after about 22 months, I would guess...

I realize people come and go for different reasons here, and sometimes it just suits them and it has nothing whatsoever to do with you...but, like I said...be glad her page is still there...that's a plus, let me tell you...

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21 Dec 2011

I had a message this morning from a very good Lush friend that she had deleted her account. I was shocked and very saddening, actually just sick about it. She even had a competition story entered. I will really miss her being here very much. And I also noticed that all of her great comments on my stories had vanished as well as votes my stories had received from her.

21 Dec 2011

Quote by Buz
I had a message this morning from a very good Lush friend that she had deleted her account. I was shocked and very saddening, actually just sick about it. She even had a competition story entered. I will really miss her being here very much. And I also noticed that all of her great comments on my stories had vanished as well as votes my stories had received from her.

i feel you buz!!!

21 Dec 2011

Quote by Buz
I had a message this morning from a very good Lush friend that she had deleted her account. I was shocked and very saddening, actually just sick about it. She even had a competition story entered. I will really miss her being here very much. And I also noticed that all of her great comments on my stories had vanished as well as votes my stories had received from her.

Really?

She messaged me last night and chatted with me about this. Then gave me her email address so we can keep in touch.

Then she sent me some photos of her boobies! Then we cammed! It was glorious...

nanny nanny boo boo! evil4

(okay I made that last part up)

Things happen guys, deal with it, come'on. I'd say that unless
you have managed to finagle an email address or chat handle
(from google talk, chat or whatever) from the person,
then... they didn't really want to be your pal outside of Lush.

Don't be sad that it's over, be happy you met them and they didn't cost you anything.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, then you're stuck with it. If not - rejoice and have a beer.

The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.

21 Dec 2011

Quote by WellMadeMale

Really?

She messaged me last night and chatted with me about this. Then gave me her email address so we can keep in touch.

Then she sent me some photos of her boobies! Then we cammed! It was glorious...

nanny nanny boo boo!

(okay I made that last part up)

Things happen guys, deal with it, come'on. I'd say that unless
you have managed to finagle an email address or chat handle
(from google talk, chat or whatever) from the person,
then... they didn't really want to be your pal outside of Lush.

Don't be sad that it's over, be happy you met them and they didn't cost you anything.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, then you're stuck with it. If not - rejoice and have a beer.

She did notify me that she was deleting and did send me her email address (and address to her blog), but I will still miss her on Lush because she was a good friend to me here.

22 Dec 2011

Quote by chefkathleen

Chef's innate ability to display empathy is infamous and I love her for it. bootyshake

Even shy little old me started out as an observer on Lush only to be drawn in by some incredible people. Sadly, some have moved on and my blessings went with them. For the rest, I admire from the shadows again only occasionly illuminating their lives with my incandescent presence. I am thoughtful that way Liar

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw

22 Dec 2011

Sir Knight. The quiet observer. Lurking in the bushes. Outside my bedroom. Whistle

22 Dec 2011

FINALLY! The Drama Llama finally scores!!!!!!!!!!!

23 Dec 2011

Quote by chefkathleen
Sir Knight. The quiet observer. Lurking in the bushes. Outside my bedroom.

You do know it's bloody cold out here, right? Open the window and let me in before my lance gets frostbite evil4

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw

23 Dec 2011

Quote by mercianknight

You do know it's bloody cold out here, right? Open the window and let me in before my lance gets frostbite

Your lance looks pretty straight and warm to me. your hand must be keeping it warm

24 Dec 2011

I've not been on this long and not really made friends yet though there is one girl I've spoke to a few times. Dunno how I'd feel if an online friend suddenly went M.I.A.

14 Jan 2012

I understand Hap deleted his acct. At least some were warned.

Is there something odd going on here??

14 Jan 2012

Quote by MsYumm
I understand Hap deleted his acct. At least some were warned.

Is there something odd going on here??

Why do you think there is something going on here? Just like in real life, people come and go.

Hap contacted his close friends and let them know how to keep in touch. No mystery, no big warnings, farewell, or Goodbye Cruel Lush speeches needed. happy8

I certainly prefer that approach over the person who starts a goodbye thread for himself and still is on Lush 4 months later. evil4

14 Jan 2012

Quote by Curlygirly
I certainly prefer that approach over the person who starts a goodbye thread for himself and still is on Lush 4 months later.

hahaha! who was THAT??

(still ... it still seems like some things are odd that long time Lushers leave ... like LoisLane earlier too)

14 Jan 2012

Quote by Curlygirly

Why do you think there is something going on here? Just like in real life, people come and go.

Hap contacted his close friends and let them know how to keep in touch. No mystery, no big warnings, farewell, or Goodbye Cruel Lush speeches needed.

I certainly prefer that approach over the person who starts a goodbye thread for himself and still is on Lush 4 months later.

Quite a lot of members will inform their closest friends before they close their accounts - I know that I did.

I've also had friends sending IMs to warn that they may have to delete, that something is going on - maybe giving ways to keep in touch as they know that their friends would worry about them. It's just courteous, IMO.

Some do the woe is me stuff, some just disappear - we're all different I guess...

Some of us do the drama, others don't. It doesn't mean there's some conspiracy, we all have our reasons...

14 Jan 2012

where's gone sonnick who wrote games one of the best series ever on this site.

Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.

14 Jan 2012

I liked hap. hope things work out.

14 Jan 2012

Quote by Buz
I liked hap. hope things work out.

Me too, Buz - I'll miss the old bugger cry

14 Jan 2012

Quote by MsYumm

hahaha! who was THAT??

(still ... it still seems like some things are odd that long time Lushers leave ... like LoisLane earlier too)

You haven't even been here 4 months and you say it's odd? I went to your profile and you say you won't accept PM's or friend requests because you are ONLY here for Leo.

It's good to see you have ventured beyond ONLY Leo. laughing6

14 Jan 2012

MsYumm = Fake Nick.

Lavish too.

So unimaginative these trolls.

14 Jan 2012

Once, a girl deleted her account while I was chatting with her... I thought it was rude.

14 Jan 2012

i've got 2 friends on here that have gone MIA but they cam back on but are now MIA again. it sucks cause i like talking to them and ready their stories

14 Jan 2012

Quote by rudyP34
Once, a girl deleted her account while I was chatting with her... I thought it was rude.

Did you remember to accurately lie about your penis size? I never go below 12 inches or so. Like normal cock is frowned upon here.

14 Jan 2012

ok i might be jumping the gun here but this is my 2cents worth...

I am a yearling, but i just kinda dissapeared..besides personal troubles i made the mistake of mixing my real life and lush life and thingS spiraled out of control and needed a break...just needed to get the hell out of dodge.

so yeah, we all have our reasons...

14 Jan 2012

I admit, I am one of those who used to be on here a lot then just dropped off the side of the earth. In my case a change of jobs has left me a bit overwhelmed. Ill be back regularly, itll just be a bit. Like someone said earlier: when things are going well sometimes Lush isnt what is needed.

14 Jan 2012

I am one that someday will just vanish in a cloud of smoke. To me very few people on a site like this are actually friends. Friendly with each other but friends no. I think the word friend has been overused and had its meaning cheapened. A friend of mine is someone I would die for and someone that would die for me. Needless to say that I will probably never have that type of friendship with someone here. If someone has vanished from here frown for a second, shrug your shoulders, and gone on with life.

14 Jan 2012

Quote by Magical_felix

Did you remember to accurately lie about your penis size? I never go below 12 inches or so. Like normal cock is frowned upon here.

Who said I pretended to have a penis?

14 Jan 2012

Quote by nicola
MsYumm = Fake Nick.

Lavish too.

So unimaginative these trolls.

who's Nick?

14 Jan 2012

i have had friends that just up and left with no warning and i had hap let me know he was leaving and no matter how they leave, losing a friend is never easy.

i will really miss hap, he helped make the forums a wonderful place to escape the real world.