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...Ok, so I had just got done cybering with a 18 year old girl who had just joined up yesterday...she had a photo gallery and everything...she said that she was going to set up a cam so that i could watch her fuck this guy that she had invited over...I said cool...She says that two dudes showed up and she asked me if she should fuck them both...I said hell yes she should (most of her cybering had involved gang bang scenarios)...next thing I knew she was gone...and I'm talking profile removed gone...my question is...did I just get set up in some kind of sting? Has anyone ever encountered anything like this?
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You saw her shagging those guys on the cam, or was a PM thing?

You met her yesterday?

Why am I so hangover?

I promise never drink again!!!



Okay, this is what I think: perhaps she just wanted to finger herself doing some roleplay, once she had it, she vanished and is probably around with a different nickname, looking for new guys and new scenarios. Dont worry.

Happy Xmass.
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I didn't see shit..she disappeared when she was "setting up the camera"...coulda been a 50 year old dude for all I know...I considered your scenario too...it doesn't add up...you join this site to have fun...why would you spend all the time to create a full profile if you're just going to bail the first time somebody gets you off? doesn't make sense...
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It appears that this type of thing (the deleting of profile) happens more frequently than one might think.

I have had two guys (I am presuming) chat me up (one even wrote a story of me) and "poof" almost in midsentence they have deleted their account. I hazard to guess that it was because of REAL LIFE or getting caught in a lie .... or ... maybe it was my boss thinking "she sounds like someone I know .... oh oh"



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yep, it's happened to me too - had a lovely session of cyber and suddenly *poof* like they'd never existed. honestly, felt a bit used, but then, i got over it and now that i understand the nature of cyber and such (i was kind of new to it at the time) i don't take it too seriously if it's a simple fling of convenience. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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I have had guys and gals do the same thing. I have heard from some of my friends they have had the same experience. I even discovered one of the guys who did this also had a female profile with fake pictures of a sexy female. It was quite entertaining to see how long he would carry on and what stories he would try to pass off each time. I don't mind roleplaying if someone is up front about it, but I hate it when they role play a different character eash time I chat with them as if the senerio is true. I have a good memory for details! So hint to people out there into roleplaying...keep your facts straight and remember who you said what to when you chat/cyber.
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Same here...this is fantasy, don't take it too seriously. If you gave away personal info, where you live. your bank account # ..then I'd worry!
Take care!
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Same here...this is fantasy, don't take it too seriously. If you gave away personal info, where you live. your bank account # ..then I'd worry!
Take care!


damn, so that explains all the unaccountable purchases from sextoys.com! i mean, i don't really have a use for inflatable sex dolls! ;)

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Thanks for the feedback, everyone...I feel a lot better...i was never hurt or anything...just worried that I had gotten set up or something...seems silly to me though...why not just own your fantasies...especially here...check your inhibitions at the door!
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Sometimes people realise they've taken their lie too far, and decide to do the easiest thing, ie delete their account.

It's also quite common for professional sex workers (prostitutes / cam girls / phone sex lines etc) to discover sites like this, and think it's a free ride to getting clients. Their accounts are usually deleted as soon as they are found out.
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I have had two guys (I am presuming) chat me up



At the same time? Or they took turns?
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My cousin he is a progammer analist. He handles my system at the office and my home computer, he says this can be used to hack into you computer while you are busy chatting, I don't know I don't chat. He gave me an explanation, it went ten feet above my head, I am an accountant not a programmer.
Bye Fran 26
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Quote by VanGogh
I have had two guys (I am presuming) chat me up



At the same time? Or they took turns?


wow .... seriously eh?? What do you really think??

Not many that talented at multitasking, but maybe you are or wish you could be.



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My cousin he is a progammer analist. He handles my system at the office and my home computer, he says this can be used to hack into you computer while you are busy chatting, I don't know I don't chat. He gave me an explanation, it went ten feet above my head, I am an accountant not a programmer.
Bye Fran 26


Fran! Finally someone to support my crazy sting conspiracy theory! ...I've been playing casino poker for 13 years, and i'm always looking for the reason behind things and, this is the only thing that makes sense to me...I hope they did hack my computer...i just had it wiped because of a virus a couple weeks ago, so it was a huge waste of their time!

also, I wish that I could have been there to see how you brought this up to your cousin!

...and Van...nice
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wow .... seriously eh?? What do you really think??



I don´t know...perhaps those guys had a shoe fetish? There's a lot of weirdos around.
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Quote by Fran26
My cousin he is a progammer analist. He handles my system at the office and my home computer, he says this can be used to hack into you computer while you are busy chatting, I don't know I don't chat. He gave me an explanation, it went ten feet above my head, I am an accountant not a programmer.
Bye Fran 26


There is no way for someone to "hack" your computer whilst surfing on Lush. You would need to be directed to a malicious site for any of that nasty business to occur.

Judging by the message I receive when someone removes their account, most likely they have either discovered god, or a partner has found out their Lush secret.
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I must admit that I experienced a semi-similar event here. I started talking on PM with a certain Lady ( I wont say her name, let's just call her "X"), and after some clean and polite talk, perhaps some moderate flirting and age-old seduction techniques, she just stopped talking to me.


She didnt cancel her account,or something, she keeps posting on the forum as usual, she just ignored me out of the blue...very weird huh?





TO BE CONTINUED...
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I must admit that I experienced a semi-similar event here. I started talking on PM with a certain Lady ( I wont say her name, let's just call her "X"), and after some clean and polite talk, perhaps some moderate flirting and age-old seduction techniques, she just stopped talking to me.


She didnt cancel her account,or something, she keeps posting on the forum as usual, she just ignored me out of the blue...very weird huh?





TO BE CONTINUED...


No it is not weird Javier
This is adoult sex site and maybe you did something that she didn't appreciate. Maybe you disrespected her, maybe you were selling her bullshit and she is too smart for that, maybe you were to pushy, maybe she figured it out that she dosn't like you... I can go on and on, but if you want to know why she stopped talking to you than you should appologize and ask her for a reason and not whine about it here at forum, as you said, she didn't deleted her account.
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Sounds like you were cyber-humped and dumped Javier.
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No it is not weird Javier
This is adoult sex site and maybe you did something that she didn't appreciate. Maybe you disrespected her, maybe you were selling her bullshit and she is too smart for that, maybe you were to pushy, maybe she figured it out that she dosn't like you... I can go on and on, but if you want to know why she stopped talking to you than you should appologize and ask her for a reason and not whine about it here at forum, as you said, she didn't deleted her account.




Everything was fine until we started doing some next-level tantra techniques...I guess it was too much to handle...but you are right, it was my fault.


*runs behind his desk and adops a fetal position*
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Sounds like you were cyber-humped and dumped Javier.




Nah, nothing really happened, she's a great person, I am just doing a bit of drama to spice things up, Xmas time gets me all sensitive, my parents being divorced and everything,Lol.
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Quote by Magical_felix
Sounds like you were cyber-humped and dumped Javier.




Nah, nothing really happened, she's a great person, I am just doing a bit of drama to spice things up, Xmas time gets me all sensitive, my parents being divorced and everything,Lol.



Nothing happened? Next level tantra techniques aren't just nothing... Shell be back.
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Nothing happened? Next level tantra techniques aren't just nothing... Shell be back.


Nah...I must forget her, start a new life, recover from this experience. By the way, dont you think the guy who started this thread looks like the twin brother of Rod Steward?


PS, No offense intended, Sous, I think Rod Staward is cool.
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...lol...first of all, the guy on my picture is not me...well it is today, but usually it's Gordon Ramsey...and second of all,

GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS MAN!...
she doesn't call you anymore...your fault with your tantric bullshit over the internet
your parents got divorced?...mine too
you have to recover from this experience? Jesus Christ man, every one of my friends has bigger balls than you do...go look at my friends...i'll wait...
you back? good...what did you notice? THEY'RE ALL WOMEN! and they're showing you up...
Sensitive and spineless are not the same thing, brother.

oh, and Rod Stewart says he likes you too!
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...lol...first of all, the guy on my picture is not me...well it is today, but usually it's Gordon Ramsey...and second of all,

GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS MAN!...
she doesn't call you anymore...your fault with your tantric bullshit over the internet
your parents got divorced?...mine too
you have to recover from this experience? Jesus Christ man, every one of my friends has bigger balls than you do...go look at my friends...i'll wait...
you back? good...what did you notice? THEY'RE ALL WOMEN! and they're showing you up...
Sensitive and spineless are not the same thing, brother.

oh, and Rod Stewart says he likes you too!



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...sorry, brother...I know that that was harsh...but i felt like you needed some tough love...
...you're a soldier, and more than that, you're a man.
Insecurities were fine when we were young, but at some point, we all have to take control of our lives...
We all have to honestly look at our role when things don't work out and learn from it, not just blame our shortcomings on everything but us...
We are the problem, and we are the solution...
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...sorry, brother...I know that that was harsh...but i felt like you needed some tough love...
...you're a soldier, and more than that, you're a man.
Insecurities were fine when we were young, but at some point, we all have to take control of our lives...
We all have to honestly look at our role when things don't work out and learn from it, not just blame our shortcomings on everything but us...
We are the problem, and we are the solution...





Are you for real? I mean, it's a bit funny to get advise on "life matters", from a guy who posts a thread asking if he's been stinged by some conman after some cyber sex just because the person vanished.

By the way, my parents arent divorced, it was meant to be a joke, as well the "she's gone" incident.

Peace.
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...in that case, I rescind my apology...please disregard my previous comment, trying to help a sad guy out...
congratulations to your parents for still being married...
advise is actually spelled advice...
...and bye
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advise is actually spelled advice...



Thanks, no matter how many times I check that type of words, I always forget the spelling. Was it prize or price? Globalization or globalisation? Cosy or cozy?


Grrrrrrrrr and more grrrrr.
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...I hear you bro...those are tough ones...but you're doing really good!
I think you're almost ready for big boy words...like airplane...and continent.
...can you spell that? continent...it's okay...sound it out