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If you were to get a divorce would you get married again?
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There is one I would like to
Candyman
Uh - I did. The first lasted less than five years before she started cheating. I do have 2 beautiful and delightful darling daughters from that relationship. My second marriage has latest 30 years and is still going strong.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
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I would, but I haven't. It would require a very special woman for me to even consider getting married again. She would have to be an honest, uninhibited, beauty who enjoyed my life style.
I have that, but both of us were quite thoroughly burned by our ex's - since we need no formal recognition of what exists, we're quite happy being as we've been for over a decade now. For us, it works.
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After dealing with my ex,I think I would rather have my ass caned in Singapore than remarry. Normally I'm not so close minded on a subject...but damn!
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Honestly despite being a hopeless romantic, even getting once doesn't appeal to me as I don't believe I could be happy with someone for very long and since I can't have children I see no point. To continue I believe that most partners cannot stay loyal and will either consider cheating or actually do it and it breaks my heart to know I'm not enough in a relationship so getting married, having kids and all of the supposidly ideal American dream is wasted o me. And if I have issues with basic relationships I know that if I ever cracked and got married and divorced id never marry again.
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If that's what she needs. I can just live with someone quite easily.
I am always a gentleman.
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Well I said never again after the first one and then married the second. After he cheated and got his married mistress pregnant I said never again, well that lasted about three years. So number three is still dealing with my quirks and I love his quirks. We have been together for six years and I love him dearly. I figure it took me three tries to get it right. With that said if it come to another divorce I know what to do and how to get it done fast and I will never try it again... I don't think, who knows. 
...I thought that maybe a new life, a different life, wouldn’t be so bad. But where the hell did I put the receipt, and could you return something that was over twenty years old? Where do you go to get a new life when your old one has you so puzzled you don’t know how to fix it? Wish I knew.
-Anita Blake (Laurell K. Hamilton)
-Anita Blake (Laurell K. Hamilton)
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I've thought about this on several occasions mainly because my son has asked me.
Thankfully, I'm not completely jaded and still believe in modified happily-ever-afters. As far as remarrying again, personally speaking, I don't think I would go to the trouble the second time around. That's not to say I don't believe in monogamy or commitment or even common-law because I do but to go to the trouble and pageantry of getting married again all for a piece of paper is definitely NOT necessary for me. A commitment is a commitment and I don't need a notarized sheet of paper proving anything to anyone.
At the same time, never say never BUT it would take one INCREDIBLE man to make me rethink things
Thankfully, I'm not completely jaded and still believe in modified happily-ever-afters. As far as remarrying again, personally speaking, I don't think I would go to the trouble the second time around. That's not to say I don't believe in monogamy or commitment or even common-law because I do but to go to the trouble and pageantry of getting married again all for a piece of paper is definitely NOT necessary for me. A commitment is a commitment and I don't need a notarized sheet of paper proving anything to anyone.
At the same time, never say never BUT it would take one INCREDIBLE man to make me rethink things
I really don't know how straight relationships work, but as far as i've seen, there are good and bad people, irrespective of whether they're guys or women.
When you just broke away from a relationship, sometimes it takes years for all the wounds to heal.
But you should never stop hoping good.
After enough time has passed, you have to move on.
When you just broke away from a relationship, sometimes it takes years for all the wounds to heal.
But you should never stop hoping good.
After enough time has passed, you have to move on.
No and wouldnt.why would anyone in this day and age? Be stupid too.
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I really don't know how straight relationships work, but as far as i've seen, there are good and bad people, irrespective of whether they're guys or women.
When you just broke away from a relationship, sometimes it takes years for all the wounds to heal.
But you should never stop hoping good.
After enough time has passed, you have to move on.
M'Dear - straight, gay, lesbian - relationships are what they are. I have two dear friends who would never share a bed with a man, but their relationship is rock solid and has been for years and I'm happy for them both finding their 'ideal' partner.
Some wounds never completely heal - M'Lady and I have done what we can for each other, but the wounds we both suffered go deep - perhaps why we were attracted to each other.
We agreed early on that we would make no formal ties, and for over a decade it's served us well.
Some people are not meant to re-marry, we happen to be two of them
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There is no rhyme or reason to any of it at all. I've seen couples get married after only a couple of months of meeting or because they got pregnant and wanted to do the right thing who have all stayed married and happy. Then there are those couples that started out as high school sweethearts, grew up together, probably lost their virginities to one another and who have seen and experienced a lifetime together already who decide that marriage was the next natural step only to split up before the ink has dried on the marriage certificate.
Break-ups are just part of life and heartache, provided you actually felt something for your partner, is inevitable but it's not a death sentence either. Life goes on no matter what. The key is to learn from past experiences, stay open and always be grateful for the good times - there must have been good times if you ended up together in the first time, right?
Bottom line is doing what feels comfortable and right to you. If that means marrying once or following in the steps of Elizabeth Taylor or remaining steadfastly opposed to marriage just on principal alone, whatever floats your boat. Life is too short not to find your little piece of happiness no matter how that might take form.
Break-ups are just part of life and heartache, provided you actually felt something for your partner, is inevitable but it's not a death sentence either. Life goes on no matter what. The key is to learn from past experiences, stay open and always be grateful for the good times - there must have been good times if you ended up together in the first time, right?
Bottom line is doing what feels comfortable and right to you. If that means marrying once or following in the steps of Elizabeth Taylor or remaining steadfastly opposed to marriage just on principal alone, whatever floats your boat. Life is too short not to find your little piece of happiness no matter how that might take form.
Candyman
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I have that, but both of us were quite thoroughly burned by our ex's - since we need no formal recognition of what exists, we're quite happy being as we've been for over a decade now. For us, it works.
Congrats on the decade. Here's to many more.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
Well, as I can see, the marriage world is a gray area. You can never tell if it's a good idea, or a bad idea. I've never been married, and five years ago, I was completely anti marriage. I guess from watching two and a half men. Judith, was a cold hearted, soul sucking leach that just wanted more and more from Alan, who already had next to nothing to give up. I know it's fiction, and meant to be funny, but still. In 2010, I met someone I fell in love with, and really wanna marry. So, I guess what I'm saying, you can't really get advice on this, only you can make that decision. I'm sure you'll have people saying one thing, and others saying the opposite, but it's still up to you.
as like the last poster, this is #2 for me. I seriously doubt I would marry again but never say NEVER
Advanced Wordsmith
I have been married twice, one terrible, one somewhat better. I would want companionship but doubt I would ever marry again.
Candyman
1st marriage ended up getting divorced.
2nd marriage has lasted 31 years.
Would take someone mighty special to get me to the altar again.
Would I? Maybe.
2nd marriage has lasted 31 years.
Would take someone mighty special to get me to the altar again.
Would I? Maybe.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
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My marriage lasted 27 years before ending in divorce. Would I do it again? Not likely....not at this point in my life. I am open to having a relationship....just don't need the marriage part.
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Got divorced then year later remarried the woman I divorced must be mad lol but would not do it again ever under no circumstances
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No.
Not unless it was the first guy I ever loved, and I am sure we'll never run into each other. He wouldn't even recognize me now anyway
Not unless it was the first guy I ever loved, and I am sure we'll never run into each other. He wouldn't even recognize me now anyway
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No. I've been married too many times already. I'd turn gay.
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ha ha ha! I said that too, but I've put up with so much Female Drama I can't stand that either. LOL
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NO...I would NOT remarry again. I've been deeply hurt/divorced by 1st wife and hurt by 2nd wife. I'm just miserably hanging on for the last 20 plus years of our 42 year marriage. My pride is a big stumbling block.
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If I do, I will not settle like I did the last time, wife 2.0 will be the one I can't life without and not just someone I think will get better
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No. I would approach it totally differently. I'm not sure that marriage would ever be in the cards again. Living together, perhaps, but who knows
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