There is a thread in this Forum about why we are here, at Lush.
I am curious to know whether your significant other knows about you being on Lush. If they do, what do they think about you being here? If they don't, why are you keeping it a secret.
Hoping to get honest responses and better understand the Lush phenomenon.
For me, my husband knows that I spend time on Lush. He also knows that I dont engage in cybersex or role-playing and that I am really here just to chat and make some friends that might share some of the same interests. He knows that I did not come here for the sex but for some of the other assets that are available to me, such as the Forums and writing stories. He has even been online with me and chatted with a couple of my closest friends here.
Waiting to hear your story.
Reese
Yes, my wife knows I'm here - she's also a member, in fact. She knows I'm here primarily to read, write, and mod stories, but we also both have our own groups of friends here, and that's fine since it rarely goes beyond cyberspace other than the few members and couples we've become friends with and met in person.
I'm definitely far more active here than she is, but she has a lot of other hobbies. I write. She does proofread for me on occasion, however!
My wife knows I am on here and likes to read the stories. She also likes to read the postings that I make about our activities.
Hello,
Yes my Partner is fully aware of me being on here, I read several of the stories to her when she requires me to do so , Pluss I inform my Partner of any messages I receive from here. This is such a wonderful site so far .
Lush is kind of my little secret. I've opened a bit about it in recent times, but not to family, just to other online sites I'm on. It's a bit of a pain to maintain but my wife is not the sort who'll be sympathetic and understanding. She'll immediately start trying to diagnose a problem, not simply see it as me exercising my creativity.
All my closest friends and lovers know I'm on Lush. My youngest sister knows, but the site doesn't interest them in the least, so they don't pay much attention to what I do here. David and Seth like to read my stories before I post them, but that's about the extent of their interest in what I do here.
Thank you to those that responded and your honesty. It's always nice to learn a bit more about the people that you spend time with, even if its in a virtual world.
My husband asked me one day why I was smiling, so I showed him. He's a member now, but he's hardly ever on. Like sprite's wife he's glad I have somewhere I can go p;ay and leave him in peace.
My gf who is bi, knows i am here. We are in an open relationship.
She knows i may chat with women on here. She is fine with it.
However, she expects me not to meet a girl from here, in person. I am & will always be loyal with her.
In answer to your question only my husband and several friends I’ve gotten to know on Lush really know I’m on here.
For the most part my family and close personal friends - Do Not know!
Being a southern farm girl only my older brother Alan knows for sure; that’s because he’s a member and saw a picture I had posted on here at one time in the beginning as my avatar, he was shocked and told me in no uncertain terms to remove it - immediately!
Which I did!
Now as for the rest of my family they do not know and I’m sure they would not approve if they did.
My primary reason for becoming a member on Lush was so I could write some erotic stories most of which are true either of me or friends I have known, some all my life.
My husband knows I’m here and has known ever since we started dating.
He sometimes looks over my shoulder reading many stories posted on here - with me.
I’ve told him, he should get his own account; so he could comment on those stories he’d like to do so on.
I’m friends with six different men from all over the world whom I stay in touch with through our personal, private e-mail accounts.
My husband also knows this and he sometimes even adds his two-cent worth in with some of my comments to them.
~~Jessica~~
As I have posted many times, I value honesty, commitment and trust. I've never kept secrets from my husbands. So he not only knows of my Lush activities, but has complete access to them. It doesn't bother him that I spend time here. For that I'm eternally thankful and grateful because I've met some great people whom I would of never met otherwise.
My wife doesn't know I'm on here. Finding Lush has allowed me to broaden my horizon about all things sexual. There are still things I have no interest in but there are things I never thought I'd explore and Lush has been the perfect place to find and explore them. My wife would not be forgiving if she found out about Lush, that I write "sex" stories, that I communicate with other like minded people here and that I've made friends, both male and female, that I communicate with in other ways.
It is nearly two years since I discarded by husband, which was a really blessed subtraction! Just I don't know what he gets up to, he now has no reason to know where I go and what I get up to. Lush has helped me escape from a stultifying past and is opening the door to new possibilities. And if Ex has discovered this little part of my life then he shouldn't be snooping
My S/O knows I am on an erotica site. Which is how I found it, by searching "erotic stories", which I love to read. She is 68 and pretty much done (pretty much ? no. completely) with sex. I still have thoughts and urges of sex and may not get a full erection( meds) but can still masturbate. She is 68 and I am 67 .We were high school lovers who reconnected 45 years later and moved to Cozumel Mex.
