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have u met people u know on sites like this?

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Active Ink Slinger
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Hi. I often wonder if I will ever find or be found on here (or other sites) by anyone I know in the outside world. Has anyone had this experience and like to share?
Gentleman Stranger
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To my knowledge, I've not met anyone on Lush that I've previously known in "real life", but I have met some friends on Lush that I've now come to know and appreciate out in the world. Several so far that I've met and broken bread with, and several more with whom I share a commitment to meet if we're ever in the same geographic area. That aspect has been very rewarding.

Back in the days of porn theaters we would occasionally go to one for fun. Always wondered what we'd think if we ran into someone we knew, but then they were there too, so it's kind of one of those "don't ask, don't tell" things. Interesting if it was your boss, though, or maybe your minister...
Rainbow Warrior
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Not on a sex-oriented site per se, but back in my twenties, a lot of girls, including me, were very sexually open on MySpace, and my sister found my profile there and learned about my orientation and preference for women. That was pretty awkward, and led to more trouble with my dad when she had to go and rat me out to my parents. After that, everyone who I was afraid of learning about my orientation already knew, so since then, I haven't cared who finds me on a sex site. I was pretty much 'outed' to everyone who mattered.
Active Ink Slinger
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The closest would be seeing a picture of someone I recognized who lives less than a mile from me on a hook up site. I sent her a PM, but never heard back from her. On Lush, I have recently cut back my friends list and anyone still on it I'd be glad to have coffee or a beer with. No strings.
Princess D
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i have , but not on this site, was all i thought it would be and a whole lot more.............
The Goddess
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Not from this site. I'm still friends with some of them.

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Lurker
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Yes, we talked for quite a while and wound up in the same area so met for dinner. We are still good friends.
The Bee's Knees
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not here on lush. however, on my old site i ran across profiles of people from my hometown a few times here and there. that was just a general chat site so, no biggie.

Say. Her. Name.


Candyland Kitten
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I've not met anyone yet but I did start talking to someone and soon found out he works in the same small city that I do. And, I talked to another and found he is a member of my mom's gym and I used to go with her there when I was in her town. I think that kept me from getting to know either of them very well. I have made other friends here though who I'd meet for a casual lunch or whatnot in a heartbeat And of course I have one that I'd meet for lunch, dinner, breakfast in bed...repeat again and again and again.
Lurker
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When I worked my earlier job, I knew a couple of my colleagues were also lush members. Since they liked to keep it a secret, I didnt talk about it with them either.
Active Ink Slinger
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No I haven't. But some of my friends here are definitely on my list, whom I would want to meet in real life!
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No, not from a sexual site but from a band site. It sure was an experience.
Gold hearted fun loving Aussie Angel
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No i have not although there is a few i would like too.
Active Ink Slinger
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I have come really close. But there is one person here, I believe, but they will not confirm, knows me.
If you do NOT want your identity to be revealed (in real life) while you are here, you must be very careful not to send them emails, photos, etc. from you regular off site emails.
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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Though the OP makes it more clear the thread title is rather ambiguous and that shows in the comments. That said I have never found someone I already knew in the physical world here on Lush or on a similar site.


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Advanced Wordsmith
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Not that I know of,but would be interesting if I did find a freind or family members

Active Ink Slinger
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I'm new so no I haven't run into this yet, but I have told friends about it to get them to join.

Active Ink Slinger
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Yes. It's always better when you have things in common and chat off site. You get to really know the person.

Active Ink Slinger
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Oohhh, I misread. But yes, a few of my babes have been on other adult sites. They're not on Lush.

Le whoops.

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I met my gynecologist on here a while back. But I wasn't showing anything he hadn't seen before so no worries.