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Has Lush changed your assumptions about the sex lives of others?

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Quote by mynameisearl
Nah. If anyone had much of a sex life then they wouldn't be on here. And yes that does include me. Even if youre an author doing it is more fun than writing about it


With Respect, TOTAL NONSENSE!!!!!!!!

Let me draw a parallel... I'm a keen Chef... I entertain my friends by hosting dinner parties several times a week... (They are a success!)

I ALSO keenly read recipie books and indeed post my own culinary creations on websites, (including THIS one!!!)

To SUGGEST that an academic and keen interest in the THEORY and practice of cooking precludes one from cooking and indeed eating is at least mis-guided and dare I say FASCILE!

To READ about a perfectly cooked Beef Strognanov cooked in youghurt and cream can be interesting and pleasurable. (BUt not as much as cooking and eating/serving one...)

To SUGGEST (as you do) that one negates the other is frankly to imlpy a lack of imagination, a lack of adventure and honestly, a lack of life experience...)

If this were a School Report I'd suggest you could and MUST do rather better!

xx SF

(My own sex life In Real Life has been VASTLY improved by my experiences here, the friends I've met, realizations and surprizing insights, the stories I've read, the honesty and erudition of my fellow writers... GOOD GOD MAN! Lush is a RESOURCE!!!!!! Use It!)

I was about 45 when I joined Lush... (I was not inexperienced at that time...) What AMAZED me was the absolute sense of giggling rude fun that MANY women enjoy during the ACTUAL sexual experience... THe fault is of course MINE! My own condititioning and repression FORBADE me from EVEN PLAYFULLY exploring avenues I thought might offend or unsettle, EVEN IF THOSE ACTIVITIES were meant in loving, playful passionate fun... Even if I wanted to try that... Lush Women have thought me to be brave enough to TRY... (If women don't like it they'll tell you so...) Mostly they DO, I find... Little Harlot Sexy Angels...)

Lush has taught me a lot... xx SF
Prolific Writer
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Not really........

I have always thought that people are very sexy in their private lives.

I know I am....

I am just happy to know that their are very horny people like me in the world.

So if anything I feel good among like minded people.....


xooxoxo
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Yes. When I was young, I was fairly adventurous about sex, and I realize now much my actual activities have withered into the plainest, most timid sex imaginable. To tell the truth, I've found that it's difficult for me even to fantasize innovatively.

I regard the stories I read here as tutorials created by experts as a public service!
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since joining lush I find it has helped me a lot. both myself and my husband have disabilities,my husband has physical disabilities,and I had a nervous breakdown earlier in the year, its also hard to get out and about as I also have agoraphobia( scared of being outside)
I brought up in a very conservative way,and went to boarding school( which I hated!!!!!!! )

when was at primary school was not allowed to bring boys home,so did not know much if anything about sex,was brought up to regard it as just for making babies!!!!!!!!1
was in first marriage at 22, but back then did not enjoy sex.
we had my beautiful daughter,who I love with all my being. then he went and found someone 22 years his junior, and made me feel so worthless.
I am now married to the most wonderful man who is so right for me and we both love each other to bits.
We have been married for 25 years now ,and he is the man my man my love my all my being
he is the reason I smile
but and all this is the truth,we did not have any sex for over 15 years, but I knew we were missing out,but had resigned to a no sex marriage.
we would kiss,but nothing else.
then I had my breakdown earlier this year( suffer with anxiety, and depression ) and my husband came every day to visit me, even though he has great difficulty walking,so needed his wheelchair
Why Did He Do This?
because he truly loves me!!!!!!!!!
Then on one of his visits he gave me a deep passionate kiss,and I kissed him back, and ever since we have been enjoying wonderful joyful sex, and have sex mostly every day,and I love my husband to bits.
disabilities can make sex difficult,like positions etc, but we find that love can overcome this, and yes we enjoy joyful great sex brilliant orgasms as well!
does anyone else have disabilities, and do you still enjoy sex. just a thought.
thanks for reading
x o x
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well im here,and we have great sex my friend,we both enjoy this site very much,and the stories.
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I suppose it has really... Before i joined Lush i guess I assumed sex was an infrequent thing but then I read stories about people fucking plumbers that come over or having sex with the next door neighbors etc. and now i think everyone is at it most of the time haha


I know i have to take the stories i read with a pinch of salt though because when you're lost in a good story, it can be hard to determine when the truth and fantasy cross over.... But then again i suppose the fantasy of it all is what keeps me here!
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Not really. I grew up with a very sexually oriented and active crowd of people my own age.
My experiences here confirm that there ARE people like me on Lush and I am no different to most here. I love it.
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Yes it has in every direction one can imagine. Many complain about how some people in sites like this can be so crude. Why deny it?
Happens to the best of sites. BUT and I wish I could write this in HUGE letters: some of the most intelligent human beings I have ever met, I have met here.
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No, it hasn't. What really changed my assumptions was meeting everyday people who actually DO have wild sex lives.
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At first, I was worried that my sexual mind was weird. Then after a while on Lush, I saw that I'm no different than the next guy/girl.

Now, Lush is home. I belong here