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friends with benefits, married or not, do you have one?

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I did have a FWB, or so I thought. I knew him for a long time and it was just what I needed...loved that we got along well, had fun and that there was no obligations. What I did have was an expectation...an expectation that we were actually friends and with that I expect no bull shit... Sadly he could not deliver on that which turned us into fuck buddies. Call me weird to make the distinction...but for me there is a difference.
Advanced Wordsmith
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yes I have one but its a whole lot risky because its my wifes best friend and our next door neighbor
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Yes I have one and he is married
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes I have one and he is married
Advanced Wordsmith
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Had one. We really clicked. We were married. Just not to each other. smile
Ambrose
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Yes I do
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Had one on occasion before, currently I have 2, they are both best friends and know about the whole situation, also helps that they are both Bi and prefer it when its all 3 of us. as for marriage..i am too young
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I've had six FWB's ... three of them at the same time. They knew each other .. were mates together and were all aware of the sexual circumstances. But I'd been friends with those three since my school days.

The other three came along individually.
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No, but I need one. .... Anyone looking?
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No . I would like one . Anyone in Uk up to being my FWB
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Yes several in fact, and yes I am married and we both know about the existence of the others friends.

Some we may both know and some we do not.

Since our marriage has always been open, it has never been been an issue.

In some cases there are feeling more than just sex. But that does not even approach the kind of feelings my husband and I share.
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No. I just don't think it can work, someone always ends up getting hurt, eventually.
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I had a few. It always went a little south at the end, but I think it could be really good if you had a group of friends or people that were all in the knowhow. I had that with my friend and him and his gf and we all slept with each other and even had three ways. It was fun and sexy and everyone enjoyed it!
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nope i dont have one
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yes also both of us married, but wifes don't like it as much as we. We get together and suck each other off, also love kissing him and rimming his ass.
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Quote by thesexynun
my last lover was my best friend first

I loved him and found him desirable for he was my friend

I don't think I could sleep with someone I liked so much and not have feelings

I so agree with DPW....

but to me after the loss of my friend and lover

I would vote to keep the friend every time





THIS is what is important ... in real life or in computer life even when the "lover" part of the relationship as gone by the wayside.
Love Bug
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While the idea in theory tends to sound divine.... I have not ever mastered the ability to be intimate without being intimate. I always associate sex with emotional connection, that is the beauty of sex. Sharing something uninhibited with someone that you choose...... yep all sorts of tangled up in attached strings. Oh well.
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yes I do (and married)
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Yes definitely. We are all single and we take care of each other's needs; emotional and physical. Why change a winning formula
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I even heard of one not working out too well too. So, you tell me if they work.
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I had one, she was my professor. ended up quite badly, coz sex was all about her.
Active Ink Slinger
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Being out on the road for the last 10 Years...
Haven't had time for what You would call a real relationship...
But My Best Friend of the Last 20 Years... And I do get togeather every once in a While...
It is Nice too take care of our needs once in a while...
when we Both need too...
Active Ink Slinger
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i currently have two FWBs, one male, one female
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I am married but I have a female friend with benifits.
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My girlfriend and I have a couple of recurring guests in our bedroom, and sometimes we see them on our own.
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I am not married and bisexual. I have a group of FWB none of whom are married. I would not marry as I could not commit to remaining faithful. We are all professionaly employed.
I live with one girl but we are not 'partners' although she sleeps with me. There are 6 in the group 3 females and 3 males. The others do not partner and live separately and all have decided quality not quantity is our mutual desire.We are all nudists.
We all cohabit with one another and we do have a preference of partner.Threesomes and foursomes are pretty regular - the whole group get together for weekends away occasionally and whilst not an orgy it is share and share alike. Some of us travel and take the chance to enjoy a bit of 'foreign' flesh if we consider it safe. We would not engage with a married person normally unless they are a couple in the affair. There are no secrets and as we have been together as FWB for over a year there is no jealousy between us. Our relationships are public when we are together and very open. There are no closed doors.
We consider ourselves unique and very very privilaged to be able to enjoy each others company in the way we do and remain close friends.
It is very convenient if we need a partner to attend a function etc, we have a choice.

We consider our relationship is unusual and very special in that it has lasted for as long as it has and we remain friends.Sex to us is recreational.
We have had requests for others to join our group but we prefer to remain as we are in an very intimate group of FWB. We have all had good and bad experiences before we got together and now we are happy we want to keep it that way. We are all in our early/mid 20's.
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Quote by Sarah84
Yes definitely. We are all single and we take care of each other's needs; emotional and physical. Why change a winning formula


a FWB.. one good friend or perhaps two.. such a wonderful insurance against loneliness..
such fun to explore with...