I am not giving my opinion at this moment, but would to hear yours.
I chat with many of my friends on here with the black boxes and don't consider it privating I guess. In my mind private is directly related to cybering, to me...
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My opinion is that it is a communication tool that Lush has provided so you can contact a friend who just came on or them you. It is a polite way to say something without totally disrupting a person. If both are free and want to chat that is what the chat window is for. I do not believe it is the same as a whisper or private chat.
I guess it all comes down to what the conversation is about. BB is faster and easier than chat rooms or chat windows. I use BB frequently but, as I said, it all depends on what the subject is.
Agree with who's_that_girl. Depends a bit on how you define privating...
I prefer the black box. It's all how you define your privating...
I define privating as a conversation that no one but the participants can be a part of, regardless of the topic. Black boxes between two people, that no one else can see i.e. private.... is privating. No matter if you're cybering or if you're talking about lawn care, cooking, football, or twerking. Hell, someone reading my cyber sessions isn't nearly as troubling as someone reading any real personal/real life conversations i've had in private here.. via black box.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates I use black boxing to talk with people easier, it's fast and simple. Sometimes annoying, because the boxes are small. I don't think it's always "private" some things I'd say in public, if we were. But, it can be private things also. It depends on what we are talking about.
I don't consider the BB as privating. I kinda have to agree with curious3045, I relate private chat with cybering. Just my opinion.
Technically, if it isn't public, then it is private, so yeah, it is private messaging. It's a more "instant" form of actually inboxing someone, but if it is a conversation between two folk and nobody else, then it must be private.
Yes it is just like a whisper, no one else can see it but you and the person your talking to. So, technically its private not public...It's still private no matter if there is intimacy involved or not...
It's a private conversation between two people. I would think it is private regardless of what the topic is being discussed. I think that some in chat ask to "go private" and that could me BB, private chat as friends, or a private room in chat. That "private" conversation could be to cyber or just to chat. I'm actually now more interested in what prompted the question :-)
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I think it should be possible to press a button on the black box interface and have it present as private chat regardless of what the other person has as their setting.
Black boxes just get confusing. The chat interface is just a better way of organizing the conversation.
I think it is, and then it doesn't make you feel bad because you never forget a black box because you can see it in the corner of your eye, but if youre privating its a totally separate window so you can forget about it and completely leave someone hanging ! so I think black boxing is better than privating. and on top of that no one can see it but you and the other person so its just as private as the window.
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Like some have said above, yes, black boxing can be cyber, throwaway, intimate, quirky, irreverent, sexy...
By it's very nature, it is a private chat between two lushies...
It could be an innocent chat, but just as easily a steamy sex session...
lol...To bad we can't vote on this some way and see the tally...
OK I should of said, do you think BB is a way to communicate with your friends when you see them online. This has nothing to do with cybering or sexual talking, or do you think it is privating?
Yes, it 's between you and the other individual.
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I would say yes it is private. I would also state "however, i am sure Gavin would be able to locate the records if he so needed to or desired, being the computer King here and all.
As we are always reminded, Nothing on the internet is every lost or private.
I would say yes it is private. I would also state "however, i am sure Gavin would be able to locate the records if he so needed to or desired, being the computer King here and all.
As we are always reminded, Nothing on the internet is every lost or private.
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