We must seem like a terrible bunch to this woman.,,,But she didn't say anything about how their relationship was going before she found him out.
wow i feel bad for the woman.
That's hilarious, we actually had a post about the same thing in here a short while ago.
About if it's cheating? Yeah I remember.
Yeah, I think I asked that question. If I remember right it was almost unanimously considered cheating by the respondants at the time.
I think he knew it was and did it anyway. Like most people do when they cheat.
That's why I ONLY use a computer with polarized glass, ROT13 cypher, Point2Point closed loop cryptography, in a basement fall out blast room shelter, with lead lined, tin foil draped walls and curtains.
Or at work.
ROFLMFAO
That previous conversation must've been before I discovered this joint, so I'll wade into the pool now. As if anyone gives a shit.
Since the advent of internet technologies in my region of the world, and my discovery of chatrooms as well as internet chat...I've only been involved in what I would call a truly monogamous relationship, once - and that for a brief period of just slightly less than a year's duration.
During that time-frame, I engaged in chat sessions with any number of possible females. Exact memory escapes me now, but I'm pretty certain that some discussion of sex did arise on numerous occasions, as it's a popular topic and I certainly wouldn't shy away from it.
I do know that at no time during that real relationship with my partner, did I ever attempt to arrange an actual meeting with an internet acquaintance for the sole purpose of 'hey, let's fuck'.
That would be cheating, in my book. I realize that my morality is a lot more open than some people's. What is normal for me is not for other people and what may well make me twinge or recoil - would be perfectly acceptable behavior for others. I've lived in a glass house all my adult life, so I try not to have any stones lying about with which to pitch. I don't always do a real good job of that.
Like Jimmy Carter, a former President of the United States, I do lust for women - nearly constantly. Unlike President Carter, I don't feel a twinge of guilt for doing so. Unlike President Clinton, I've never cheated on someone I've agreed to not cheat upon.
I would feel like a shitheel if I actually acted upon such lust and physically engaged in a sexual fling with someone else, while I was supposedly involved in an agreed upon one-on-one partnership with another woman - who I felt or thought, was holding up her end of our bargain.
But again, that's just me.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
You talk a lot of sense Wmm.
It can be harmless fun, but so often leads to something else.
So when you're in a one on one and agree not to cheat on each other, is it cheating to have cyber sex with another?
A lot of it has to do with what you're choosing to share or to withhold from your partner. If, in your relationship, you know that one of the other of you likes to chat and flirt with folks, whether it be your co-workers or somebody you met online, and you're open and honest about it, it can be OK, as long as that's what you both feel is acceptable.
Some relationships have stricter rules than other. Those rules are made by one or both of the partners.
If, on the other hand, you keep secrets from your mate, then that is unacceptable. That is when it becomes infidelity, or, literally, un-faithful to your promises, either expressed or implied.
