I often wonder why I like extreme rough sex when I have such an abusive past. At first I felt bad when ever I would engage in rough sex, then I realised that I like it, so I should enjoy it. I still wonder what draws me to sex when it goes to the extreme, but it only matters that I do, not why.
Legs, legs and more legs. A shapely pair of legs in high heels has just always seemed to give me an instant boner. Stockings on those legs is like adding a cherry to my favourite ice-cream sundae, but the legs need to be long, shapely and in heels.
As for the sex part, my fetish dictates that I would much rather bend a leggy, fully dressed woman over the back of my sofa or over my desk for a good firm rogering than the more sedentary (romantic) bedroom and lingerie scenario typically reserved for couples MWK (married with kids). The simple act of taking the woman suddenly, passionately and, seemingly, unexpectedly makes it all so intensely fulfilling.
Unfortunately, it does not happen as often as I'd like - "you'll smudge my make up"; "we'll get caught" etc feature a lot as you get older **sighs**
Nudie also captures a lot of my own feelings/thoughts.
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
i love petite girls with small round bums. i also love girls say a size 12, slightly dumpy, but who you would never call fat. i do have a major panty fetish and love to have sex with knickers on, both of us that is. another preference to me is cumming inside her, to me sex is never finished until we both climax when my cock is in her vagina
I like girls with thick meaty asses. Hispanic, Asian (especially Filipino) and white girls are what I'm most attracted to. Don't really know why. Maybe because I'm Latino and these are the girls that look most like me, dark hair and tanned skin. As for me being more of a butt man than a breast man I really don't know why, just like em more I guess.
i have a panty fetish and love when a woman talks dirty. i think the panty fetish comes from when i was a kid and saw my sister and her friends changing and got a look at them in their panties, it has now grown to thongs, g-strings, anything silky and sexy. i also believe that i like when women talk dirty to me comes from the first girl i had sex with who would always talk dirty, saying the nasty things she wanted me to do to her. i guess your first time sticks with you more than i thought.
i wish i could... i have an embarrassing amount of them, some quite outside the norm of what i think is normal, and believe me, i've sat down and tried to figure out why more then once, and haven't been able to come up with a single answer. i mean, why do i enjoy being humilated sexually? in a normal setting, being embarrassed purposefully makes me angry, but mix it into sexual play, and it turns me into sexual jelly. Pain is another thing i just don't understand - all i can really come up with is that the intenisity of the physical sensation, whether it is pleasure or pain stimulates something inside of me. pain for the sake of just pain i avoid, but mixed into sexual play, once again, it's a major turn on.
one thing i HAVE figured out! watersports... sorry if this is going way out there, but i had an ephiphany once.. it's the intamacy of it! i mean, it's the one thing that even the closest of couples aren't often comfy with... we tend to close the door when we go pee and certainly, it's not something most people run around and do in front of someone else - it's such an intimate thing, and sharing that is beautiful - there's a trust involved, that the other person won't think it's sick, and drinking from someone else? taking part of them into you like that? how much more intimate can you get? Masturbating in front of someone is very much the same, as well - it's something that a lot of people are embarrassed by or ashamed of, so sharing that is, again, such a feeling of intamacy.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I have a thing for 5'2 1/2" half-irish, half-fillipina women. But I have a pretty good idea where that came from. Another is that I have a absolutely huge thing for girl on girl action, specifically a supposedly straight woman being "corrupted" or coerced in to experiencing another woman. I think in part that has to do with the whole, two is better than one, thing, but there's probably more to it as well.
Also have a little thrill over the idea of corrupting a religious woman, which would probably be my version of rebelling, or getting payback for being forced to go to church all the time when I was young.
I have quite a few fetishes. Some you can read about in my stories and others I haven't admitted to yet. I do have some theories that explain certain fetishes, but I'm not willing to discuss those details openly as they relate to personal childhood experiences. And I also have some fetishes that I don't understand at all.
I love a woman's ass. I love to touch it, hold it, squeeze it, lick and kiss and suck and fuck it. I have no idea where that fascination came from.
Then there's that whole Band-Aid thing, but I don't want to go into that. ;)
I agree with LMB. With the right partner and communication you can walk that fine line. I am dominate by nature and love to find the right combination of pain to induce the maximum amount of pleasure...
I discovered after giving my first blow job I totally get off on controlling a man's body. A little light bondage, face sitting and spanking is always fun but my favorites are cock sucking and ass fucking. Love to make them moan, grunt and groan with a good prostate massage and milk them dry till they shake all over - so delicious!
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! 
perhaps you might find this kinda helps you understand your own reasons for loving sex?
I hate to admit it but I think a lot of it comes from life experiences and environment. Taking sexual control was probably the first control I really took over anything in My life.