I cannot argue with that. Love the taste of the female orgasm. Not given a guy a blow job (yet). But yes, tasting the female orifices adds a dimension to intimacy.
Blow jobs are more intimate than lots of different sexual practices; but I don't think it's as intimate as facing your lover, looking at their eyes and kissing them as you both cum.
But maybe that's just me....to be honest, I tend to find blowjobs more tickly and/or awkward than 'intimate'!
I find blow jobs impersonal.
love it, that video is so true
love it, that video is so true
I didn't click the link, but as a guy I don't find receiving a blow job half as intimate as regular sex.
I agree with the link...oral sex is far more intimate and you are focusing on one's pleasure. Sex is a mutual (or should be) experience with reciprocity. I don't blow every guy I have sex with.
I think it's situational. I, like a lot of girls in high school, used to give boys bj's because we weren't ready to go all the way with them. We didn't even have to get naked. To a lot of girls, blowjobs are easy, not much emotional involvement. But deciding to let a guy in your pussy is a bigger decision for most girls. So in that sense, sex is more intimate than bj's because we have more emotionally involved with a guy to get to that point with them.
I agree with everything she said.
He had some good points too, but came second in the argument.
I would like to hear their arguments after he performed oral sex on her.
I did enjoy it though.
Beth makes a good argument too.
they are...good point!. Genital to Genital sex is like a roast dinner...whereas a blow job is like the most decadent after dinner dessert (or decadent snack) I could think of!.
Well actually my above line appears that ive delivered the odd blow job...not so...though, I wouldn't be totally ruling it out....lolz.
i could never view a blow job as more intimate than sex -and i ABSOLUTELY enjoy giving them. it's not what i turn to when wanting to feel close.
yes, very intimate, As you get older, it's not aways easy to keep the old penis hard enough for a good fuck, but the tongue is always hard, and I find pussy very tasty.
No question about it... oral sex of any kind is more intimate.
Less intimate...at least fellatio is, to my mind.
I agree with HoneyDipped, if I want to feel truly loved and close to my partner, it has to be more than oral. Which is not to say I don't absolutely love performing fellatio, it's by far one of my favourite sexual activities, it's just not more intimate than actual intercourse.
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