Has anyone, before coming a Lush member, considered themselves to be quite prudish, whether in a long term relationship or not and have since come (completely) out of their shell and maybe even discovered a few things about themself? Similarly, have you remained in that shell, but continued to to enjoy the delights of Lush
My twin sister is the shy prude. I'm the slutty extrovert! lol
I had moved beyond "prude" well before I showed up here but could probably have fit that label, at least publicly, back in my youth. In private, with only me around, it was a different story even then, though.
Picky but always far from being a prude
Depends.
If a chick is hella ugly, it's like whoa put a burka on.
If a chick is hella hot, it's like yeah fuck it, take your panties off you're a free spirit!
Most definitely. Some things I just can't comprehend. I was pretty much a straight arrow until Lush. Lush opened my eyes to other lifestyles, not all of which I agree with, but then I don't have to participate in them or live them. I only expect the same consideration for what some Lush members might consider a mundane sexual life.
Let's say I was very traditional until my carefully constructed world was blown apart by a painful divorce. I was introduced to Lush during the confusing months when I was newly single and seeking to rediscover myself. I suppose you could say that I am being de-pruded and Lush has helped with that process. I have a way to go and I am not sure how far down that road I will journey. I have been allowing myself to get to know the naughtier girl who has always been there inside but who until now has been suppressed. I have done a few things I never thought were in me, so I guess it is a case of watching this space!
It doesn't have to be to everyone, but to me Prude defines someone openly Anti-Sexual. In that light, I am not nor have I ever BEEN Prudish. Selective in the extreme? Indeed!
Yes, I was a prude. I was afraid of what gave me pleasure. I have come out of my shell so to speak and lush has helped with that.
Yes, I was a prude. I was afraid of what gave me pleasure. I have come out of my shell so to speak and lush has helped with that.
So pleased, Maebe, that your shell has slipped loose. I have had my moments in the past but they are behind me as well. Life is too short.
I was a total kinkbox before I knew what sex was. The closest thing I had to a 'prudish' period was the rather silly decade or so where all my convoluted sexual fantasies resulted in me doing something to another man - even though I was, definitely, 100%, seriously though, straight.
I'm bi, happily so, an no longer need a Rube-Goldberg machine of excuses to do the things I want to.
Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...
Never was prudish....far from it in fact.
when I asked that question on a UK chat site I got hung, drawn & quartered
Never been prudish, but was a little shy in my teens