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Feedback on adding a "Cuckold" category

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Would you like to see a Cuckold category added?

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Yes (38 votes) 123%
No (7 votes) 23%
Not fussed (2 votes) 6%
Cuckwhatnow? (1 vote) 3%
Katje
Buxom Enigma
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Quote by ByronLord
I am not finding this a descriptive tag. What is being described is a branch of BDSM. Rather than the usual definition which is just adultery.

The humiliation thing ain't my bag. But I have banged a preacher's wife or two because the husband is a bigoted loathsome wretch.


How big of you, Byron. A preacher's wife needs a good bounce every now and again, too! I used to know one of those loathsome wretches...
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Noreasonneeded
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So it sounds like at some point there will be a Cuckold category. Another two cents from me then, for what it's worth (yes, it's worth two cents).

Without beleaguering the root word (the cuckoo bird), the concept of cuckolding is somewhat antiquated, having it's basis in the wife giving to another man that which is the husband's by right of marriage. Back when a husband nearly owned a spouse, it made no difference whether he was complicit, aware, watching, etc. If another man had the wife, she had cuckolded him. As most of 21st Century thinking has moved past this level of ownership, Cuckolding has trasnformed into its more extreme versions, which are more akin to Fetish, Crossdressing, BDSM and Bisexual. IMHO.

So technically, any story in Wife Lovers involving extramarital sex by the wife is a cuckold story. Which would technically leave in Wife Lovers only the "Faithful Wives" stories. And I would propose that is it the Faithful Wife stories that are miscategorized, belonging in Love Stories, or, if having sex with her husband for some other reason or in some other manner, (oral, anal, reluctant) belong in that category, as that, and not her married status, is the reason for the story.

As such, the term term "Loving Wives" is likely a misnomer unless designated, as it currently is, to include all loving wives activities.

LAST POINT - What is the Male Equivalent of the Loving Wives category? When the husband has sex outside the marriage, where does that story go?

Food for thought.
AbigailThornton
Orgasm Aficionado
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It does seem to be a popular fetish and I just voted to add it. However, it is a logical subcategory of 'Wife Lovers' so already has a comfortable place to sit on Lush. Perhaps the description for the Wife Lovers category could be expanded to specifically include cuckolding?
Ruthie
Empress of the Moon
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Quote by ByronLord
. But I have banged a preacher's wife or two because the husband is a bigoted loathsome wretch.


That would go under wife lover stories I think. If she tied him up and forced him to watch while you had sex wtih her, that would be a cuckold story. If I understand it correctly. In the wife lover's story, he wouldn't have to even be aware that you were banging his wife, but in the cuckold story he'd have to be involved.
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KrissyS
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This is a very popular genre. As some have already said, there is more to wife lovers than just cuckolding and I believe more to cuckolding than fits neatly into the wife lovers category, so it's a yes from me.
WellMadeMale
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Having screwed more than a few women in front of their boyfriend or husband, while the fellow was made to take notes, sit on his hands or play with his limp dick... I thought afterward that I had just participated in a cuckolding event.

But those fellows were not tied up, chained down in the corner or forced to do anything they didn't want to do.

The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Having screwed more than a few women in front of their boyfriend or husband, while the fellow was made to take notes, sit on his hands or play with his limp dick... I thought afterward that I had just participated in a cuckolding event.

But those fellows were not tied up, chained down in the corner or forced to do anything they didn't want to do.



Desperation is a hell of a thing.
Guest
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isn't a cockatoo a cuckold or is that a canary....oh! never mind
WellMadeMale
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Quote by Magical_felix


Desperation is a hell of a thing.


One might say the same thing about homophobia too.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Quote by WellMadeMale


One might say the same thing about homophobia too.


What in the fuck are you talking about old man? Are you confessing right now?
Guest
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Surely cuckolding must mean more than just wife sharing, or extramarital sex for the wife. A key element is the humiliation and emasculation of the cuckold, and taken to its extreme, in addition to losing his wife to a stronger and more sexually exciting male, should involve giving up control over his home, income, his sexuality and the freedom to make decisions for himself. In effect he should become a slave devoted only to supporting his wife and her lover in all ways, including financial, and he should not expect any signs of love or affection because he has become a non-person.
Buz
The Linebacker
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Quote by ByronLord
The humiliation thing ain't my bag. But I have banged a preacher's wife or two because the husband is a bigoted loathsome wretch.


That is just too good of a storyline to pass up. If you don't write a story about banging the preacher's wife, I am coming to MA and kick your ass!
Buz
The Linebacker
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I'd like to know a better more clarified definition of cuckold and what a Cuckold category would contain.

Does it have to be humiliating for instance? What about guys who prompt their wives to have sex with other men so they can watch? Is that a cuckold or a wife watcher? And what about swingers, where both mutually swap with another couple or either bring in another guy for a threesome or a girl for a threesome? Where and how to we separate these?

It seems like there is a lot of interest in this sex genre. I would think that at the very least it should be changed to Wife Lovers and Cuckold, if not a Cuckold category of its own. But lean toward supporting the addition of an independent Cuckold category.
nicola
Matriarch
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Coming soon Buz, with a clear definition...
Guest
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I would rather have a True Story category if a new story section was added.
Guest
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(Growls!)

Cuckholding is covered under "Wife Lovers".

(When I joined first there were only three categories... Sex, Lesbian Sex, and THAT one!)

xx SF
Guest
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Quote by summerjones
I would rather have a True Story category if a new story section was added.


I'd like to have Cheerleading Lisa pop out of a huge cake on my fucking birthday but that's not going to happen either....

xx SF
Shylass
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I'd like to have Cheerleading Lisa pop out of a huge cake on my fucking birthday but that's not going to happen either....

xx SF


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Bossyshoebitch
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Is there any chance of adding a Cuckquean category?
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Quote by Bossyshoebitch
Is there any chance of adding a Cuckquean category?

I'm assuming they are 1 and the same