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Where do you go for casual sex?
Active Ink Slinger
I limit my casual play to a couple very close friends, where there's a lot of trust and affection but no desire for a relationship.
But if you're really looking for random encounters, isn't Craigslist the place to go? I think people are mostly doing it through personals and dating sites...but I'm sure if you're feeling old fashioned and romantic you can still hook up with someone in a bar :P
But if you're really looking for random encounters, isn't Craigslist the place to go? I think people are mostly doing it through personals and dating sites...but I'm sure if you're feeling old fashioned and romantic you can still hook up with someone in a bar :P
Active Ink Slinger
The beach, a club, the mall, cruising the strip at night.
My first story for Lush is posted, The Goodbye Fuck.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/the-goodbye-fuck.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/the-goodbye-fuck.aspx
Her Royal Spriteness
next door. and no, i am not kidding. i am a very lucky girl to have my best friend with benefits and her lover living in the house next door to ours. there is a lot of cross pollination going on in our neighborhood. 
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Active Ink Slinger
For me, "casual sex" is akin to "military justice"; there is a basic dichotomy within the phrase..
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
In-House Sapiosexual
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For me, "casual sex" is akin to "military justice"; there is a basic dichotomy within the phrase..
I can sort of relate to this statement. Although, it did make me laugh at first. If I decide that I want to keep it casual and we are getting ready to do this just because I need the sex and I need it now, it generally isn't with a complete stranger. I'm not going to a bar or anything like that. I may go back to where I have been before or to someone new that I've mentally said to myself, at some point, "I'd fuck you--maybe not right now but eventually." I have to be careful about "revisiting". They are generally very eager to get back in on a regular basis. That's drama I don't need.
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I'm curious about where you all meet people for casual, intimate encounters.
Bedrooms and the back seat of cars seem to be the most popular.
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I'm curious about where you all meet people for casual, intimate encounters.
Bedrooms and the back seat of cars seem to be the most popular.
Yeah thats what made me laugh about this topic, its like casual sex isnt allowed in the bedroom or something, why would casual sex be any different to relationship sex? What are you expecting to hear? "Oh yeah I take a girl to the Big Ben Clocktower in London once a month, and fuck her there, cos you know, im casual like that...." LOL
I think the "operative" word in the original question was "meet"....as in looking for someone new that is not in your sex circle of friends. I'm too old and outdated to offer much of a response to that!!
I heard it said one time that there were three categories/types of sex: (1) Loving...all romantic, lovey-dovey, possibly marriage minded etc. (2) Screwing...sex with a good friend like a sporting activity, etc... possibly a forerunner to the "Friends with benefits", and (3) Fucking...just for the pure, raw, sex-of-the-matter...NO feelings, emotions involved...just DO IT for you own gratification.
I heard it said one time that there were three categories/types of sex: (1) Loving...all romantic, lovey-dovey, possibly marriage minded etc. (2) Screwing...sex with a good friend like a sporting activity, etc... possibly a forerunner to the "Friends with benefits", and (3) Fucking...just for the pure, raw, sex-of-the-matter...NO feelings, emotions involved...just DO IT for you own gratification.
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my office
Rookie Scribe
The thing is, I am lesbian & I've met both gay & straight people who find find that incredibly hard to do ... which I can't understand.. I've never had trouble hooking up .... at school/college, later at work, bar, tourist destinations, airport (just that once), concerts (but of course).. I did hookup with someone I met online a couple of times, but in my experience, even for the casual hookups, I've enjoyed it more doing with someone I met in real life. Maybe just the fact of seeing, talking to , touching someone is much more erotic ... I dunno..
Active Ink Slinger
I live at the beach, Vacationers, tourists love to hook up with the locals. I'm a local and I work at or on the beach.
My first story for Lush is posted, The Goodbye Fuck.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/the-goodbye-fuck.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/the-goodbye-fuck.aspx
Active Ink Slinger
Clubs. So many girls to hit on their
Internet Philosopher
It's kind of tricky. Most of my casual sex attempts seemed to turn serious fairly quickly.
Active Ink Slinger
I am now in a serious relationship. Before that I'd go clubbing or maybe someone from the gym.
Constant Gardener
If I'm paying, it's Motel 6. That's the very definition of low rent casual. Plus we're on equal footing.
I'm not dragging a married couple back to my crib and I shore ain't going with them back to theirs. That's how people end up getting all disappeared, being sold into sexual slavery or worse - being filmed and ending up on the internet and not getting paid at all.
WMM: The Dungeon Gimp, Part IV ... is not my idea of a good time.
I'm not dragging a married couple back to my crib and I shore ain't going with them back to theirs. That's how people end up getting all disappeared, being sold into sexual slavery or worse - being filmed and ending up on the internet and not getting paid at all.
WMM: The Dungeon Gimp, Part IV ... is not my idea of a good time.
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Alpha Blonde
- a bar
- the gym
- vacation or party-weekend in another city with friends
- Twitter
It all depends on what you're in the mood for.
For the most part, girls can get 'casual sex' wherever they want, so it doesn't require that much effort into planning and strategy.
As for location - my place, his place or a hotel.
No Motel-6, WMM... Blech...
- the gym
- vacation or party-weekend in another city with friends
It all depends on what you're in the mood for.
For the most part, girls can get 'casual sex' wherever they want, so it doesn't require that much effort into planning and strategy.
As for location - my place, his place or a hotel.
No Motel-6, WMM... Blech...
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
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No Motel-6, WMM... Blech...
I call Motel-6 .... or any other motel WITHOUT an elevator .... camping!! I don't camp!! hehehe
Alpha Blonde
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I call Motel-6 .... or any other motel WITHOUT an elevator .... camping!! I don't camp!! hehehe
Actually technically I had the opportunity for some great casual sex while camping once with my girlfriend. We couldn't get our campfire started and this uber-hot guy from another campsite came over to see if we wanted to hang out at theirs. We did. Turned out "hot guy" was a male model and verrrry fine. He tried to get me to fuck him as he walked me back later, but I said "no" because I was a virgin at the time. Ugh. Timing sucks. He had a great dick too. Thing is, at the time I didn't want to lose my virginity to a ridiculously hot stranger on the hood of a car under the moonlight in the woods. Little did I know, that would have been a major upgrade to the way I eventually chose to lose it. *sigh*.
Anyway, what were we talking about? Oh yeah... casual sex. Yeah, I'm open to camping actually. I've had a couple of fun times since then. Nature makes me horny.
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Being a lesbian, the choices narrow a bit but there are options. I've met several at the gym where I exercse which is limited to women only. I've actually had sex there a couple of times, once with a staff member. Then there are lesbianclubs and there are several around town. These are not my first choice as they resemble a meat market most nights. However, they are almost a sure bet since everyone is there for the same reason. Then there's so many others if you just keep an open mind and are willing to flirt a little and risk being rejected. These can be concerts, plays, almost any place where people gather.
