um.... how did you first get one? is it embarrassing buying one? would you go with a friend?
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I bought it online. It felt embarrassing, I'll admit...but in an exciting/naughty sort of way.
I have no qualms going into stores and browsing around, but it gives me a bit of a rush as well. And I've been toy shopping with friends...even helped them pick stuff out when there was nothing in particular that I wanted. It's fun.
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I ordered my vibrator online, nothing embarrassing about that.
When I bought my dildo though, I bought it at a sex shop. The guy I was with made me go in by myself which made me feel awkward especially since I was only 19 at the time I went in.
I like the hands-on browsing as well. I bought my first one from a small boutique-style sex shop that was geared toward being 'female friendly' and non-intimidating. I went in with a university friend (female). Actually, I'd say most of my sex toy shopping has been done with female friends during random shopping outings or spontaneously at night after a few drinks and some sex-oriented conversations. I've browsed/bought a few times with a boyfriend (but mostly this involved trying stuff on, not vibrators etc) or just on my own if there's something specific I want, but I tend to do the girl's shopping thing more often than not. It's fun.
I'm a born and raised Vegas girl. And here we have sex shops on practically every corner. And they're always run by someone who looks like they eat crack for breakfast. But a lot of the good stores tend to be painfully expensive to shop in, and at the time I bought my first vibrator I didn't have too much money to splurge with. So yeah I went to a dingy shop, spent $20, and diddled myself into vibrator heaven about an hour later. Did the cashier look at me all pervy? Yes he did. Was I embarrassed? At first yeah, but by the time I had my third orgasm I just didn't give a fuck anymore.
I ordered it online.
But I don't mind going to adult stores. Sometimes I don't feel like waiting for them to arrive.
first one was a gift from my then husband. He drove a truck, and would frequently bring me home a new toy yo enjoy while he was gone.
Since then I've both gone to stores and purchased online
I bought my first vibrator at a local sex shop.
I went with my first girlfriend to a shop in LA and we picked out some things to enjoy including vibrators. Now hubs and I buy online.
okay... thanks for the replies ! xx
I never had to buy one as my then-gf allowed me to share her vibe.
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one I live in a small time..and though I might get tickled if they SAW me..lol..cannot say what they would think
most likely disgust(repressed religious types anyone)
and two.. the only sex store was outlawed by the local sheriff(damn Baptists;)..)
The first vibrator I ever had (ok everyone hold all judgement) was the first year I joined Lush! My girlfriends told me I needed a BOB (battery operated boyfriend) they couldn't believe I didn't own a vibe and that I'd never heard that term before. What a laugh they had! It turned into a fun afternoon with great friends. Definitely go with your girlfriends who have previous experience and won't embarrass you, ok a few jabs won't hurt! Just go with it and have FUN, literally!
I used to send my husband into the sex store when I needed a new one -- way too shy to go in there myself! The store closed, so now I buy online.
Bought my wife one. Big mistake as it has taken the place of my cock. Such is life
My best friends bought it for me for Christmas.. It was worth the embarrassment lol
Me & my then GF got lost driving around and saw a small shop on the side of the highway. On the fly we decided to check it out. I ended up buying a decent vibe. I wasn't embarrassed but she was because she had never been in an adult store before that day.
Glad we went because that night is one I still remember
I remember going to my first store!! Back in college with my b/f and now husband! Loved it and nervous at the same time!
I have actually recently bought an anal vibrator. I forget what it was called but it is like a cross between anal beads and a normal vibrator and runs on a bullet vibe. It feels good when i use it but i want to make it more erotic when i do. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Julie Jizzbucket.
My first was a gift - with a provisio I allow my girlfriend to show me how to use it. We both had a ball and many many orgasms.
Since then I have bought quite a few with various degrees of satisfaction. Always from sex shops. My gf has bought a couple on line that we couldnt find here.
They get constant use as well as the occasional use of our Sybian. That would have to be the most expensive and most satisfying piece of sex pleasure vibration known to a woman.
I went to a toy shop.. It was a little embarrassing and mostly men were present at the time. Once I started browsing, I forgot about everyone else.
I have never had one but want one, so ladies what would be the best to get?
My wife goes with me and picks for herself and some stuff with me. She always gets new butt plugs and dildos to use on me. We always hurry home to try them out.
I bought mine online. It took me a while to actually work up the nerve to buy it.
Got it as a gift.
Not embarrassing to buy one.
Of course I'd go with a friend.