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This has seriously been one of the most amusing threads i have read on this site...
I had to get up from my desk i was laughing so hard...
this just jump started my day!

My opinion is:
I have a friend that says "I´m not gay nor straight nor bi, I just want to cum!!!"

Hope this answered all your questions and doubts.
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Quote by AngelHeart01
Oh yeah ... I forgot that you secretly (not so secretly now) would love to explore the strap on. Is that right?
Oh, wait ... that was something else entirely different. I like that you LOVE this thread ... cuz then you make me laugh later.


I just love some of the points YOU, LadyX and WMM make in this thread. Even fugly made a very interesting point!


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Hey, I want a piece of this thread!
Does that mean I'm gay


Yes.
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I forgot about this thread... I love this thread.


It was only a matter of time until you posted here again Felix...I just love the fact that I can see Strap on with your name right next to it LOL! Makes my day!
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Hey, I want a piece of this thread!
Does that mean I'm gay


Yes.


OK then Felix!


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It won't make you gay, be open to new sensations...
Constant Gardener
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Be open to the good vibrations and sweet sensations. Felix is merely in touch and attempting to lead the rest of us horses to water.

He leaves it up to you, to drink or not.
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Quote by Bunny12
OMG homophobs are running wild!!!! NO NO NO doing a man with a strap on does NOT make him gay or even bi sexual if he is heterosexual. It will NOT turn them gay just give them the most pleasurable prostate induced mind blowing orgasm of their lives. As a chick with several strap on dicks I am completely confident I can give maximum pleasure to ANY type of man better than anyone! Any women who thinks doing her man with a strap on makes him less of a man or will turn him gay is just a stupid bitch who has no idea how men's bodies really work!


Bunny I agree 100% with you!!! Always welcomed to do me with your strap on....
The Linebacker
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This thread just puckers my ass!



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Quote by WorkAlone
I listen to Dan Savage's podcast "Savage Love" and I like his spin on it. If it's a girl with a strap-on, then you're having sex with a girl and it's a hetero experience--it's a girl-dick and it's no more gay than if she sticks a finger or tongue there. He said it kind of depends on what's in your head. If you're thinking about the girl (or another girl or girls for that matter), you're still straight. If you're thinking about and wishing it was a guy and a real cock, well, you may want to think about that a bit...not that there's anything wrong with that.

He had a reallly funny call recently about this (Episode 208 at 20:27), quite a funny listen (http://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/traffic.libsyn.com/savagelove/savagelove-101210.mp3).


I think this post sums up how I feel about it. Never tried a strapon but women I have been with have inserted fingers and tongue. Maybe I should buy the wifey a strapon...
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No? I've done backdoor stuff ( GF to me/Me to GF ) and i honestly rather enjoy it. We've fucked before while I had a butt plug. (Honestly, made me last a long time, iunno why) and pegging (gf with strapon) is one of my fantasies but I dont think Im ready for it yet.

Im not gay though. Have an open mind. you want to do things to her, let her do things to you.
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seriously... some people on lush are weird..

hahaha
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I have the pleasure of a very open minded girlfriend who has given me the extreme pleasure of experiencing this! I can say it was truly amazing. I am 100% straight and have no interest in a man doing the same thing to me, but having my girlfriend do it to me is one of the best things I have experienced. I just wish she would do it more often....

Complete comfort in your own sexuality will allow you to experience this truly amazing thing. Anybody who is worried it will "turn them gay" is worried about their sexuality to start with. Sexuality cannot change over time. It's ingrained into our DNA. You are the way you are, now get comfortable and enjoy yourself!
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My thought is....If it feels good do it!!!
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This is what I strap on....fucking aye!
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Aw shoot Coach! and I went shopping specially I'll be gentle baby, I promise...
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oh yes
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Quote by Dudealicious
This was once a fantasy of mine, I was with a woman that was not that open minded and when I brought up the topic she immediately said I would be gay if we went through with it. She also said that if I enjoyed it, she worried about losing me to a man.

Now let me say I am 100% straight, I love women their bodies and their twisted little minds (sorry Ladies, it's true!).

I am now with a girl that is very open minded and only wants me to experience the most pleasure I can when we have sex. She started off by using fingers, small vibrators gradually increasing the size to make it more comfortable for me. *Now does using those devices make you gay?* A prostate orgasm for me is the most powerful I have ever experienced and she is very keen on making sure I get a fair dose of them.

We have progressed to a strap-on with a vibrating bullet at the clit. She seems to get just as much pleasure using this on me at times, she says she likes being in control. The feeling is amazing, and as I have said in other forums by you allowing her to pleasure you anally - you also become more experienced and a better lover when it comes to playing with her ass.

I don't go around looking at guys wondering just how big they are and if they would fuck me, I don't have any interest in that at all.

So in answer to your question, no it will not make you gay. But try it, you just may like it!



i wholeheartedly concur, altho i am bi...great post dude
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ok I enjoy having my wife play with and in my ass, it is a bigger turn on when she puts the strap on on. I do not consider myself gay but it has made me wonder what the real thing would be like. I would consider myself curious as I do not find guys attractive but I do find hard cocks enticing.
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Whatever consenting adults do with each other is okay.
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I think guys who don't experience a prostate orgasm, or stimulation are missing out big time.

Personally I've never tried a strap on (might be too much), but I've had a prostate massage from a lovely lady experienced in tantra. She placed my hips up on a pillow, and sat between my thighs, while she expertly fingered my ass and maniplated my prostate. The final climax built over about 2 minutes, including a lot of precum, during the massage (I very rarely, if ever have precum)
It was a riviting orgasm, with gallons of cum shooting everywhere.

Probably one of my top 20 orgasms

Just trying prostate stimulation is definitely not going to make someone who is hetero gay. In fact it opens more doors for experiencing even more pleasure with both you and your partner. Only the sexually inexperienced or prudish would suggest that.

On a side note; Did you know that researchers have discovered that women who squirt, have many of the same components in their discharge, as males do, in their prostate fluid!
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmm YES PLEASE
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It's called 'pegging' and can be very enjoyable. The prostate gland is supposed to be the male's g-spot. I've done and liked it. And it did not turn me gay.
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We would all be better off if we left the labelmaker out of the bedroom. If you like it, and your partners are ok with it, go for it. I've taken a strapon from my girlfriend, fucked while we BOTH had anal plugs in, I've had her ass and she has had mine. If you have never had your cock milked while she had a finger or vib in your ass hitting your prostrate, you're missing something special. But like everything else, this is just my opinion, to each his own.
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Thought about it. Don't think she would approve
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I do not see how you can equate ass play with turning you gay. Does that mean if you stroke your own cock that will turn you gay?
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i do love that feeling when girl doing my asshole .. its weird but sexy
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It is an awesome feeling, not that it is a lifestyle changing event it definitely open your mind and your ass to new possibilities.
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I believe that if you want to give you must take. Therefore I would expect a lover to allow himself to be fucked by me with a strap on. I wouldn't tell him to get fucked by another man to know what it feels like to get it in the ass, but a strap on is a yes. If a lover refused I would leave him, don't give if your not willing to take. A guy close to me left me fuck him with a strap on and we play with vibrators together often. He is not gay what so ever.
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Quote by xXshunikaXx
I believe that if you want to give you must take. Therefore I would expect a lover to allow himself to be fucked by me with a strap on. I wouldn't tell him to get fucked by another man to know what it feels like to get it in the ass, but a strap on is a yes. If a lover refused I would leave him, don't give if your not willing to take. A guy close to me left me fuck him with a strap on and we play with vibrators together often. He is not gay what so ever.



I couldn't disagree more. Love and sex should not be about about conditions that must be met. If you don't want to be anally penetrated then you dont' have to be. If you like anal, why refuse yourself a pleasure you enjoy. Making or coercing a lover to do something he or she doesn't want to is sexual blackmail. Does he have to give a blowjob to your strap-on too?



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