when i wank how can i extend it? at times i get wet very fast too, even before girl has grabbed my cock...
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Cogent Sensualist
Practice practice practice....
Start with a looser grip. Stroke until you feel things getting a little too good, then slow down or stop. Yes, it's mean and yes, it's not easy to do, but you want to get a feel for what the edge feels like and learn to step back from it. With practice, you'll be able to control the intensity and keep from going over the edge when you're masturbating. Once you get the stamina up, try going with tighter grips, faster strokes, different sensations and learn to control your arousal under a range of conditions. Note that this is all solo practice. Now, when you're with a partner, the key will be to do the same thing and back away from the edge when you feel it coming on. It's more difficult, of course but, you will have the advantage of lots of fun bits to distract yourself with and can use that for control. If you just focus on how you're feeling, it's probably all over, so focus on her (good advice in general).
The simpler and more common approach is to 'empty the chamber' before going out with a girl. The second (and subsequent) orgasms take more effort and generally last longer.
Have fun!!! (just not too much fun ;) )
Start with a looser grip. Stroke until you feel things getting a little too good, then slow down or stop. Yes, it's mean and yes, it's not easy to do, but you want to get a feel for what the edge feels like and learn to step back from it. With practice, you'll be able to control the intensity and keep from going over the edge when you're masturbating. Once you get the stamina up, try going with tighter grips, faster strokes, different sensations and learn to control your arousal under a range of conditions. Note that this is all solo practice. Now, when you're with a partner, the key will be to do the same thing and back away from the edge when you feel it coming on. It's more difficult, of course but, you will have the advantage of lots of fun bits to distract yourself with and can use that for control. If you just focus on how you're feeling, it's probably all over, so focus on her (good advice in general).
The simpler and more common approach is to 'empty the chamber' before going out with a girl. The second (and subsequent) orgasms take more effort and generally last longer.
Have fun!!! (just not too much fun ;) )
Constant Gardener
It is probably just the twisted, hedonistic pervert in me showing here, but I'm curious what part of you is becoming wet, before some woman grabs your cock.
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Alpha Blonde
Yank down on your balls, pinch your perineum (between your scrotum and your asshole), or squeeze just below the head of your dick.
And yes, those are actual techniques that have been suggested as helping to delay male orgasm... I'm not just giving mean tips to be a beyotch (as tempting as it might be).
And yes, those are actual techniques that have been suggested as helping to delay male orgasm... I'm not just giving mean tips to be a beyotch (as tempting as it might be).
Cogent Sensualist
Yup, pulling down on the balls works. Just hard to do when you're fucking or getting oral or even hand pleasure from a partner.
Good luck whatever you decide to try.
Good luck whatever you decide to try.
I follow two procedures, first is to masturbate around 2 hours before sex with my misses,
second one is to take it slowly when you push it in try to push it all and keep it in and just move your hip on top of her in the missionary position keep like this for around three to five minutes and then switch to the woman on top position and do the same let her take it all in and just let her dance on it without taking it in and out, both of you will enjoy it and it will last longer.
second one is to take it slowly when you push it in try to push it all and keep it in and just move your hip on top of her in the missionary position keep like this for around three to five minutes and then switch to the woman on top position and do the same let her take it all in and just let her dance on it without taking it in and out, both of you will enjoy it and it will last longer.
Active Ink Slinger
I focus on "her" by making sure she pleased by enjoying as many orgasms as possible before I have one. That's the mental side of things. Dancing Doll touched upon the physical things you can do.
It's All Good! :-)
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I follow two procedures, first is to masturbate around 2 hours before sex with my misses,
second one is to take it slowly when you push it in try to push it all and keep it in and just move your hip on top of her in the missionary position keep like this for around three to five minutes and then switch to the woman on top position and do the same let her take it all in and just let her dance on it without taking it in and out, both of you will enjoy it and it will last longer.
Works very well
Active Ink Slinger
OK I know some of you think this is funny. It's not. Premature ejaculation is no laughing mater. That said first thing is quite often this is caused by refraining from sex too long, So masturbating more often may help. Second it could be A lack of muscular development. Try flexing the muscle you use to hold your urine til you get to the bathroom. Do it numerous times during the day while your sitting down. Try using this muscle during sex to hold back your ejaculation. Finally If all this fails you can go online to an adult toy site like Adam & Eve, they sell A type of cock ring I think it's called Dr. Richard's Ring. I hear it's supposed to work pretty well.
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PS. I must admit that thing Jillicious came up with about Rosie O'Donald isn't A bad Idea either. It would sure do it for me. LOL I hear some guy's think about baseball too, but i don't think it would be as effective.
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PS. I must admit that thing Jillicious came up with about Rosie O'Donald isn't A bad Idea either. It would sure do it for me. LOL I hear some guy's think about baseball too, but i don't think it would be as effective.
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OK I know some of you think this is funny. It's not. Premature ejaculation is no laughing mater. That said first thing is quite often this is caused by refraining from sex too long, So masturbating more often may help. Second it could be A lack of muscular development. Try flexing the muscle you use to hold your urine til you get to the bathroom. Do it numerous times during the day while your sitting down. Try using this muscle during sex to hold back your ejaculation. Finally If all this fails you can go online to an adult toy site like Adam & Eve, they sell A type of cock ring I think it's called Dr. Richard's Ring. I hear it's supposed to work pretty well.
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PS. I must admit that thing Jillicious came up with about Rosie O'Donald isn't A bad Idea either. It would sure do it for me. LOL I hear some guy's think about baseball too, but i don't think it would be as effective.
Also you can get delay cream, don't know if it works.
I'm waiting for the speed up cream! Takes me too long, then my mind wanders. It's strange what you can think about when your mind wanders!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Yank down on your balls, pinch your perineum (between your scrotum and your asshole), or squeeze just below the head of your dick.
And yes, those are actual techniques that have been suggested as helping to delay male orgasm... I'm not just giving mean tips to be a beyotch (as tempting as it might be).
I tried this and it works. The downside is my erection went and I don't think it wants to come back in a hurry if it's being treated like that, lol.
Active Ink Slinger
Best advice want prior to having sex, it works a treat, have tried it and can say it works, especially if not had sex in a week or more, tend to cum within 5-10 mins of intercourse, have a quick one prior to getting down and dirty and you can last 40 mins at least excluding foreplay.
Expected more posts in it since we all love to cum late. My experience might be of help to many. I spend a longer time in foreplay - often for more than 3 hrs, then both lying naked and we explore each others body - kissing, stoking, rubbing, hugging each others body - kiss and lick each others genitals, when we cannot go any more I ride my bf and get control over my movement grinding pussy against the base of my bf's cock - making sure my clit get deep massaging this way. All the while my bf thrusts his pelvis against me and twitches his cock inside me. When he is about to cum, he signals and I completely stop my movement. After sometime, I resume my movement. We can go on this way literally for hours but in about an hour we cannot hold back our tension and both cum almost simultaneously!
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Quote by zena69
Expected more posts in it since we all love to cum late. My experience might be of help to many. I spend a longer time in foreplay - often for more than 3 hrs, then both lying naked and we explore each others body - kissing, stoking, rubbing, hugging each others body - kiss and lick each others genitals, when we cannot go any more I ride my bf and get control over my movement grinding pussy against the base of my bf's cock - making sure my clit get deep massaging this way. All the while my bf thrusts his pelvis against me and twitches his cock inside me. When he is about to cum, he signals and I completely stop my movement. After sometime, I resume my movement. We can go on this way literally for hours but in about an hour we cannot hold back our tension and both cum almost simultaneously!
That sounds like a lot of fun... Tell us more.... ;)
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Active Ink Slinger
Practice edging. Jerk off yourself right to the point of orgasm and then stop. Wait a minute and then go again. Keep this up for as long as you can, staying as close to the edge for as long as you can. If you do this every time you masturbate you will increase your endurance and stamina and be better able to resist cumming early during sex.
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