How can I deep throat without the urge to gag
you can't unless you practice, practice, practice.
then practice, practice, practice some more.
not a skill i've aquired. not a skill i'm interested in aquiring
if thats what your man needs then,
you'll need to practice, practice, practice.
Practice. Knowing yourself and how you work. Accepting that some days are better than others. Some cocks also "work" better than others (don't know why... ). There is a lot you can do with positioning yourself correctly, you have to be comfortable, no bizarre position which makes breathing more difficult or adds to the pressure in any way. Don't let him put his hands on your throat if that can help. Control your breathing. Only ever do what you enjoy doing and feel comfortable with. If you're with the same guy, talk with him and let him know that you're trying, testing, practicing. He won't mind... :-)
And then, test. Try this (like right now) :-): open your mouth and yawn. Put your finger (or dildo if you have one there) in your mouth and throat and feel how open it is. There should be much less of this gaging reflex when you do this. And it really opens the throat. :-)
So when you're with him, do the same movement to open up and push him in. Remember, when he's there, he won't last long. Pull away (just a little) when he cums to avoid chocking, they don't mind that at that stage of action :-)
And when you're done (or he's done) don't forget to ask anything you could even want from him. You'll get it. :-)
Have fun! :-)
This is something I've never had a problem with as I haven't got a gag reflex! But I do know from what some people have told me is making a fist and trapping your thumb under your fingers on your left hand stops it! I'm not too sure how good it is but hopefully it works
I never understood the attraction - that weird gagging sound, is weird. Just provide me a nice vag and I'm good.
Try beathing through your nose, slowly and deeply. Also, having your tonsils removed helps greatly.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
Read somewhere a gay porn star said drink orange juice before and it relaxes your gag reflex. Never tried it my gag reflex is already fairly relaxed from years of practice.
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Patience, practice and the desire to please.
I'm in the process of learning to suppress my gag reflex (which is why you end up puking at times during oral sex). My Master sent me this link to help: http:// www. wikihow .com/ Suppress-the-Gag-Reflex (had to put spaces in so that it would show)
I practice using various toys, and also going out to the store and buying one of those jumbo Push pops at times (It makes it more fun for me because it's like a treat having some candy and practicing at the same time!).
But, the best advice is just learn to relax and breathe calmly. The moment you start to panic, it's all downhill, at least it is for me.