y'all actually make anal sound fun... might have to give it another go sometime... any volenteers?
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I never had to plan my first anal situation and in some ways it avoided the awkward situation of asking and then being to shy to say yes to somthing I was curious to try. But definately go slow and use lube! The orgasams are AMAZING and oh so totally worth it!!
Anal Sex, it is all about being gentle, slow and patient. Relaxation is a must. I enjoy getting it as much as I enjoy giving it.
if you are new to anal i suggest a small butt plug, plenty of lube and some alone time. once you get comfortable doing it to yourself you will be able to relax with a partner. Also, when you are ready to do this with a guy make sure he is patient and fully erect. Some people find it helpful to use an enema prior to trying to make the going a little easier.
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Hey, can I just say I absolutely love it! but... be prepared, I don't know if it is just me butu it always makes me feel like I need a pee! Don't drink beforehand, that way you can relax and enjoy!
"Go Anal!" that would make a great t-shirt!
I was apprehensive about trying anal. The first couple of times i hated it. You just need your partner or partners to be patient. Do 2 enemas and 1 douche so your nice and clean. Try a small plug for awhile and then use lots of lube because you dont want an anal phisher because it will ruin you for at least a month. =) And its a wonderful experience and i know that sounds crazy, but its and your bf/husband will love it.
It makes the difference if you have the right partner and someone that knows what they are doing. The first time I tried it I hated it and swore I would never do it again but with my next partner he gently warmed me up to the idea and now I have such powerful and intense oragasms that way.
this is my problem as well. it's not that i refuse to try it, it's just that i'm scared to. :/ i'm open to doing pretty much anything.
after reading some of the posts on here, it's kinda opened my eyes to ways to ease myself into trying it. [:
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Lube, Lube, Lube
You need to be relaxed, but once you can and do get into I love it!!
My (now ex) husband sprung it on me one night. Drink was involved. Boy did it hurt and I have not tried it since.
Lube of course and nice and slowly
I'm still looking for the right guy.....any suggestions???? ;)
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Let me tell you about my first time anal.
I don't recall it too well, that's a good thing.
Me and my boyfriend were having sex. He turned me over to my stomach and slipped inside my vagina, then out to my ass, as a warning of some sort. Then back into me, back to the backside. The attention his cockhead showed my ass was very interesting, my vjj was getting very very wet by it. Finally he stopped at my ass, not returning down to my vjj and put pressure on. Let his cockhead slowly open me up. I was very relaxed, it didn't hurt. I felt dizzy though. It was as if all nerves in my back and neck were teased. My mind felt like white noise. I was hooked. Never had I experienced anything like that before and I probably wont stop craving it even though I've since then experienced what bad anal-sex means.
Loved it with my wife she lets me have a ride now and again I have tried toys for myself and with my wife but just can't seem to get it right anysuggestions?
I agree with an earlier posting that suggested missionary for this..the first time anal in missionary position doesn't seem as painful. When you're used to it, from behind is just so much fun. I am a selfconfessed anal addict though and can't get enough.
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I can maybe add one thing to DD's excellent self play advice. Don't insert a toy first. Use a finger, but with a well lubed latex exam glove or even a rubber kitchen glove. The tactile feedback from your fingertip is helpful and the glove helps make fingernails much less of an issue. You have much more control over a fingertip than you do over a butt plug.
Writing the story about our 'encounter' will completely depend on your performance. You seem to be confident that it will be worth telling though, I like that. Clock is ticking playboy, 35 hours left... You have plenty of time to make it.
You'll LOVE it 
