I'm a 20 year old male looking to explore myself and was wondering what you guys thought about dildos and butt plugs and which you prefer? Ive only been with another guy once and loved it but it's so hard to find cock again I need something to hit the spot if you know what I mean ;)
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Either is good. Buttplugs are more convenient and they're built to stay in place, for the most part. Dildos are meant for extended play (repeated in-and-out action).
With either choice, size will be your deciding factor. Use plenty of lube, don't start off too big. If you wanna play with bigger toys in the butt-area, my advice would be to start off with a smaller or reasonable size and work your way up.
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Oh my goodness thank you guys so much for your help (: I'm flattered by the help you guys have been willing to share (:
Keep in mind some prefer one and some prefer the other while yet others like both. If you aren't sure what you prefer then have fun finding out!
Toys are designed with a specific purpose in mind.
Butt plugs have stoppers at the end. They are there for a reason, as my friend the ER Nurse, often reminds me with her stories of embarrassment...
So, unless you're directing the action, or someone else is, you're better off with the butt plug.
from playing around with both I prefer a plug. Just get it in and enjoy the sensation
With anal sex perpetually in my bucket list, a buttplug sounds good.
Butt plugs are safer and designed to anal. Start with the little ones and work up.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
I think 'Buttplug vs. Dildo' would make a great car bumper sticker. Also t-shirt imprint.
The handiest thing is a dildo with a suction cup that you can stick to things.
Like the edge of your bathtub, a stool or chair. If you are DIY inclined you can think of other ways to attach it interesting places.
The first time I had a prostate climax I couldn't believe it. What a rush!
Literally half a cup of ejaculate. I thought I would die from Ecstasy!
Why not both ? :3
Oh that's right, you only have one place to put it...
I really like vibrating anal plugs. Can do whatever else I want and have that going the whole time, increases the whole pleasure experience. Also, again, as others have mentioned, you can hurt yourself with a dildo if you aren't careful ---- especially if you're tiny like I am. Best to have a partner do the dildo-work for you; or failing that, a suction cup one. I wouldn't do it free-hand.
butt plug as you can wear throughout the day and nobody will know only you also every time you sit down you will feel it move in your arse and this will make your cock throb and also feel it rub your g spot I know sat here wiggling my arse on the seat and feel it all the time