Okay so I have been going out with this guy for a few months and I really like him. we just had sex for the first time this weekend and while it was fine and felt good I am wondering if there are positions that could increase pleasure for me a little bit. His dick isn't all that big, its perfect for oral though lol Any suggestions?
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i suppose getting a new boyfriend really isn't an option? (and yes, i have been drinking, take that into account). 
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Okay so I have been going out with this guy for a few months and I really like him. we just had sex for the first time this weekend and while it was fine and felt good I am wondering if there are positions that could increase pleasure for me a little bit. His dick isn't all that big, its perfect for oral though lol Any suggestions?
looks like YOU are confused.. if you are comparing your BF with your previous sexual partners.. may be size of his dick becomes an issue... i am not a woman.. with that caveat... if YOU think he knows how to use his albeit small dick to pleasure you... then try and learn tolerance... if it is not an option .. go out and get some one who is hung like a horse... make sure you measure him first before you let him have sex with you.... L O L!
Uh no I am not comparing him to past partners. Their are none to be compared to. I don't mind the size I honestly don't. He can pleasure me fine in other ways. I'm pretty new to the sex stuff him being my first and all. I just want to know if their are positions that are better then just standard missionary when he's a little smaller down there.
Wild at Heart
Get him a penis extender. I used to be about 2 inches. Now my size is Donkey.
Constant Gardener
He's the first man you've been with - and you're already wanting bigger?
You go girl!
You go girl!
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Uh no I am not comparing him to past partners. Their are none to be compared to. I don't mind the size I honestly don't. He can pleasure me fine in other ways. I'm pretty new to the sex stuff him being my first and all. I just want to know if their are positions that are better then just standard missionary when he's a little smaller down there.
What're your thoughts on anal?
I'm serious. If you've never tried it, but have thought about it, he sounds like the perfect guy!
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Best way to increase sexual pleasure...dump him and fuck a guy with a long penis ;)
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He has a tongue right? A man with a skilled tongue can make up for a man with a small penis. And unless it is a micro-penis, he can develop into a good lover once he is comfortable with you. CG is right, Anal can be very pleasurable and his size sounds perfect for anal.
Have you thought about introducing toys into your lovemaking? They can make a nice addition, but if you do be sure to let him know they are there just to increase the pleasure and not replace him. You mentioned about what positions would be best to try, try many different positions and you will see what is best for you.
And you said you had sex just this one time. It takes time to get comfortable with each other, to know what you both like. If you really like him, don't be discouraged by his lack of size. Give him a chance and enjoy the journey!!
Have you thought about introducing toys into your lovemaking? They can make a nice addition, but if you do be sure to let him know they are there just to increase the pleasure and not replace him. You mentioned about what positions would be best to try, try many different positions and you will see what is best for you.
And you said you had sex just this one time. It takes time to get comfortable with each other, to know what you both like. If you really like him, don't be discouraged by his lack of size. Give him a chance and enjoy the journey!!
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Size doesn't matter at all, sure sometimes bigger is more pleasurable, but that's when you're going all the way. Foreplay is just a big a part as the actual act of penis in pussy ;) Talk to him and suggest experimenting with things. Sometimes role playing, or bondage if you feel you might be into it could be good ways to turn you on to the point every sense is heightened, therefore more pleasure. Explore different things, use toys if you like, also fingers and tongues can be just as good ;). Make sure you are both comfortable though, and don't mention size to him, it'll be an ego drop and his sexual tendency's will most likely decrease. Find what turns you on the most and incorporate that into your love like ;) Hope this helps in some way.
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you can use scissors.he goes between your legs while you are in a side way position he will go in further and sure you love it . I really do .mmmmmmm
Orgasm Aficionado
Just adding to the above advice - you could try a Penis Sleeve. They can add both length and girth and massively increase the stimulation to your important parts during intercourse. It might be difficult to introduce the idea without bruising his ego though.
Wild at Heart
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Just adding to the above advice - you could try a Penis Sleeve. They can add both length and girth and massively increase the stimulation to your important parts during intercourse. It might be difficult to introduce the idea without bruising his ego though.
That would be like telling a girl to wear a bag on her head during sex, no? Or like straight up telling her that her pussy is too loose so you'd like her to insert a pocket pussy in her vagina when you have sex so the dick can feel... Something.
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I've been here before.
I agree that a small penis is perfect for giving an outstanding blow-job (deep throat has never been easier!!) but tends to fall short (no pun intended) in the penetration department, particularly if you're like me who gets my best and most intense orgasms with deep penetration. Having said that, it's not the end of the world especially if you like/care/love the guy. As already mentioned in other posts, there are SO many other ways to get off together and experimenting with other positions can be a lot of fun!
If you haven't done so already, I would do some research and make Google your best friend - there is a ton of information that can be found there or at least to get you started. Good luck!
http://ca.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html
I agree that a small penis is perfect for giving an outstanding blow-job (deep throat has never been easier!!) but tends to fall short (no pun intended) in the penetration department, particularly if you're like me who gets my best and most intense orgasms with deep penetration. Having said that, it's not the end of the world especially if you like/care/love the guy. As already mentioned in other posts, there are SO many other ways to get off together and experimenting with other positions can be a lot of fun!
If you haven't done so already, I would do some research and make Google your best friend - there is a ton of information that can be found there or at least to get you started. Good luck!
http://ca.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html
Orgasm Aficionado
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That would be like telling a girl to wear a bag on her head during sex, no?
Not really. Some guys love these things as well because:
i) It means they can go forever.
ii) They get to be massive for once. (Going from 'Oh, it's already in?' to 'Oh My God, your cock feels amazing')
iii) They get to make a girl scream their name without the usual 'you bastard' afterwards.
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Or like straight up telling her that her pussy is too loose so you'd like her to insert a pocket pussy in her vagina when you have sex so the dick can feel... Something.
If a girl's pussy is that loose, you might want to tie a bit of cord around the pocket pussy in case you lose it.
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Okay so I have been going out with this guy for a few months and I really like him. we just had sex for the first time this weekend and while it was fine and felt good I am wondering if there are positions that could increase pleasure for me a little bit. His dick isn't all that big, its perfect for oral though lol Any suggestions?
Yes suggest he learn how to use it, learn how to eat you into orgasm, ot get a new bf
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What're your thoughts on anal?
I'm serious. If you've never tried it, but have thought about it, he sounds like the perfect guy!
CurlyGirly, just curious, Do you like anal and can you come that way?
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Chose sex positions with your together will make you feel his cock better.
Unless his dick is really thin
Unless his dick is really thin
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I used to sleep about a bit back in the day, not that I'm proud of the fact. Men of all sizes.
In my experience one of the best positions for the less gifted guys would be for you to lay on your back, kind of in missionary style but with your legs wrapped around his neck and your knees as far up to your head as you can flex, with him leaning down on you. You get a bit more control this way too, than in regular missionary and if you're a bum lady, it's a good way to get a grip ;) If you've only just started having sex then this might be good as it's not too far off regular missionary. I'm not sure if that one has a name so had to describe it LOL.
Cowgirl give you control so you can use what he has to your advantage but I'd recommend reverse cowgirl, it will allow him to hit your g-spot and if he can't get deep, then go for a g-spot pounding! Doggy also works for this!
As others have said he will be great for trying anal! The very first guy I did that with was rather gifted, would have been better if he hadn't been LOL!
Welcome to the wonderful world of fucking! Enjoy!
In my experience one of the best positions for the less gifted guys would be for you to lay on your back, kind of in missionary style but with your legs wrapped around his neck and your knees as far up to your head as you can flex, with him leaning down on you. You get a bit more control this way too, than in regular missionary and if you're a bum lady, it's a good way to get a grip ;) If you've only just started having sex then this might be good as it's not too far off regular missionary. I'm not sure if that one has a name so had to describe it LOL.
Cowgirl give you control so you can use what he has to your advantage but I'd recommend reverse cowgirl, it will allow him to hit your g-spot and if he can't get deep, then go for a g-spot pounding! Doggy also works for this!
As others have said he will be great for trying anal! The very first guy I did that with was rather gifted, would have been better if he hadn't been LOL!
Welcome to the wonderful world of fucking! Enjoy!
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you can use scissors.he goes between your legs while you are in a side way position he will go in further and sure you love it . I really do .mmmmmmm
One of the very few positions I have yet to try, did not know it was better for deeper penetration. Thanks might give it a go, even if we'll look like a pair of twats. If I see that in a porno I just buckle laughing. HEHE
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Okay so I have been going out with this guy for a few months and I really like him. we just had sex for the first time this weekend and while it was fine and felt good I am wondering if there are positions that could increase pleasure for me a little bit. His dick isn't all that big, its perfect for oral though lol Any suggestions?
I saw this thing once in a porno. Have him put two fingers in you while he is fucking you. I can't tell you the out come if you'll like it. I have tried this on different girls and for me it fingers do fit in. So that what gave me the idea to stick a finger in the girl's ass. That didn't fly with the girls have been with either. But these tips I'm seen in pornos may work for you.
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I think you need to do some research - that is both of you together. There is nothing wrong with a guy with a small cock that a bit of perseverance and experimentation wont fix.
I have found guys with short cocks can and do provide great sex once they know where YOU want it to pleasure YOU.
Plan a day of fun and excitement and go to bed. Then get to work not so much on just plain fucking but getting to know where the both of you can get your bits together in a way that pleases you and gives you those nice sensations. I would suggest adopting the on top position and then you direct the action until you get him to get it where you get the most pleasure from him. He will soon learn where to put it and how. Not all girls are the same so it may take a couple of efforts to get the action in the right place for you.
Then let him have his turn on top and again direct him to where it pleases you. By that time you will have both have had some fun and learned the ways and means to enjoy a wonderful experience most times you get together.
Good luck.
I have found guys with short cocks can and do provide great sex once they know where YOU want it to pleasure YOU.
Plan a day of fun and excitement and go to bed. Then get to work not so much on just plain fucking but getting to know where the both of you can get your bits together in a way that pleases you and gives you those nice sensations. I would suggest adopting the on top position and then you direct the action until you get him to get it where you get the most pleasure from him. He will soon learn where to put it and how. Not all girls are the same so it may take a couple of efforts to get the action in the right place for you.
Then let him have his turn on top and again direct him to where it pleases you. By that time you will have both have had some fun and learned the ways and means to enjoy a wonderful experience most times you get together.
Good luck.