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any opinions about the ideal length of time for a single sex session ?

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Me n my friend had an arguement about this once..... she said 10 to 15 minutes, i said 45!

For a quickie 10 minutes is fine but on average, 30 to 45 minutes (thats including foreplay) is ideal for me
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nice one... yes your right don't mind the time but enjoy the moment while fucking
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Are you paying by the hour, or what? That could make a big difference...

For instance, if you are paying for one full hour, you try to make it last about 59 minutes...anything more you might get billed for overtime...anything less and you're not getting your money's worth...

Just saying...

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Julie as usual the prize goes to you. are you free this weekend ? lol
personally i love the foreplay to last for ages before and during sex, love delaying as log as i can, makes the orgasm(s) stronger.
There really isn't an "ideal" time. It's all about the couple. Sometimes I just want a quickie & it can be any where at any time so it's just as stated a "quickie"! Then there's the times that you try to hold off & make it last as long as possible.
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Sounds like I've been doing it right then silly. I can never keep track of time.
about an hour
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How long is a piece of string! I don't think you can ever say there's an ideal length of time all depends on the moment, I spent anything from a 15 min quickie to sessions lasting 1hr plus
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This is an odd question, it is not like a workout session where you have goals and therefor you can with a trainer figure out the ideal time.

If you and your partner are cuddled afterwards, exhausted, dreamy in a state of bliss and wanting to hold that moment it doesn't really matter if that was from a really quick session or if you just spent 2 hours of tantric sex ... you are both thoroughly satisfied and that time will vary from couple to couple (or group to group if that is your thing).

If all you have is 10 min before you have to run though doesn't mean you can't do something ... even if it is not enough time for a full session, it might be enough to tease, to kiss, and then bank all that excitement for later ...
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Couldn't put it better!
That can really vary a lot. I don't think there is an ideal time.
I have been fucked fast, furious, and rough, and had it last two minutes. I loved it. I came twice!
Other times I have fucked non stop for hours. That is really good too.
It all depends on the mood.
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Until you're lying in a ditch with your pants around your ankles and a pair of panties on your head and your wallets empty.
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There is no Ideal time for me. If its just being together and doing what comes naturally - often, then I have enjoyed hours of pleasures with my partners(s).
Sometimes it can be a quick lick or an hour. My mood and the opportunity and the time available determines how long that I want to be pleasured.
The shortest is about 30 seconds and the longest single experience I can remember is about 40 minutes before I called time. I think the lube ran out.
For me its the person I am with that determines how long I want to enjoy the session time of being 'together', whether it be male or female.
If its just being in bed and going as often as he can - then that has been hours.
It could be five seconds, five minutes or five hours. God help you if its five days.
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There really isn't an "ideal" time. It's all about the couple. Sometimes I just want a quickie & it can be any where at any time so it's just as stated a "quickie"! Then there's the times that you try to hold off & make it last as long as possible.
I agree with Marley11 It's all about the couple and timing, Just do it !!
There is no one time fits all.... Depends on the situation
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