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3somes... Good or Bad

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While I have not had a threesome, it is high on my list of things I want to do. I have been very close, but not to the point of saying it was accomplished. My husband and I have, however, had a foursome with another couple. It was an experience worth having, but after a couple times with these friends, things kind of got to an awkward stage. There is so much more to keep in mind than just the few minutes of physical activity. I think porn movies have given a lot of people a very confused message about how these encounters really do work, because in real life, people aren't picture perfect and not everyone performs magnificently at the perfect time. They can be very complicated and require some real emotional effort with your partner.


I did attempt a foursome once and it didn't work out. My gf was really into it but the first time she touched the other guy's cock, his gf obviously really got her nose out of joint. Her bf realized this and his cock immediately went soft and no matter what she did to it, he just couldn't get hard again. So it ended up with the two of them watching me and my gf suck and fuck each other. That also killed the relationship with the other couple as I guess he was too embarrassed to hook up with me again. He and I had done a couple of mutual jackoffs together and one other time his gf jacked me off while he watched. But getting another woman involved did not work out.
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meh..take 'em or leave 'em. Someone usually feels awkward. The fallout afterward is rarely worth the "doing".
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Mmmm...Love Em..smile I've had a few, and all of them were cum dripping FUN, Yeah Baby!!!
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My partner and I have had quite a few MMF threesomes now and they're always great. Recently a guy came in me from behind while I kissed my partner then my partner fucked me immediately while I lay my head on the other guys chest. Very erotic. We have one coming up where the guy is bi curious as is my partner. I'm looking forward to some guy on guy action. I personally think it works best when the third person is not a friend. You need be secure in your relationship. My partner and I touch, kiss and lock eyes a lot during it..I love gazing at him while another man fucks me. He adores watching me get fucked. Woohoo.
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The more the merrier. ;)
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When all 3 are really into it its amazing
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Was married to a pretty big girl half my age. Let her pick the girls and everything was great. 3 years into our union meet sweet young girl partners age. We all fell in love and it lasted 8 years till my wife died in car wreck.
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I had a threesome with two amazing women. Their body types were different (curvy and athletic). I got to try so many things with each woman and the played with each other. By far the most amazing sex I have ever had hands down. Would do it again.
Always looking to have fun. Never a challenge too big or a woman too damn sexy for me to try!
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threesomes are awesome
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Been blessed to participate in many. No one had hangups and everyone was really into the lovemaking. I certainly can see where it has to be something everyone wants to do. A person should not be talked into it. For me, it was wonderful every time.
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At first I loved the idea of a 3 some. A friend of mine and my wife did it a few years back. It didn't turn out well for me. My friend ( now ex friend ) has a really big cock, and he is more assertive that me. After the first time the three of us did it, my wife's pussy basically belonged to him for about 6 months. He made her cum from intercourse and I never have. Stacy has hardly allowed me to touch her pussy since then...and that was over two years ago. She allows me to touch her with my hands or mouth...but her pussy is basically off limits to my cock now. For guys my advice would be to not have a 3some with a superior cock alpha male type of Man.
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yeah, i love fucking mothers and daughters. sitting on my face while the other rides me.
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I love a good 3some mfm fff
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I'd prefer a nice MMF with a DP at the end...
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I've been in mfm and fmf as well as foursomes (all combos)

If the others are open to new things, then it can be fantastic - I'm straight (mostly) but have had a couple bi experiences with the mfm and foursome arrangements
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Threesomes aren't good or bad. They're usually fun, but I recommend them primarily for singles, or very comfortable open relationships. It can get tricky with a couple and a guest, which isn't to say don't do it, but make sure anybody can say 'stop' at any time and have that happen, should they become uncomfortable. I suppose that's good advice for any threesome, or sex, but especially in that case.
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Very Very good in my opinion. I had my first 3some in high skool with two female friends i still get talking to to this day smile
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They are GREAT!, When does the party start????
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
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They are fun
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Don't like them!
I've tried them and didn't like the number, it was 1 too many or 1 or more too few. I don't make a good voyeur in a live situation and I was worried too much about giving and getting enough attention and involvement.
Nothing wrong with them but just not for me.
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I know of one sum that would be a very satisfying add to our play....
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3and moresomes are really erotic and honest ladies often enjoy it more.i love seeing my partner cumming with another guy and being next.
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I think just like with anything else it depends on the dynamics. To do it with your partner and another requires a lot of open communication and trust. But as long as the relationship is strong and boundaries are in place then go for it. If it checks something off of you and your partners sexual bucket list and you have a strong relationship then you should have nothing to worry about.
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A few times...mmf
I'd do it again but the guys I like are married or taken already.
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I helped hubby talk me into it the first time, he found me a guy with a huge cock and I must say I have enjoyed many, many threesomes and large cocks since.
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I believe if you and your partner are honest and talk it over with each other see how each truly feel. After all that try it. But tell the current one you are with that.. This changes nothing between Us..
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I believe if you and your partner are honest and talk it over with each other see how each truly feel. After all that try it. But tell the current one you are with that.. This changes nothing between Us..
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When it's good, it's fucking awesome. But if someone has a problem, it sucks. It also helps if one of you are bi, at least to me.