How do I feel about stalking? Interesting question. Are we talking creeps or prospecting dates?
If we're talking creeps then of course I'm against it. Online I have been stalked on Facebook a few times and have since created a new account and only a select few people are aware of my new one. In places like this I operate under an alias and only a select few people I know and trust have my real name. This is for multiple reasons lol. Reason 1: My family and friends do not know I write erotica and participate in naughty chats online ;) ;). Reason 2: Unfortunately online stalking does happen and if your real information is available it turns into real life stalking depending on how crazy the online stalker is. In the online world you can have a stalker reported and banned, but if they have your real information that does little to nothing to stop them. Of course I pack a taser and some bear mace so tread lightly ;).
If we're talking prospecting dates (Where I'm meaning the other person is just making up an excuse to run into to ask you out, not follow you home and peak in your windows) then as long as they don't turn into creeps if I tell them no then okay.
Lush is about sexy chat and fun. Some women can twist that or perceive something more.
Interesting. I'll stop myself from saying too much more. Without getting into details, it's very intrusive, and upsetting at the least.
I imagine that male stalkers are more common, but I'd say female stalkers can be more obsessive, relentless and emotionally invested.
It's a lesson in being careful. A stalker can ruin your personal life and career.
I hope they got counselling or something.
I think it's very creepy and it has happened many of times over the web. Sometimes they simply won't let up and just get so fixated on you and get mad if you don't wish to speak to them or you're talking to someone else. That's beyond creepy for me. Stalkers become obsessed and have in their mind, that somehow you two belong together. I've seen enough shows on TV to know how stalkers proceed. So it's good to sometimes be weary of people. Yes, it's a sex site and were all here to have fun, but there's a line that shouldn't be crossed sometimes.
How can anyone's response be anything other than, Stalking is a bad thing. Speaks to emotional instability and a dangerous type at that.
I've never been stalked myself but a close friend was and it was very weird. Her stalker wasn't threatening but he was still scary.
A younger male friend had a girl who was obsessed with him and aside from the obsession part she was attractive, polite, and intelligent. My advice to him was to see where it went and they ended up having a very happy marriage the past five years or so.
I've never been stalked before, but I did meet someone who was becoming a bit obsessive. Constantly getting mad if I didn't answer their message right away, thought as if they owned me when we were clearly just friends and thinking that we would end up together which freaked me out. They knew I was a lesbian and I didn't flirt or give them any type of indication that I thought of them in that way. He just really liked me a lot. I ended up distancing myself from this person and telling them very politely that I wish nothing but the best for the them but I'm simply not interested in anything more than a friendship. There's some people who do get carried away from it. It's best to just be direct with them and let them know that you simply won't tolerate that kind of behavior.
It's never a good feeling to know you've been targeted. I unfortunately had a bit of experience with this, and it's not cute. Stalking is a hell no.
The fact that someone thinks it's a real question to ask on a sex site is disturbing also. Get help.
Is this a corny question? Corn works well being stalked.
I value my privacy and don't like the idea of being stalked. I don't mind a bit a flirting or whatever, but men (haven't been hit on by woman anywhere near the extent that I have been hit on by women) need to understand being polite with you doesn't mean I want to be your girlfriend. To me, stalkers are sexual losers big time.
I find it creepy. I'm new here and I haven't been stalked yet, lol. However I've been stalked on other Forums and I just ended up blocking them. It's always good to watch out for red flags in person. Don't mind chatting with people and being friendly, but stalking is another thing. It can get dangerous very, very quickly. So I'm always cautious whenever I'm speaking to people. The moment they give me a warning sign, I stop speaking with them.
Years ago I stalked my ex near her apartment. I even climbed to be directly across from her bedroom balcony. I made my way onto the balcony and when she came into the bedroom, I let her know my presence. At this point, it was make or break. Because our sex had been so great, she let me in and we fucked deep into the night.
I was waiting on a to go order at a local pizza place. I had to listen to a college gal working there explain to her friend how she was being stalked every night. This gal was simply at work. Dolled up like she was looking for a gangbang to get in the middle of. Her pants were tight leather, her shirt made her small set look like triple D's. I think she rather was enjoying it.
It's illegal and a felony in most, if not all, of the states in the US. It's also indicates a psychological problem.
It's a shockingly disturbing and tone deaf question.
