hi just to let you know a friend of mine told me he thought his wife was having an affair but she never left the house at night and that sex all of a suden picked up then dropped he thinks she running around during the day so he embeded a gps locator in her smart phone so he could keep tabe on her and yep she has been going out three times a week he used a satellite to show him the house and sure enough her car was there,he did some checking and found out a single male lived thire ,he asked me if i would park down the street and record her comings and goings i did for to weeks and a man met her at the door they huged &kissed as he groped her on the frount porch! i gave him back his camera,he confronted her and showed her the vidos she started crying saying i love only you it's just sex! they kept runing into each other at the store and he kepted flirting with her then kissed her thats how it started everything hope this helps!
I think your just over thinking it. just make the most of it. make her horny like she was still 18.
Kiss her anywhere especially the places that she tickles. Make love to her 3 rounds.. You can add some sex toys also if she likes it.
This interesting, because it is common. As a psychologist who has ben married for 17 years, woman get more adventuresome as they grow old. I am a bi guy married to a bi girl. The first five years, everything was vanilla. She did not know I was bi and I did not she was bi. In short, period of time, she confessed to her true sexuality. As a bi guy, I was tickled pink. As she opened up. so did I. However, she lead the way.
My guess is she has talked to her girlfriends. When we tried swinging, many of her friends joined us. Embrace the change and enjoy the ride.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
So an update. We went to the movies Friday night, sat all the way in the back. Had three ladies directly in front of us and one guy to my left about 10 seatd away. The movie started and she put her leg on my leg and started rubbing lightly. This continued and she eventually was rubbing my cock. Daring her, I unbuttoned and unzipped my jeans. She reached in my uderwear and found my hard cock and started stroking my cock, so I pulled my pants down to where my cock was free and she could stroke me freely. This went on for about 5 min or so. I couldn't believe she was doing this, but I loved it. She had on a dress so as she stroked me I reached over and rubbed her leg and up further until I found her panties. I pushed them aside, but she stopped stroking me and surprised me again by taking her panties off. I started to rub her bare pussy again. With the movie being loud there was no worries of being too loud. I rubbed her and fingered her until she was squirming in her seat. She had a big orgasam, she was so wet. Nothing further happened, she didn't even put her panties back on. I was so hard and horny. I was so surprised she did this, especially with folks sitting so close. She said she was trying to shock me and this she did! I do not know what made her do this but I loved it. Thoughts?
I think she is talking to someone but hey enjoy the ride
Newest development. We have talked about how she loves me to lick her pussy. Well of course I love it too. She has asked me to lick her after making love to her. She has said I should clean up my mess. She must be talking to somone or reading things somewhere because she has never mentioned or talked like this before. And I wonder where this will lead down the road. We have talked about threesomes with either a girl or guy but she previously said she doesn't think she could be with a girl even that it does excite her and she doesn't need another guy. But just wonder if me cleaning my own cum from her pussy is a sign she is opening up to things. If note she does like it when she pulls her dildi from her pussy and has me suck it clean. She watches so intently and had a big orgasm. Thoughts?
I think it's simply this. As humans, the majority of us have about a 20 - 25 year window in our lives to have sex. As we go into our forties, things tend to slow down. It seems harder to make time, erectile dysfunction, stamina issues. She probably thought that she wanted to get the thrill of it while she still can.
Women talk, and sometimes sex is the topic. I know we've had sex in funky ways because her friend did it that way. Or this way. Or whatever. Perhaps she's been in a few conversations and thought the vanilla needed some spice. Just roll with it!
Might have been reading a few stories on here! ?
Might have been reading a few stories on here! ?
I still say, go along for the ride and don't worry about the whys. Most likely your questions will be answered some day, but if they aren't, SO WHAT.
I'm wondering if all the initiative has been on her part? Just 'going along for the ride' works up to a point, but unless the wife here is a control freak she'd probably appreciate Pat taking the lead now and then and acting out something he'd like to try. Adding another person is something else and both need to be emotionally prepared. Either jealousy, or over attachment to the 'extra' can occur.
Well I do let her take the lead since I am not sure how far she is wanting to go or should I say take things. She has been pretty slow to get to the point she is at. When we first got married she was pretty prim/proper, then came kids so it remained that way. Only now that our kids are older is she really starting to loosen up so to speak. Perhaps its me thats realizing the kids are older and its our time again and trying to spice things up!
