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Why aren't you telling your spouse that you frequent sites like Lush?

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Lush is pretty much it. I've looked at others and occasionally read on one but I like it here. The people are neat. And I have several good friends. One very good one.

I've told my wife and shown her. I ask her to read all my stories and she has a couple but mostly she won't any more. She gets embarrassed by the sex now and this woman screwed my brains out for 38 years or so.

Now she won't talk about it and she's losing her memory. In another year she won't remember me. She already can't remember us marrying. When her mind is completely gone I'll spend a couple of months thinking about ending me and crying a lot. I already do that a lot when I allow myself to think about it. Then I'll move on to something else. I will never be over her but I can replace some of it with new things and people. I'm already planning for that because I don't want to end it yet.

I want to see what my grand kids and great grand kids become. They are a great help and comfort to me but I need the intimacy too.

I've never hidden anything from her. Secrets have a way of biting you very hard right in your ass and I never wanted to lose her.
I am always a gentleman.
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she wouldn't understand
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Ok, I think mine too.
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Things are different between us now...I'm on my own as far as intimacy goes, so why even bring it up. Life is full of black and white until you yourself wade in the gray.
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Its complicated. ..I get ideas here also helps on lonely nights.
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Its complicated. ..I get ideas here also helps on lonely nights.
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Its complicated. ..I get ideas here also helps on lonely nights.

It does indeed help a lot
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Things are different between us now...I'm on my own as far as intimacy goes, so why even bring it up. Life is full of black and white until you yourself wade in the gray.


Explain "on my own as far as intimacy goes" ? Does it mean there is no more sexual spark between you and your spouse?
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What spouse?


LOL.....could apply to partner too, if you have one?
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Explain "on my own as far as intimacy goes" ? Does it mean there is no more sexual spark between you and your spouse?


I was vague for a reason.
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Well the thing is I write about part of my RL and that caused a "problem" first time around. Steve got really upset and I had to leave Lush for a while. Now I'm keeping it a secret until I feel really comfortable with a guy.
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My husband knows and enjoys Lush too. We were on Literotica for awhile but lost interest after getting some disgusting emails. JuLee
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Well the thing is I write about part of my RL and that caused a "problem" first time around. Steve got really upset and I had to leave Lush for a while. Now I'm keeping it a secret until I feel really comfortable with a guy.


Who is Steve, Was he your BF? How did he find out? And do you have a new BF now?

I'm sure we all have our own reasons for not wanting to disclose us visiting this site.
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Well the thing is I write about part of my RL and that caused a "problem" first time around. Steve got really upset and I had to leave Lush for a while. Now I'm keeping it a secret until I feel really comfortable with a guy.


Who is Steve, Was he your BF? How did he find out? And do you have a new BF now?

I'm sure we all have our own reasons for not wanting to disclose us visiting this site.
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Well the thing is I write about part of my RL and that caused a "problem" first time around. Steve got really upset and I had to leave Lush for a while. Now I'm keeping it a secret until I feel really comfortable with a guy.


Who is Steve, Was he your BF? How did he find out? And do you have a new BF now?

I'm sure we all have our own reasons for not wanting to disclose us visiting this site.
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My husband knows and enjoys Lush too. We were on Literotica for awhile but lost interest after getting some disgusting emails. JuLee


Cool, so at least there is common ground.
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Because...I don't HAVE ONE!
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Because...I don't HAVE ONE!


Cool
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Somethings are left better to be a secret! I don't mind her finding out though :P
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Because...I don't HAVE ONE!


LOL...haha
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Somethings are left better to be a secret! I don't mind her finding out though :P
True, how would she react if she does find out?
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True, how would she react if she does find out?


I don't know, 'cause 'm still single But 'm curious to find out
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People play on here? [shock]
(I avoid the chat area for a reason; I ain't THAT naive)

Yes, my husband knows that I'm on here and knows my pseudonym for being here. He has also agreed to take a photo for my user icon for me smile
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Quote by MerryDeath
People play on here? [shock]
(I avoid the chat area for a reason; I ain't THAT naive)

Yes, my husband knows that I'm on here and knows my pseudonym for being here. He has also agreed to take a photo for my user icon for me smile


The question was why aren't you telling your spouse you are on lush? I'm glad to know that your hubby knows you are on lush...that's awesome, not all of us can say that.
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I did tell her. Also told her that when she's feeling aroused she could visit the sites (more than one) with me. OTOH I don't spend much time here unless I'm alone. That is, I don't do porn when we're both here unless we're in the run-up to sex. In that case we look at some together and fondle each other and get worked up.
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Quote by MerryDeath
...(I avoid the chat area for a reason; I ain't THAT naive)...


I have almost no experience with chat areas. Could you tell me why you avoid them? Is there a hazard to anonymity? Thanks.
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i am spouse-free!
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i am spouse-free!


OKI DOKI...lol