Watching your partner have sex

Quote by 1Zratedgal
I thought I replied to this but here goes...

I enjoy watching some other gal have sex with my guy!
I know what he does and how he feels and to see someone else experience him is a super hot turn on for me!

It drives me crazier and makes me want to climax so badly too!

Kisses!

Steph

Quote by aldenbradley
This has been the topic of many of my stories. In researching, I've discovered that those who are adamantly opposed are generally possessive and insecure. The primary ingredient for this to succeed has to be TRUST. My personal experience is that the partners know that their relationship is solid and is based on mutual respect, and they possess a desire for the partner to experience the elation of an expanded sexuality. I've compared it to playing tennis (especially doubles). The partner gets all hot and sweaty from playing with another and experiences the thrill. At the end of the game, though, he or she returns to the original partner because what they have is bigger, stronger, and more emotionally satisfying than the momentary exultation of the game. It's fun to participate and to watch, to cheer on the participants in their pursuit of joy and delight, secure in the knowledge that the relationship endures. Sex is a physical pursuit that can be devoid of emotional attachment. Love is an emotional endeavor in which sex is an element.

Quote by aldenbradley
This has been the topic of many of my stories. In researching, I've discovered that those who are adamantly opposed are generally possessive and insecure. The primary ingredient for this to succeed has to be TRUST. My personal experience is that the partners know that their relationship is solid and is based on mutual respect, and they possess a desire for the partner to experience the elation of an expanded sexuality. I've compared it to playing tennis (especially doubles). The partner gets all hot and sweaty from playing with another and experiences the thrill. At the end of the game, though, he or she returns to the original partner because what they have is bigger, stronger, and more emotionally satisfying than the momentary exultation of the game. It's fun to participate and to watch, to cheer on the participants in their pursuit of joy and delight, secure in the knowledge that the relationship endures. Sex is a physical pursuit that can be devoid of emotional attachment. Love is an emotional endeavor in which sex is an element.

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I speak only in terms of hetero relationships. Methinks thou protesteth too much! LOL!

Quote by elliedore1994
I'd love to try one day but have always been too nervous!

I like to watch. But I’m weird 😂😂😂

I've never done it in a committed relationship, but as long as both partners are ok with it, then go for it.

I've watched my wife having fun with other girls... And enjoyed every moment of it. 🤤

I never had the occasion to see her with another guy, because she's always made it clear she didn't want to, so I don't know if I'd enjoy that. But if she wanted to, I'd be willing to try.

She's watched me having fun with most of those same girls, and actually was the one who pushed for it to happen. She says she enjoys 2 things about it:

1) She likes to see how other girls react when I do the stuff that she likes me to do to her, whether it works or not. If it does, she's turned on by the thought that she knows what the girl feels, and also by the frustration she's not the one feeling it right then. If it doesn't, seeing the girl not reacting to something which would have made her lose her mind somehow turns her own too, because it makes her feel like it's a 'special thing we share'.

2) She likes when the women choose positions we don't usually do, or do stuff she doesn't (be it to me or to themselves), simply because it makes her want to try it for herself... She's told me she feels a hint of envy/jealousy when another woman does something with me she hasn't tried yet which makes her yearn to try it ASAP, and makes her enjoy it more while we do it too.

I'm not sure I summarize her thoughts correctly but that's what I understood when she explained how it made her feel.

We had several times a MFM and MFF and both were very exciting. We both like to see how you enjoy being taken when your partner is looking at you.

My bf also loves to see me being fucked by strangers, especially a dark guy. It really turns him on. And we have hot sex together afterwards.

I would only recommend it to others if you have a strong relationship and clear agreements upfront. We only do it when we are together, never separately.

There are six of us in a FWB partnership. We are all Bi. My gf and I live together as partners but each of us has a regular guy that visits each weekend and has sleepovers with us. The other couple live together and visit occasionally.

We all copulate with one or other and openly with no closed doors. It is not unusual for one or two of us to be engaged in sex in the same room with either same sex or with one of our male partners.

Quote by Magical_felix
I think it's a really sexy fantasy. The thought of women I've been with or the one I'm with fucking another man is a turn on. In my fantasies she's always sluttier too. I have no idea why I find it so sexy but I do. One of my favorite things is laying in bed while a girl tells me about some of the sluttiest things she has done in her past. Like full on details. Down to what she was wearing, sex acts, follow ups, and how quickly she gave it up. I love all of those details.

That said, I only find it hot in fantasy. Her actually fucking another guy while I'm with her would piss me off. But her past conquests are super interesting to me.

I did that w my last bf - I had dump him.

he wanted to know. or asked. too much trouble after telling him.

In person, no but the videos were soooooo hot.

It's an awesome fantasy. Watching it in reality it would make my brain explode. I'll stick to fantasy on this one.

My hub watches me have sex with guys he hooks me up with. We both love it

I’d love to watch hubby fucking other people. One of my biggest turn ons and fantasy!

I'm 85 years old, and lost my lady 9 years ago. I used to love watching her get fucked while I was fucking his wife, or girlfriend. MMF threesomes were also ok, as long as I was a participant, but to sit and watch her fuck and jack off, absolutely never.

‘Watching’ suggests a passive role, and that wouldn’t be something that I would like. But seducing another woman, both Hubs and me together? With the right person, that could be fun. X

I have watched my husband fuck our female companion, either in control and tied to the chair as a submissive. She was in total control of us both in this situation.

Both were intensely arousing and I was 'involved' with them both.

Like Nisha says, watching and being passive, what is the point?

It's a turn on for me, and for her she says. We have done threesomes and swaps with other couples, and watching each other is always a big part of the fun. In most cases she prefers another women, but on the occasions with another guy she likes to make sure I get a good view as she doesn't like to do it apart in those cases. I always participate in some way, that's what she wants if another guy is involved.

Don’t have a partner but I do enjoy watching.