I guess it depends on the circumstances surrounding both parties cheating but I wouldn't hold out much hope of full trust returning.
If they both cheated independently, ie without knowledge of the other's infidelity, then maybe they deserve each other - it's up to them to decide whether or not they can bear being with someone who is just as bad as they are but maybe they can carry on together in an open relationship. If one partner cheated as a revenge fuck for the other's infidelity, I'd say there's little or no hope for them long term.
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Why not read some stories instead
NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber No hope in hell of it returning to what it once was.... IMO an open relationship is the only type of relationship that could work.
Yes, a couple can rekindle after both, or just one was caught cheating. They can rekindle the relationship if they weren't caught, and actually just opened up about it. Hey, they can rekindle without either one knowing cheating has taken place.
The answer is Yes.
It takes genuine forgiveness and want.
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I think you are out of your element in these weightier topics. You come in and pass judgment without expressing a single thought. Not one thought. Simple bastard.
You seem to be an expert on weightier conversations felix, and apparently since these conversations are out of my league i don't have any rights posting here?
I posted a positive statement on a subject that had nothing but negative responses by
the whole Lush community, except for 1 Lush member.
I never passed judgment on anyone. You did, Sir felix.
If you're such an established know it all, and all, why can't you just leave folks opinions lie
I actually used to like you Magical dick - head,
I'd feed you to the sharks, after calling me a simple bastard, plus, a big stud that fucks sheep, and Lords knows what other creatures that walk this planet?
Fuck you
Flix,
the reason I used to like you is because you used to remind me of myself when I was just a a kid.
I've read you wife swapping, ass fucking stories. Your a sick little punk, in your fantasy world.
Come out and judge me you little bitch.
You asked for my opinion. my opinion is: your a sore little punk, that can't really stand to hear the truth.
You apparently have never had true love. Therefor you'll never understand.
Felix, do you even understand what a person that assumes is?
It's a person just like you. You assumed from what I said, that I was a cheater.
Assuming is like telling a lie.
Pretty close to what we are talking about here. At least; pretty similar.
You assumed I cheated on my wife by what I said.
Hence, you called me a Stud, that likes to fuck sheep, and lord knows what else.
Other Words, your assumption was stated by you MajicalFelix, in front of over 2,500 members that may or may not believe you.
you tried your best to hurt me.
It's the same thing as lying.
You said: I despise liars.
Hows that for an opinion?
At what point does this become thread Jacking Jack?
Your pretty clever, I've been drinking, smoking marijuana, and cheating on my wife, all day ( because she's so naive)
Who gives a fuck about spelling you little pussy
still, the closeness we had b4 is not their !
Very difficult question to answer and one that in my opinion can't be generalized about. We are all human and situations can be unique there is no formula really or - morality we can all be hypocrites about everything. Look how many people go to a Christian church regularly yet have no problem having a war which contradicts everything Christ stood for (not that I'm a believer). From the standpoint of the cheated on it's really hard to live with the feelings of inadequacy whereas from the cheaters viewpoint it can be just a compulsive moment or it can be more complicated; these things are never one extreme or the other and I can feel a degree of understanding and sympathy for all parties.
I dont think the relationship would ever be the same. I want to know if you actually caught her in the act or if she told you about the affair and does the make a difference? It would not make a difference with me, cheating is cheating!
