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I hope so ... I've gone through a few that were not the "one"
While Doris Day sang "Que Sera, Sera"..."What will be...will be...."....it seems to me....that everyone needs to be....open and forthright.....so that when your "someone" finds you....the connection will be true....If you are on the search....don't look from a lofty perch...at just how they appeal on the outside...because a devious character they can hide....One must be in tune with what is actually inside...when judging a partner, a husband, or a bride....While you see with your eyes...it is your heart that judges who receives the prize.....A love to share...as you become a bonded pair.....
I don't know really. I hate that dumb saying about only having one heart because someone has the other one though...STUPID. lol
I really don't know...do we all really have just one someone? and what if you found someone and then lost them does that mean that there is no on out there for you?
I believe there are many "someones" for us to experience in our lives, on various levels, for various reasons or passions. I don't believe there is just "The One" that fulfills everything we seek or desire. I also think we would do well to learn to appreciate what we share with any of the "someones" with who we "click" even if it's just a furtive glance or a lingering smile. It has nothing to do with being flighty or fickle or a player or indecisive, but it has a lot to do with "connecting" with someone to some degree or other. We seem to get too tangled in trying to limit, label, and define these relationships or even to try to rationalize the whys and wherefores instead of simply enjoying them for what they are when they are, whether it's an annual tryst in some resort, a sincere everyday "Hello", or a sex-filled night that makes you smile again the next morning.
According to estimates - the adult population of the planet is 2,234,860,865 males and 2,187,838,153 females making a total number of potential relationships of 4,889,513,867,093,582,345 (that's almost five )
Even if only one in a million of those was a successful match that still makes 5 billion billion potential heterosexual relationships - the odds seemed stacked in favour of finding love.
Man, I really do say some of the most sexiest things at times
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NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber I used to think there is someone for everyone but I am now believing that's not the truth. Otherwise, I wouldn't be constantly forgotten and looked over :/
I don't think so... not for 'everyone'.
There are too many people who are screwed up and constantly pick the wrong person, are inherent loners, or will die in unhappy marriages or 'safe' relationships that they are secretly miserable in.
I think some people will be better off single, some people will be in relationships that don't work, and some people will fall in love and be happy with a 'soul-mate' type figure. It just depends on a person's individual human nature and their courage to keep looking and being open to real love, and not willing to settle for something less than meaningful. I don't think anything is fated or cast in stone and I don't think it's a 'one size fits all' Disney fantasy.
I think there are different kind of 'soul mates' in the universe (definitely more than one for each person) but I don't believe you need someone else to 'complete you'... it's more that it's wonderful to have someone that 'complements you'... but I don't believe in the 1:1 soulmate ratio or that blind feeling of kismet when you meet someone where for a million irrelevant reasons, you want to think that they are *the person* that is meant for you. It might just be the person that is meant for you at that time in your life... but things change, people change, and love is not static - it changes, ebbs and flows too.
the risk level is pretty high if you search for that someone... i am not sure i am willing to risk revealing my heart......
i do believe there is someone for everyone but we have to find that special one and when we will find them our heart will definitely give some signals that we know this is the one you are waiting for,...
single it's a choice just as much as being with someone is.
So, the answer is: yes, there's someone for every one, but for the moment that you're in now. As you both grow (not two months) at different rate and directions you will probably need a different someone at that point.
So, you'll go from chocolate chip cookies to let's say oatmeal raisin. It's ok.
You can however choose to stay with the chocolate chip one, but happiness will be affected... As well as you taste buds.
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Life is simple; we are what we eat and what we read. Talk is superfluous.
I wish, but it seems more like a fairy tale than real life. Some people settle, some people choose to stay single rather than be with someone they arent madly in love with, and a lucky few find their perfect for life match and then wonder why everyone else is so unromantic as to not believe there is a magical matchmaker arranging these things for every human being.
There is someone for everyone sometimes more than one person for everyone but one has to put themselves out theree to find him or her