Quote by suezq I do believe there is someone for everyone. But, not necessarily one someone for everyone. Maybe different someones at different stages of your life. Circumstances don't always allow them to find each other though.
I think that this sums up what I think completely.
While Doris Day sang "Que Sera, Sera"..."What will be...will be...."....it seems to me....that everyone needs to be....open and forthright.....so that when your "someone" finds you....the connection will be true....If you are on the search....don't look from a lofty perch...at just how they appeal on the outside...because a devious character they can hide....One must be in tune with what is actually inside...when judging a partner, a husband, or a bride....While you see with your eyes...it is your heart that judges who receives the prize.....A love to share...as you become a bonded pair.....
I really don't know...do we all really have just one someone? and what if you found someone and then lost them does that mean that there is no on out there for you?
I believe there are many "someones" for us to experience in our lives, on various levels, for various reasons or passions. I don't believe there is just "The One" that fulfills everything we seek or desire. I also think we would do well to learn to appreciate what we share with any of the "someones" with who we "click" even if it's just a furtive glance or a lingering smile. It has nothing to do with being flighty or fickle or a player or indecisive, but it has a lot to do with "connecting" with someone to some degree or other. We seem to get too tangled in trying to limit, label, and define these relationships or even to try to rationalize the whys and wherefores instead of simply enjoying them for what they are when they are, whether it's an annual tryst in some resort, a sincere everyday "Hello", or a sex-filled night that makes you smile again the next morning.
According to estimates - the adult population of the planet is 2,234,860,865 males and 2,187,838,153 females making a total number of potential relationships of 4,889,513,867,093,582,345 (that's almost five )
Even if only one in a million of those was a successful match that still makes 5 billion billion potential heterosexual relationships - the odds seemed stacked in favour of finding love.
Man, I really do say some of the most sexiest things at times
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Quote by overmykneenow According to estimates - the adult population of the planet is 2,234,860,865 males and 2,187,838,153 females making a total number of potential relationships of 4,889,513,867,093,582,345 (that's almost five )
Even if only one in a million of those was a successful match that still makes 5 billion billion potential heterosexual relationships - the odds seemed stacked in favour of finding love.
Man, I really do say some of the most sexiest things at times
Offer me a cookie, and I will agree with you.
Thank you for your responses, everybody. I always find it interesting to see how other people think.
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I used to think there is someone for everyone but I am now believing that's not the truth. Otherwise, I wouldn't be constantly forgotten and looked over :/
Quote by BigShyPussyKins I used to think there is someone for everyone but I am now believing that's not the truth. Otherwise, I wouldn't be constantly forgotten and looked over :/
You just haven't found the right person yet ^^ Just ignore those who forget about you, they probably ain't worth it to begin with.
Quote by BigShyPussyKins I used to think there is someone for everyone but I am now believing that's not the truth. Otherwise, I wouldn't be constantly forgotten and looked over :/
You're not alone.
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Oh dear god, in an attempt to make you feel better, I just pointed out the thing you feel bad about.
I'm such a pillock, FFS!
I MEANT, you aren't the only one!
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There are too many people who are screwed up and constantly pick the wrong person, are inherent loners, or will die in unhappy marriages or 'safe' relationships that they are secretly miserable in.
I think some people will be better off single, some people will be in relationships that don't work, and some people will fall in love and be happy with a 'soul-mate' type figure. It just depends on a person's individual human nature and their courage to keep looking and being open to real love, and not willing to settle for something less than meaningful. I don't think anything is fated or cast in stone and I don't think it's a 'one size fits all' Disney fantasy.
I think there are different kind of 'soul mates' in the universe (definitely more than one for each person) but I don't believe you need someone else to 'complete you'... it's more that it's wonderful to have someone that 'complements you'... but I don't believe in the 1:1 soulmate ratio or that blind feeling of kismet when you meet someone where for a million irrelevant reasons, you want to think that they are *the person* that is meant for you. It might just be the person that is meant for you at that time in your life... but things change, people change, and love is not static - it changes, ebbs and flows too.
Quote by Shylass Do you think there is someone for everyone, or are some people meant to be single, or do neither matter to you?
I cannot believe that anyone is meant to be single, to believe that is to imply that someone is making decisions regarding who shall find that "someone".
So once we remove that side of the equation, your question would imply that there is someone for everyone; yet I cannot blindly accept that equation either. Some people have personality issues that need to be resolved to find that "someone".
Yet once basic relationship problems are removed, I do believe that out of the millions of people looking for love on this small planet, everyone can find someone that they do truly want to be with and are wanted equally.
Aww thank you but like I just said to moonligh I have never found anyone :/ So just figure that mines taken probably lol
Neither have I, lass. They must be so brilliantly awesome that they are having to fight off all the millions of lasses who desperately desire them, which is why it's taking so long to get to us.
I can dream...
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Neither have I, lass. They must be so brilliantly awesome that they are having to fight off all the millions of lasses who desperately desire them, which is why it's taking so long to get to us.
I can dream...
Yep that must be it so may be we can dream together that one day they'll get to us
Yep that must be it so may be we can dream together that one day they'll get to us
And whilst I'm waiting for mine, I'm learning all sorts of tips and tricks on Lush, so that when he does get here and lets me show him I haven't been idle in his absence, he will momentarily lose the power of speech and movement at my wondrous skills, and then kick himself for taking so long to get here. When he says, "Where have you been all my life?" I'll say, ""Waiting for you to catch up. Now, give me cookies, please!" And he will!
Gosh, I hope that really happens! I love cookies.
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i do believe there is someone for everyone but we have to find that special one and when we will find them our heart will definitely give some signals that we know this is the one you are waiting for,...
single it's a choice just as much as being with someone is.
So, the answer is: yes, there's someone for every one, but for the moment that you're in now. As you both grow (not two months) at different rate and directions you will probably need a different someone at that point.
So, you'll go from chocolate chip cookies to let's say oatmeal raisin. It's ok.
You can however choose to stay with the chocolate chip one, but happiness will be affected... As well as you taste buds.
Choose n Practice Happiness
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Quote by BigShyPussyKins I used to think there is someone for everyone but I am now believing that's not the truth. Otherwise, I wouldn't be constantly forgotten and looked over :/
I wish, but it seems more like a fairy tale than real life. Some people settle, some people choose to stay single rather than be with someone they arent madly in love with, and a lucky few find their perfect for life match and then wonder why everyone else is so unromantic as to not believe there is a magical matchmaker arranging these things for every human being.
I do believe there's someone for everyone, but it takes effort to get there. Sometimes it happens the way we see it in the movies, but usually it doesn't. Sometimes the asshole that stomps your toe when you're wearing peep-toes is your "special someone". You can't just wait around and expect them to come to you. Sometimes you have to waste your time on a complete idiot (or a few complete idiots) to even appreciate your "special someone" when you happen to find each other.
And some of us probably already have that "special someone" in our lives and we haven't even realized it yet.
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But I have never found anyone :/ So just figure that mines taken probably lol 
When he says, "Where have you been all my life?" I'll say, ""Waiting for you to catch up. Now, give me cookies, please!" And he will!
