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I was about to date this chick and then I found out through the grape vine that she had sex with a guy one night and then his twin brother the next night? Is that slutty? I called her out on it and she got all fired up about it.
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It sounds like someone wasn't very discreet.
Not all girls like to be called a slut.
Just because she slept with two guys on two different nights does not make her a slut.
IF it was me, I'd tell you off as well. Not only is it none of your business what I did with someone else, but to listen to gossip about me would make me think you care entirely too much about what other people think.
And I, personally, have never cared what other people think of me unless it's my partner. They are the only other person's opinion that I care about. If he listened to the gossip around town about my past and believed it, and thought he should confront me about it... I would be more than a little upset.
Not all girls like to be called a slut.
Just because she slept with two guys on two different nights does not make her a slut.
IF it was me, I'd tell you off as well. Not only is it none of your business what I did with someone else, but to listen to gossip about me would make me think you care entirely too much about what other people think.
And I, personally, have never cared what other people think of me unless it's my partner. They are the only other person's opinion that I care about. If he listened to the gossip around town about my past and believed it, and thought he should confront me about it... I would be more than a little upset.
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Are you joking?! You interrogated "this chick" that you were not even in a relationship with about something you heard secondhand, and you were surprised she got upset???
I don't think it's up to us here on Lush to judge whether she is "slutty" or not. But I think YOU were way out of line. Since you asked (:
I don't think it's up to us here on Lush to judge whether she is "slutty" or not. But I think YOU were way out of line. Since you asked (:
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Are you joking?! You interrogated "this chick" that you were not even in a relationship with about something you heard secondhand, and you were surprised she got upset???
I don't think it's up to us here on Lush to judge whether she is "slutty" or not. But I think YOU were way out of line. Since you asked (:
My sentiments exactly!
Her Royal Spriteness
what they said *points up* if you'd done that to me, i'd have said "Adios, amigo" without a second thought. oh, and you'd be missing out on some of the best sex of your life, buddy. girls who like to fuck are usually damn good at it. 
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Does having sex with people without the intent to attempt an LTR with them mean they're slutty? Probably. Is that a bad thing? It wouldn't stop me from attempting to have an LTR with them. It doesn't say that they wouldn't be faithful in an LTR. It only says that they're not that fussy when they're not in an LTR. And who but a persnickity person could blame them for that.
I can understand why guys who are image conscious might not want an LTR with the town pump, but if the town pump has enough attractive qualities, isn't that really what matters?
I can understand why guys who are image conscious might not want an LTR with the town pump, but if the town pump has enough attractive qualities, isn't that really what matters?
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I hate to be "that woman" but this sounds like a huge double standard. If you fuck a girl one night and then you fuck her twin sister the next night, is that slutty?
You were way out of line and had no right "confronting" her about this. And she had every right to be pissed. I'd be pissed too. Unless we're in a serious relationship, no one has the right to question my sex life other than for safety purposes. That's probably why she was upset. Not because you accused her of being a slut (which I'm sure you did, even if you didn't mean to) but because you questioned her about it. As far as her being a slut or not, it depends on your definition of what a slut is. If you're questioning whether or not it was a slutty move, then it's probably not sitting well with you. You'd be better off finding someone else...especially since you have absolutely no chance with her now that you've called her on her slutty ways. I just hope that whoever was the source of this inside info on this alleged whore had all their facts straight. Or perhaps they just wanted to hook up with her and knew how to get you to back down.tLb3WPrF68Q1Jenq
You were way out of line and had no right "confronting" her about this. And she had every right to be pissed. I'd be pissed too. Unless we're in a serious relationship, no one has the right to question my sex life other than for safety purposes. That's probably why she was upset. Not because you accused her of being a slut (which I'm sure you did, even if you didn't mean to) but because you questioned her about it. As far as her being a slut or not, it depends on your definition of what a slut is. If you're questioning whether or not it was a slutty move, then it's probably not sitting well with you. You'd be better off finding someone else...especially since you have absolutely no chance with her now that you've called her on her slutty ways. I just hope that whoever was the source of this inside info on this alleged whore had all their facts straight. Or perhaps they just wanted to hook up with her and knew how to get you to back down.tLb3WPrF68Q1Jenq
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Yeah. That isn't cool. Assuming she did fuck them both, what's the problem anyway? As long as she's being safe it shouldn't matter to you one way or the other. If you were concerned about safety, then you should have just not gone after her in the first place, and if you weren't, then use a condom and don't worry about who she's fucked. Haven't you ever done anything a little slutty?
On the subject of "why the fuck does it matter?", neither my girlfriend are particularly promiscuous, but both of us wound up banging (between the both of us, a total of) five guys in the week before we got together. One of them we had some fun with together, and that's the night we consider our relationship to have begun on. A relationship which, I might add, is amazing. We're quite in love and committed to each other in an extremely long term way now and it doesn't matter in the slightest that we had a slutty week right before we started dating. In fact, it got us out to come out of our shells (sexually speaking) enough that our sex life is probably a lot healthier and more fun than it would have been otherwise. Promiscuity is not the end of the world. In fact, it's often a good thing for relationships if timed correctly.
On the subject of "why the fuck does it matter?", neither my girlfriend are particularly promiscuous, but both of us wound up banging (between the both of us, a total of) five guys in the week before we got together. One of them we had some fun with together, and that's the night we consider our relationship to have begun on. A relationship which, I might add, is amazing. We're quite in love and committed to each other in an extremely long term way now and it doesn't matter in the slightest that we had a slutty week right before we started dating. In fact, it got us out to come out of our shells (sexually speaking) enough that our sex life is probably a lot healthier and more fun than it would have been otherwise. Promiscuity is not the end of the world. In fact, it's often a good thing for relationships if timed correctly.
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This has GOT to be a gag post!! Cat that stuff is so high school mentality! And as Miss Sprite said...
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I was about to date this chick and then I found out through the grape vine that she had sex with a guy one night and then his twin brother the next night? Is that slutty? I called her out on it and she got all fired up about it.
You're asking us if a single-sentence rumour means that a girl is slutty? There are a myriad reasons as to why she may have got wiggly with two guys who may or may not be related, but unless you were in a relationship with her at the time, it is none of your business.
To ask us for validation on whether she is a slut or not says to me that based on that one piece of information, whether it's true or not, you already think she is. And the definition of "slutty" can be very different, depending on who you ask. You obviously see it in a negative light.
And as for "calling her out on it," that sounds aggressive, intrusive, and extremely rude. If you expect her to have some class, I think you ought to have some yourself.
And whoever "helpfully" passed on such gossip needs to shut up and get their own life straight, instead of stirring up poo in other peoples'.
Just my opinion.
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Dude, I'd call a tactical retreat on this one. I agree with the others on this one. I mean you could have made a joke out of it when you asked her and not try to be accusatory. You really shouldn't have said anything about it at all, but too late for that I guess. It really wouldn't bother me at all.
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here. If you were looking for sympathy, first look at the site you're on, then consider the general mentality of our fellow lushies here. If you waned pity or agreement... boy did you pick the wrong place to look for it!
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here. If you were looking for sympathy, first look at the site you're on, then consider the general mentality of our fellow lushies here. If you waned pity or agreement... boy did you pick the wrong place to look for it! Active Ink Slinger
The slutty town pump in question should just be glad she doesn't live in a country that still stones women to death for such disgusting behavior.
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reo did a song about this
but the best quote is.."and the talk grows cheaper on down the line" i believe...
shame on YOU for believing idle gossip
small small people who spread filth..like this...
but the best quote is.."and the talk grows cheaper on down the line" i believe...
shame on YOU for believing idle gossip
small small people who spread filth..like this...
Her Royal Spriteness
btw, you're on a sex site posting in threads like 'fuck or pass' - if someone told HER this, would you want her confronting you and calling YOU a man-slut or maybe, just being cool with it? food for thought.
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Quote by DakotaKid
I was about to date this chick and then I found out through the grape vine that she had sex with a guy one night and then his twin brother the next night? Is that slutty? I called her out on it and she got all fired up about it.
Well....would YOU do twins? just sayn.
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That doesn't make her a slut.
And thinking about this situation and the way you ask opinions, I would say that YOU are the slut. Ask yourself, "... why am I asking her out? ...". Chances are, if she didn't "put-out" for you within 15 minutes you would have broadcast to the world that she is a slut.
And thinking about this situation and the way you ask opinions, I would say that YOU are the slut. Ask yourself, "... why am I asking her out? ...". Chances are, if she didn't "put-out" for you within 15 minutes you would have broadcast to the world that she is a slut.
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double standard much anyone?And by that I mean from everyone comments here
If you clarify the reason for your sarcastic remark and tell me how I appear to have double standards to you, I will be happy to clarify my actual position.
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If you clarify the reason for your sarcastic remark and tell me how I appear to have double standards to you, I will be happy to clarify my actual position.
ditto.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.