My husband was never interested in having multiple wives or playing up. Being bi-curious, for 20 years I wanted a threesome with him and another woman. Eventually I met a young lass here on Lush and she and her lesbian lover moved down and lived with us. Eventually, hubby resisted the temptation and I got the wish with having a threesome.
Hubby has been completely rejuvenated ever since and adores Callista. I am not sure he could handle multiple wives as a harem or concubine. Sleeping as a threesome definitely has its advantages.
Most of my stories relate to this topic. Women tend to have one or more close girlfriends whereas male to male relationships are just as real but more transient. I'm sure my wife's BFF knows my favourite sex positions along with the size of my penis, I don't see why they would share the actual experience. It just seems like a natural extension of the relationship they share, and I'd never have to give another decorating, shoe or dress opinion.
I would think the stress from having multiple wives would kill a guy a good ten to twenty years before he'd have died otherwise.
Right now, men who have multiple wives are thought of as cultists, sociopathic child abusers determined to keep all the women (often girls) under their thumbs and father scores of children which the women have to raise according to his doctrines. Those men are regarded as the scum of the earth and the women are regarded as shellshocked abuse victims. That perception is extremely unlikely to change.
I think the question u need to ask yourself , is are you ok with that?
Even if you said yes. There are a zillion couples, looking for a third.
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One guy and multiple girls? That's fucked up. One guy can't take care of one girl, let alone more! One girl and two or three guys is more like ir.
His reason is to better provide for the family. Another man could do that just as well as a woman. When he suggests wives is he thinking of you, your needs and the family needs or is he thinking of his own?
Counter with a suggestion of an extra husband.
Ajay
if he is not the bread winner... then marry a second husband. don;t understand why it has to be a woman
I would be most happy with just one.
Oh Hell no. I love my wife, the only woman I ever wanted to be married to.
I'll bet you're younger by more than 10 years aren't ya?
The original poster hasn't been around in over 4 years. Hopefully she got her head on straight and kicked her freeloader sperm donor to the curb and forced child support from his worthless ass. More likely, as that was already at least her second abusive relationship, she has gone on making very poor choices.
Found there are a lot of legit discussions of Polyamory on the web. I suspect most of these relationships the extra partners are 'tertiary'. "Not part of the retirement plan", as one of my friends put it. Either way the relationship/s require a lot of communications, realistic expectations, respect. ect...
Monogamy mostly works for me. Its nice to make a few extra friends.
Has your husband started the interview yet or did he hire the services of a recruitment agency. How about social security and health benefits for the other wives? A job description might come in handy too in case they forgot what they were supposed to do. Oh and before I forget: Are the other wives supposed to stay in or out of the house after work?
