Has any of you ever been in a hotwife relationship?

I think I know a couple who are doing it, but cant be sure.

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My husband and I decided to try it a little over 4 years ago. Any sexual "first" has its own rush. The first time that I left the house knowing that when I came home another guy would have fucked me with my husbands consent was a heart pounding event. When the guy undressed me and slide his cock in me I was wildly excited about what was happening. Then going home to my husband for him to fuck my fucked body was also intense for both of us. The following weekend the extra guy and my husband gave me my first MFM and my first DP. All of these firsts are off the chart. Thrilling, intense orgasms, extremely erotic.

But there are challenges. We are not into the concept of my picking up strangers. My lovers are friends with benefits and we entered the arrangement with an agreement about repeat-sex with guys. The agreement is that once a guy was approved by both of us for me to have sex with him that I could have as much sex with him as I wanted. This was to avoid my being frustrated and the other guy being frustrated. We all know that once you fuck someone for the first time you can't wait to fuck them again.

So, I ended up going into what I call 'honeymoon mode' with the guy and I realized that I was falling in love with him. So, I offered to end the relationship but my husband suggested that I find an additional lover or two. That worked very well. Once there were several guys for me to have sex with it made it easier to view it as 'just sex' and minimize the bonding issues.

Wow haven't thought about having multiple lovers.

Hubby wants me to be a hotwife, and the idea really turns me on. But I get stressed when I start thinking about the implications it could have, then I pull out of the idea for a while. I've got a very positive mindset that I won't fall in love, but I think most woman thinks this and then falls eventually. Having multiple partners makes sense to then just see it as sex and nothing else.

Yes and still are in said lifestyle.
For the husband and me it is wonderful and most beneficial.

The ONE thing you need is Good Communication between the two of you. I f you do not have that you will fail.

I'm not sure about "amazing" - "Erotic!" Ha, the first time, new, exciting, arousing.... My hubbie watching always exclaims how wet I am.

Challenging is a good question to ask. For us it is about the right guy - He has to communicate well, there has to be an attraction and he must be well-hung and fit.
Right away that eliminates a HUGE number of men. Then you have those who are twenty years older than stated, those that just want to get off on kinky dialogue and then my Favorite; those that mistake having a big dick for Being ONE!

My wife has sex with other men so I guess that qualifies.I'm her cuck hubby.I very much enjoy watching her take on multiple men.Knowing that I'm going to be quite busy on those occasions

We’re entering what I’ve been told is Vixen-Stag territory, which I think incorporates hotwife, but I’m not sure. I’m very new to this and I joined this website to learn more about the topic.

Several months ago, my husband (M38) and I (F33) finally fulfilled our mutual MFM fantasy. Things have been going quite well; we’ve seen our third (M28) several times and have become friendly (we did not know him before approaching him about MFM with us). Over the 4th of July, he stayed with us, and we even took him to a social event with us.

My husband is traveling and told me he’d like me to see our 3rd while he’s gone this weekend. After much discussion, we confirmed our “date” yesterday. This will be the first time I will be completely alone with the 3rd. I’ve been in a bedroom alone with him (husband watching from another room via camera, don’t ask, lol), but never totally alone. Drinks, dinner, and then either to a club (if I'm getting dressed up you're taking me out lol) or home.

I’m nervous, excited, and maybe a little panic-stricken, lol.

When we went down the MFM path, I never imagined we would drift this direction. Not in a million years.

There you go. Wish me luck!