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You luv me long time, baby.
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Yes but some are just fun.
One is ready to make the plunge while the other is married and will sneak out... if your ass is married and truly knows that they won't get divorce to be w/ their cyber partner then why string them along? Then they break up and the one that has baggage will find another cyber and swoon all over again.
It's laughable.
I love Lush but some are you are whack w/ these relationships.
And no, I don't do cyber/long distant relationships. I only speak from what I've heard from other's.
We never get to pick and choose where love will find us. It can happen any place at any time. Lush isn't any different.
In the real world you find the person attractive. But be honest with yourself. It wasn't until after you've talked with the other person that you started to feel something more meaningful.
Lush is just doing it in reverse. First you chat and them. Then you see what they look like. Chances are the look aspect took a back seat.
I joined the lush mobile chatroom and would see him around, he intrigued me. One day, I worked up the courage to pm him, desperately in lust. And somehow... we just clicked. Somehow our cyber scenes always made me melt and fall a little more. Within weeks we had progressed to sexy and non-sexy phone calls, normal pics and the occasional video chat. It was a whirlwind. For months, we would spend up to 3 hours a day talking.
1500 miles apart, our real lives and our own caution made us wait 8 months to meet irl. It was well worth it. I never once had even a hint of doubt or anxiety or hesitation during that long weekend.
We are now over 14 months into this long distance relationship, with several more meetings under our belts and planning the move that will see us living together.
We still talk every chance we get.. and it just keeps getting better.