Cuckold Marriages

We are not in a cuckold relationship rather a hot wife relationship. We got into it accidentally very early in our marriage when my wife was hit on by an experienced guy at a party. We had both had just enough to drink to loosen our inhibitions and he knew what he was doing so the result was that she had full on sex with him then I had sloppy seconds. We both absolutely loved it at the time and also the next morning in the cold light of day there were no regrets we were both very turned on.

We tried our local swingers group which was very active and a lot of fun and we found out about swingers clubs which we also enjoyed. This was all before the internet and pre HIV.

We discovered the contact mags and decided that it would be fun to put an advertisement in for a single guy. I don’t know what we expected but we got nearly 100 responses. Many were not really what we were looking for but a surprising number were very interesting so we started to work our way through them.

The excitement of getting ready to meet a total stranger is just the most erotic thing that we have experienced. In our “normal” lives we are both very straight but my wife has her hidden side. She started to shave long before it was fashionable. She stopped wearing tights only wearing stockings and doesn’t wear panties under skirts.

Initially I would always be present usually joining in but my wife decided that she preferred to actually play alone as she feels she can let herself go more completely. She loves all sorts of fun and is up for most things if the mood is right

It could be daunting when you first open up the conversation in this topic. A strong sense of maturity and belief in life are needed to even start consider this. Some say you may need boundaries, it's like saying life and sex have boundaries. Maybe it works for some but in my own case, it doesn't work that way. We opened up gradually and finally we have our own ways of adventures and both have to respect each other's way to ensure no harm to the marriage, e.g. agreement to meet whoever she and me wanted, the no-limit consent in sex, even if the ones we meet might be someone we both knew or someone we dated before. It worked for us. Hope it works for you too.

Today, we are both 50+ and our relationship has changed completely. I am still married with her but we no longer share beds together. We are like "friends & life partners" now. "He" is no longer his bull since last year. We have moved out of Hong Kong and are now spending more time back in my wife's hometown in Sydney and she is seeing one of her ex white boyfriends from college's time again. I have my own journeys with my ex girlfriend from university time too when her husband is away from town. It was a good arrangement now because we live to our true self and real needs, while not breaking up our marriage.

What happened 4 years ago

It was an accident. I didn’t expect it to happen so naturally, I had some silly fantasies before about my wife (Hong Kong Chinese) sleeping with other men but it's just thoughts. I didn't actually plan on anything and although I knew my wife used to date white guys in school, I didn't know much about her old time and I assumed she was fine with me in bed all these years. We did some kinky stuff like soft bondage and semi-public sex before, but nothing beyond the two of us.

When I first introduced my wife to one of my old friend who’s a senior officer in disciplinary force, my old friend was having a divorce because his wife cheated on him. He was so upset and the guys group was trying to cheer him up. So we set up a birthday party for him and I brought my wife and so they met for the first time. It was an natural fun party and nothing sexual happened.

Later that year, I needed to travel to China for half a year for a project. I flew to Shanghai and before I went off I told my wife she could meet up with my old friend say for dinner or concert or something. They did go out for a couple of times when I was out of town. I was told nothing special has happened, just a concert, sometimes movies and a few drinks at night.

Not until 4 more months after I have returned did I see some videos forwarded by another guy friend who was in the same sex chat group of my police friend … It was her, having sex with my old friend and another guy … It turned out that my police friend has been sleeping with my wife for almost a year (and many other women before) and it was one of the reasons for his divorce. He has been sharing wives videos for sometime, just this time, it was my wife and him and one of his other friends from the fire service department who he often double-teamed women with.

After confronting my wife and had dozens of conversations ourselves, I found out she has been sleeping with him since the first month they met. Originally she was just flirting with him but after he & and his bro went to concert with her by the end of first month, they went back to his place for "coffee" and that drink lasted till the whole evening.

I was furious at first as it was embarrassing for me to see those videos and photos of her through someone else, especially when she was sleeping with someone I knew. It turned out that it was my friend’s idea to let me know she is a "fun" baby in his term, because he wished me to know my wife would cheat on me with them and better than me finding out later she's sleeping with others.

I struggled for months and talked to my wife many times. I asked detailed questions of what happened, why she did that, how did she feel, what did he do that made her do it. I found out about my wife during these conversations more than everything of her in the past years, like she actually had a lot of hardcore sex in high school with her three different Aussie boyfriends but she stopped after moving back to Asia and dating Asians like me, because we Asians seldom go for rough sex like anal, let alone 3P or stuff like that.

She did it with my old friend because she likes muscular guys. She thought his wife left him so he probably not really good in bed & just wanted to cheer him up a bit. She didn't expect he's so good in bed. She was already arose by him the first month after he showed her his house's private room of sex gadgets, but didn’t say anything until that night when they brought her to his place and started to undress and sandwich her. They broke her barriers, one after another, until she surrendered to them and opened up completely .

I struggled and talked to him and a few of my close friends after that year. Some said I should go divorce (a few of them were girls and definitely wanted to date me), some said I have to talk to her and see if it’s an impulsive thing or not.

I talked to him and he told me he was trying to prove that marriages and women were not trustworthy, that don’t bother to believe in it. Originally he just wanted to see how soon he could break my wife's boundaries. He asked me ‘did you feel arose when you saw those videos? If yes, man, you like to be cuckolded. Sorry to tell you, I have slept with many wives but your wife is a natural. She knew exactly how to 'work' with two men in bed."

That sentence hit the home run in my heart ...