There's this woman who I see every few times I go to Target; she usually working the front end. What's the best way to ask her out or should I just forget about it?
Just say: Hey, I'd love to buy you a drink sometime!
You are old enough, right?
Yeah, I'm 25. But just come out and ask her?
Yeah asian I kind of feel the same way about just asking her straight up; I'm not the kind of guy to go up to a woman and just ask her out. (And thanks, I'll pm you later)
LadyAnn, I would but that feels kinda creepier in a way
That's what I'm starting to think I'll do, thanks BDSM
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Just take a direct approach.
Confidence is always key, although some women do find nervousness to be charming.
Maintain good eye contact, and make sure you have specific plans in mind. Or maybe instead of asking her out, ask for her number instead.
But I'd be careful about asking her out on the job. Some employers get annoyed by this.
I hope it goes well.
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Thank you Dani.
Confidence is what a few friends have said I should show more of, but I'm not the most confident. And yeah, that's why I'm not sure about asking her out while she's working; I don't want to get her in trouble.
Thanks Escape. I know someone who would google those same cheesy pick up lines; I also saw how they never worked haha.
Yeah, I'm just going to try being ypmyself when I ask her.
Well Buz that would certainly get her attention lol
Do the small talk routine but have a plan... ask her the location of a product and ask her if she would be kind enough to help you find it example insect repellant that contains deet. then explain your reason for it ... deet is the best preventive for ticks ( lime disease)
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when hiking
you already done two things announced your out doors type and intelligent enough to know what you want and for what purpose. now the door is open to ask if she knows of any hiking trails and finally the most important question
( looking for an opening) what activities do you do when not working at target?
\ if she mentions hiking trails you could reply maybe our paths will cross......... if this does not fit you... just adapt to the premises set forth
good luck let us know how it works out
How about... Hey babes I soooooooooooooooooo want to buy you a half of lager and a bag of cheese and onion crisps.
Really... just be honest... I have seen you a few times here and I would like to get to know you ... would that be possible? Would you like a drink one night? .. whatever line suits but in summary let her know your interest in her ... she can only say no and then at least you know where you stand.
Confidently, clearly and with no fear of rejection. Pick the right time to do so as well. After you have made her laugh or after a pleasant exchange or sharing of interests would be ideal.
Vivien, that's a good idea. I'll definitely try it next time I'm in Target.
Simplyjohn, that would work too. I'm just not the type to go up to a woman and bluntly ask her out.
Magical, yeah but fear has a tendency to make me think twice alot.
Man you have to grow enough of a backbone to be able to stand up and talk for yourself! The worst that can happen is this one person says no. If that should happen, you need to realize that there are at least a couple million other people in the world and you may need to give 2 or 3 of them a try also. This is just a day in your life, it ain't that big a deal. Just walk up and ask. In the month plus that we've been talking about this, I'll bet you 4 or 5 other guys have ask... You may already have missed your chance.
I'm not the best at this either but I'd strike up a conversation with her. I'd maybe ask for help. Saying something like, would you be able to help me pick out a shirt? (Or whatever) I've noticed you before, have you worked here long? Etc.
I could never be bold enough to to just ask her out abruptly.