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Cloudfox
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Well, I finally did it; this evening when I was out doing some late shopping...and she said yes for tomorrow night so hopefully everything well smile And yes I should have asked her out sooner
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Quote by Cloudfox
Well, I finally did it; this evening when I was out doing some late shopping...and she said yes for tomorrow night so hopefully everything well smile And yes I should have asked her out sooner


Good for you. Hope it works out.
Ls63563
Active Ink Slinger
Great growth! I hope things work out. Regardless, don't backslide, continue to work on standing tall.
simplyjohn
Site administrator
Yay .. well done!! If it doesnt work out please give her my contact details smile.
Cloudfox
Active Ink Slinger
So, we went out last night. It went overall well; we got some drinks at a local place I knew of and we seemed to hit it off. Thanks again everyone for your suggestions and help...I really needed it hsha.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Cloudfox
So, we went out last night. It went overall well; we got some drinks at a local place I knew of and we seemed to hit it off. Thanks again everyone for your suggestions and help...I really needed it hsha.


You will have to update this thread when you get to third base. I hate starting a love story and not finding out how it ends.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felix


You will have to update this thread when you get to third base. I hate starting a love story and not finding out how it ends.


funny how yours always end on third base. mine usually make it all the way home, but then, i'm me, and you're you.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by sprite


funny how yours always end on third base. mine usually make it all the way home, but then, i'm me, and you're you.


Third base is the turning point. It's when the denouement starts. Without getting too lowbrow... I either want to pluck that flower or toss the roast beef sandwich in the trash. I wan't to hear the ending starting from there.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felix


I either want to pluck that flower or toss the roast beef sandwich in the trash.


Going vegetarian is good for you AND it's ethically good karma. i'm proud of you.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by sprite


Going vegetarian is good for you AND it's ethically good karma. i'm proud of you.


Thank you, it's tough at first but if you spice chicken breast just right it starts to pass for an actual piece of meat. More people should give vegetarianism a chance.
clum
Clumeleon
Quote by Cloudfox
So, we went out last night. It went overall well; we got some drinks at a local place I knew of and we seemed to hit it off. Thanks again everyone for your suggestions and help...I really needed it hsha.


Well done, mate. Hope it works out for you (or you at least get your hole).
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felix


Thank you, it's tough at first but if you spice chicken breast just right it starts to pass for an actual piece of meat. More people should give vegetarianism a chance.


for the record, fish and fowl are designated as meat as well. you have much to learn, padawanatarian.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
adi_me33
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Does the Target have a cafe? If yes I would ask her to have a "date" there. Coffee chat??

Edit. Due to extreme laziness, I did not read anyones comments, so, ignore mine ;)
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There have been a number of good suggestions here. One fast way to find out IF she has a husband or Bf is to simply tell her "He's a lucky guy." And, when she asks "Who"" say "Your BF" THEN if she's says "Thanks I'll tell him" you know you're wasting your time... at the minute. From time to time you can casually ask IF she's still with that same lucky guy. IF she says she doesn't HAVE a BF or husband, ask her if she'd consider changing that and if she shows interest, take it from there in asking for a date.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Weavindreams
There have been a number of good suggestions here. One fast way to find out IF she has a husband or Bf is to simply tell her "He's a lucky guy." And, when she asks "Who"" say "Your BF" THEN if she's says "Thanks I'll tell him" you know you're wasting your time... at the minute. From time to time you can casually ask IF she's still with that same lucky guy. IF she says she doesn't HAVE a BF or husband, ask her if she'd consider changing that and if she shows interest, take it from there in asking for a date.


yep, this works great. scene at a store:

Cool dude walks up to me

Dude: He's a lucky guy.

Me: Who?

Dude: Your boyfriend.

Me: Um... I don't have a boyfriend.

Dude: Cool. What're you doing for dinner saturday night?

Me: Taking my wife out. Why?

Moral of the story. don't make assumptions. Also, don't fuck around. Let's try this again.

Dude: You seem really cool. I was wondering if you'd be interested in going out for drinks or lunch sometime?

Marrried lesbian me: Sure, but if it's a date, you should know that I'm not into guys

OR

Have a boyfriend straight me: Oh, you seem cool too, but I'm seeing someone right now. Thanks, though.

OR

Unmarried straight me: Sure, sounds like fun. Thanks for just asking. A lot of guys always gotta go with the lines and all that shit. I'm not stupid; I get the game they're playing and it's kind of a turn off. By the way. If we hit it off, I'm totally into going back to your place and fucking your brains out afterwards.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Guest
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Quote by sprite


yep, this works great. scene at a store:

Cool dude walks up to me

Dude: He's a lucky guy.

Me: Who?

Dude: Your boyfriend.

Me: Um... I don't have a boyfriend.

Dude: Cool. What're you doing for dinner saturday night?

Me: Taking my wife out. Why?

Moral of the story. don't make assumptions. Also, don't fuck around. Let's try this again.

Dude: You seem really cool. I was wondering if you'd be interested in going out for drinks or lunch sometime?

Marrried lesbian me: Sure, but if it's a date, you should know that I'm not into guys

OR

Have a boyfriend straight me: Oh, you seem cool too, but I'm seeing someone right now. Thanks, though.

OR

Unmarried straight me: Sure, sounds like fun. Thanks for just asking. A lot of guys always gotta go with the lines and all that shit. I'm not stupid; I get the game they're playing and it's kind of a turn off. By the way. If we hit it off, I'm totally into going back to your place and fucking your brains out afterwards.


While I get your point, the rest of it is, he isn't going to get anywhere with a devout lesbian anyway. So it's really no different than asking her only to find out that she does have either a BF or a husband. Yeah. blunt can work, but I've seen THAT be a turn off too. Bottom line, no two people are alike in that regard. Oh, and BTW even the gal who's married might say "Thanks, I'll tell him... as he doesn't seem to know it." Translation, YES, BUT the door IS still open if you're interested.

I have no way of knowing how many women you've picked up and dated but, while I've had my share of rejections I've also had my share of extremely hot babes. He asked for advice and I gave it. Sorry that you don't agree with it. We all have to go with what's worked for US.
We do seem to agree on one thing though. As my Dad told me when I was in my teens "Son it doesn't matter how good looking they are, the worst they can do is say 'NO!' But, they can't ever say "YES!" if you don't at least give them the chance." Have a nice one.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Weavindreams
There have been a number of good suggestions here. One fast way to find out IF she has a husband or Bf is to simply tell her "He's a lucky guy." And, when she asks "Who"" say "Your BF" THEN if she's says "Thanks I'll tell him" you know you're wasting your time... at the minute. From time to time you can casually ask IF she's still with that same lucky guy. IF she says she doesn't HAVE a BF or husband, ask her if she'd consider changing that and if she shows interest, take it from there in asking for a date.


Leading off with "do you have a boyfriend or husband" is about the stupidest way to ask a girl out. It really is.
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Quote by Magical_felix


Leading off with "do you have a boyfriend or husband" is about the stupidest way to ask a girl out. It really is.


Whatever, read my post above. Some of us realize that women can't be put into a nifty little box, and that they are individuals. What works with one is a sure fire bust with another. But, think whatever the Hell you please. I've managed to enjoy myself whenever I've been and have often been called "a charmer". What some clown wih his dick in his hand thinks doesn't really matter to me.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Weavindreams


I've managed to enjoy myself whenever I've been and have often been called "a charmer".


Please..

What you achieve by asking a woman right off the bat if she has a boyfriend or is married is to make her uncomfortable. Without realizing you are going to ask her out she might say she doesn't... Now you ask her out and she doesn't want to go out on a date with your un-charming ass... Now she actually has to reject you because she just doesn't dig you. And we all know how some guys react to rejection... You take away her easy out in saying she is seeing someone. Not to mention the fact you are letting her know that you aren't even interested in her as a person unless there's a chance to get laid. It's just stupid.

Anyway... The good thing is this young blood cloudfox got his date. It seems to be going well for him too.
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Please... You're about as charming as a jar of pickle juice.

You you achieve by asking a woman right off the bat if she has a boyfriend or is married is to make her uncomfortable. Without realizing you are going to ask her out she might say she doesn't... Now you ask her out and she doesn't want to go out on a date with your un-charming ass... Now she actually has to reject you because she just doesn't dig you. And we all know how some guys react to rejection... You take away her easy out in saying she is seeing someone. Not to mention the fact you are letting her know that you aren't even interested in her as a person unless there's a chance to get laid. It's just stupid.

The good thing is this young blood cloudfox got his date before you came in to taint the thread with foolishness. It seems to be going well for him too.


Maybe I failed to make myself clear you continually TROLLING JERK, so perhaps THIS will do it:







An opinion I've been told is shared by some the ladies on this site... STUD (sarcasm dripping from the word). Feel free to utilize your "one size fits all" and "all women are the same and respond in exactly the same way to everything" moronic mind set to your hearts content. BTW I've already told you, I won't just put up with your insults and /or the rest of your cheap shit. SO, if have anything more to say to the OP... remember to leave ME the Hell out of it!
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Weavindreams


Maybe I failed to make myself clear you continually TROLLING JERK, so perhaps THIS will do it:







An opinion I've been told is shared by some the ladies on this site... STUD (sarcasm dripping from the word). Feel free to utilize your "one size fits all" and "all women are the same and respond in exactly the same way to everything" moronic mind set to your hearts content. BTW I've already told you, I won't just put up with your insults and /or the rest of your cheap shit. SO, if have anything more to say to the OP... remember to leave ME the Hell out of it!


Go cry about it.
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Asking someone out? All I say is "lets FUCK" you'll get one of two responses...lol
Guest
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Quote by Magical_felix


Go cry about it.


I say again shove it up your ass and leave me the Hell out of your posts piss ant.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Weavindreams


I say again shove it up your ass and leave me the Hell out of your posts piss ant.


I'm calling the waahmbulance for you as I type.
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Magical_felix



What you achieve by asking a woman right off the bat if she has a boyfriend or is married is to make her uncomfortable. Without realizing you are going to ask her out she might say she doesn't... Now you ask her out and she doesn't want to go out on a date with your un-charming ass... Now she actually has to reject you because she just doesn't dig you. And we all know how some guys react to rejection... You take away her easy out in saying she is seeing someone. Not to mention the fact you are letting her know that you aren't even interested in her as a person unless there's a chance to get laid. It's just stupid.

The good thing is this young blood cloudfox got his date before you came in to taint the thread. It seems to be going well for him too.


HA!!! Taint. I love that word. Makes me giggle glitter everywhere. Tainted Love. Gol (rofl)
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I'm calling the waahmbulance for you as I type.





Another mono digital salutation for "Mr. Sensitive and Understanding" the site TROLL who still hasn't figured out that women are human too.
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Boogie_Man
Asking someone out? All I say is "lets FUCK" you'll get one of two responses...lol


thanks. I was gonna say that but if a girls says it, well...slut. So. Wanna fuck??
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by Weavindreams





Another mono digital salutation for "Mr. Sensitive and Understanding" the site TROLL who still hasn't figured out that women are human too.


Your forum banner reminds me of something my 12 year old cousin would put on her myspace page back in the day. lol
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Weavindreams





Another mono digital salutation for "Mr. Sensitive and Understanding" the site TROLL who still hasn't figured out that women are human too.


FOR fucks sake. Get a fucking room already!! You two obviously want each other. Imma start a Felix & Weavindreams are in love thread. Both powerbottoms
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Quote by adi_me33


FOR fucks sake. Get a fucking room already!! You two obviously want each other. Imma start a Felix & Weavindreams are in love thread. Both powerbottoms


It was nice having you on my friend's list but as you seem to prefer the troll, you're welcome to him.