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Why is lactation so frowned upon?

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Lactation, as in adult breast feeding, seems to be a practice. Health-wise, while nursing from a woman's tits, some hormones are released in her blood, which induce feelings of attachment and safety too.

Given the right age, if suckled regularly on a lover's breast, on a specific time every day for a while, she may start lactating. There are medications which do that for older women, but i believe they could be dangerous, so we dont go for that option often.

I definitely feel its frowned upon, though, because its rare to find an erotica describing it in detail and as an important part of the lesbian couples' love making. I dont know the reason for the same.

It seems strange because, on one hand, we can easily get to read weird stories where people write about fantasies of making out with fairies pushing stilettos inside us, but no erotica mentioning the joys of nursing from lovers' breasts.
I've never even looked for lactating stories here on Lush, so I dunno if there's actually a paucity in that genre. We have lots of lactation videos on the lesbian site I run. It seems to be more of a lesbian thing.
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Lactation, as in adult breast feeding, seems to be a practice. Health-wise, while nursing from a woman's tits, some hormones are released in her blood, which induce feelings of attachment and safety too.

Given the right age, if suckled regularly on a lover's breast, on a specific time every day for a while, she may start lactating. There are medications which do that for older women, but i believe they could be dangerous, so we dont go for that option often.

I definitely feel its frowned upon, though, because its rare to find an erotica describing it in detail and as an important part of the lesbian couples' love making. I dont know the reason for the same.

It seems strange because, on one hand, we can easily get to read weird stories where people write about fantasies of making out with fairies pushing stilettos inside us, but no erotica mentioning the joys of nursing from lovers' breasts.


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I've never even looked for lactating stories here on Lush, so I dunno if there's actually a paucity in that genre. We have lots of lactation videos on the lesbian site I run. It seems to be more of a lesbian thing.


I havent watched much porn, but thats because i believe that its really, really hard to find an artistically satisfying video, which is captivating, in which the performers are being realistic, romantic and it could be therefore enjoyable. You can reply with the link to the website you run, if you would like to.
Oddly, I have a lactation scene in a story that's sitting in my personal slush pile. Just kind of slipped in spontaneously as I wrote a hot love scene. The problem is that the woman providing the milk really should not be lactating based on the background I've built so I'm kind of mulling over what to do with it; remove the lactation play or change the background to give her a reason to be producing milk. Your suggestion about regular breast play causing it might be the fix (though, again, I'd need to establish that in the background).
Being sterile, I've never fathered children so this is one of the few areas I have no direct experience with. I have often thought of adding a lactation scene to a story, but I stop because I really don't know what a woman feels when a (lover) is suckling her.

I think that's something I'd like to know. What it actually feels like, and how arousing it is when made part of a sexual experience, completely apart from nursing a child.
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Being sterile, I've never fathered children so this is one of the few areas I have no direct experience with. I have often thought of adding a lactation scene to a story, but I stop because I really don't know what a woman feels when a (lover) is suckling her.

I think that's something I'd like to know. What it actually feels like, and how arousing it is when made part of a sexual experience, completely apart from nursing a child.


A woman suckling on her lover's tits and a man doing the same can be two entirely different sensations. Obviously, i have no experience with a man, but one of my friends has had it. According to her, even though her hubby has always been somewhat adventurous, it seemed weird for her when they did that. But when she was with her girl lover, it seemed natural. She is in her early thirties, and they waited for her kid to grow old enough, because it seemed too strange for her to let her hubby try it when her kid needed her milk to grow up.

Initially, the sensations can be overwhelming, they are surely surprising.
i have had the pleasure of sucking on a lactating mothers breasts.
She was in the process of drying out after she had ceased breast feeding.
The both of of us discussed the situation before we began as we were not sure of how we would feel.We had been lovers previous to, and during her pregnancy. Once we began the emotion between us was just beautiful. Both of us were dissapointed when she had been drained. We achieved it at least twice more.
I used this experience to describe an event in my story "It Stared With Baby Sitting". I received some nice coments about the breast feeding so I assume it is appreciated when used in a story.
As Lesbiannyc has said - "The sensation can be overwhelming." In my case it was quite emotional as I did have feelings for the woman involved.
I don't see the need to have a category for it though.
The only fact that adult breast feeding is considered , makes it an exciting thing for both sexes. Personally, I ve had a few occasions when I fed my breast milk to other adults. It kinda excited both of us. Moreover, I think men find it very very kinky, and if they come to know that their partner is lactating, they do not miss a chance to get the taste of her milk.
I don't find it bad at all as I don't see any harm in it.
PLEASE DO CORRECT ME IF I AM WRONG.
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The only fact that adult breast feeding is considered , makes it an exciting thing for both sexes. Personally, I ve had a few occasions when I fed my breast milk to other adults. It kinda excited both of us. Moreover, I think men find it very very kinky, and if they come to know that their partner is lactating, they do not miss a chance to get the taste of her milk.
I don't find it bad at all as I don't see any harm in it.
PLEASE DO CORRECT ME IF I AM WRONG.


I can't speak for ALL men, but this does nothing for me. It's quite possible that my guy pals wouldn't necessarily tell me this, but out of all the things they've told me they find sexy- this isn't one of them

I don't see anything wrong with it per se, but the thought does nothing for me. I wouldn't ever be breastfeeding a pregnant woman myself
Because I was a bottle baby. Also the mother is usually seated and the fact that I am tall enough that my eyes are higher than most women's boobs even if they are daring and hearty enough to nurse while standing.
i for one love it, havn't been in an ANR for several years but just out of college i was in a long term relationship that was most precious and loving.
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I've never even looked for lactating stories here on Lush, so I dunno if there's actually a paucity in that genre. We have lots of lactation videos on the lesbian site I run. It seems to be more of a lesbian thing.


I'd love to have a look at that site of yours.

I've had the great fortune and pleasure to have shared such delicious intimacy with several g/f's and lovers over the years, and can honestly say it has been intense and enriching on every such occasion.

Why it appears to be a I fail to understand, though with that said, even breast-feeding ones child still causes raised eyebrows in some places...sighs.
the only reason i could see it being labeled as is because it's an act that's normally designated for mother and child. i was actually introduced to it first here. a friend had written a story with a lactation scene in it. in reading it and discussions with him, i discovered how erotic, and intimate, the act can be.

Say. Her. Name.


I actually have a Mother fetish and would love to suckle on her breasts and be fed
I never seriously thought about it - I felt that it was somehow tied in with that whole "baby" thing, with diapers and such, but that's probably just because I don't know much about the practice. I've run across milky videos, and always thought they were hot (mostly lesbian oriented), but now that you mention it - I'd love to try it.
i would love to try it one day
I didn't realize it was something that was frowned upon. Interesting and strange that it is.
id love to explore this subject with anyone interested in talking about it, perhaps and female that is active in this. I don't understand the of it, i just think it might be natural and erotic for both parties who enjoy it.
Didn't expect to find it sexy, but I did. Kids are older; I doubt I'll ever experience it again, but sure am glad I did. I do find lactating lesbian videos (there are a few out there) incredibly hot.

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