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Ok, so I really don't care for labels, I prefer to be seen as just a fun, wild dude with a very sexually open mind...but just out of curiosity, can someone help me figure this out? I think I would be considered Bisexual, but not 100% certain. These are my interests. My status with women... I'll have a love relationship with a woman. I have feelings for women, emotional and sexual. I'll cuddle and hold a woman. And I like having sex with women. And my status for men.... I'll never have a boyfriend or have emotional feelings for a man. It's a just-sex thing. Other than sex, the most I'll do is say a guy is "cute" or "sexy" or make a comment about his dick or a physical feature. When it comes to sex with a man, I don't like receiving a blow job or putting my dick in him. I only like to do the sucking and I'm the one that gets penetrated. I come in, I'll suck the cock for a good long while, you can bend me over or put me how you want me, stick it in me, fuck my brains out and make me scream, bust your nut in me/on me/in my mouth, then I limp on out of there with no emotional attachment, call me when you want more ass. I'm not bi-curious as I've been sexually involved with 4 guys, doing it 2 or 3 times each. I've done it enough to know I love cock and it's not just a curiosity. Oh, in some cases, I've been requested by the straight-acting guy that I wear glue on nails cuz he likes the way they look when I stroke his cock and also that I wear boy cut shorts or thongs to his house to seem more feminine making him more masculine, which I have no issue with. Sometimes I like dressing up for him. I don't know why. So, what are your opinions?
Lurker
The label I would use would be bi-sexual.
Site administrator
Yep I agree ... just a very quick google here ...

Bisexuality is a sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical or romantic attraction to both males and females.
Advanced Wordsmith
Thank you for your input.
Lurker
As you say, it's complex. You sound more gay than bi-sexual, in my opinion, but you're afraid perhaps of the commitment factor of emotional attachment to a man or men. That you want to be used by men is the complexity. You feel safer with the company of women for emotions, but the physical aspect of sex? It's men. Perhaps as you grow older and more mature, you'll likely settle for one or the other. Lots of gay men go their entire lives as "cruisers" for sex. You might find some interest in reading Jean Genet's novels.
Lurker
I agree use bi sexual
Internet Philosopher
You're bi-sexual. Welcome to the club
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Quote by yourmisterdark
As you say, it's complex. You sound more gay than bi-sexual, in my opinion, but you're afraid perhaps of the commitment factor of emotional attachment to a man or men. That you want to be used by men is the complexity. You feel safer with the company of women for emotions, but the physical aspect of sex? It's men. Perhaps as you grow older and more mature, you'll likely settle for one or the other. Lots of gay men go their entire lives as "cruisers" for sex. You might find some interest in reading Jean Genet's novels.


I get the impression that he's bi with a leaning towards women, to be honest. I mean, it's obvious that can be attracted to guys (and loves cock), but he seems to be able to form emotional attachments with women whereas he doesn't with men. I myself can relate a little. I'm attracted to both sexes (though women a little more so), but I grow attached to men much more quickly than I do women and when I imagine myself in a long-term relationship it's always with a man. Hence why I consider myself bi with a leaning towards men.

However, you did bring up a really good point about fearing commitment with someone of the same sex. I don't know the OP so it would be silly of me to assume, but this could be the reason why he's reluctant to form emotional attachments with guys. If he was brought up to believe that men can't have "real" relationships the way a heterosexual couple supposedly can, then that might be influencing his disinterest in forming an emotional connection and starting a relationship with a man.

Or it could be that he just likes being fucked by guys, end of story. *shrugs*
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If you read my profile, you will see I am not certain of my sexuality either. BiSexual yes, but I do love woman so much and at times I think I could be a completely happy Lesbian. But then there are times I could not survive without a man to do for what only a man can do.

So you are not alone, but you will find your way I know.
Advanced Wordsmith
And you shave your head?????????
The Linebacker
I do believe you are bisexual. Just be honest with yourself and especially with those you become involved with. If you are honest and open up front I am sure it will spare a lot of hurt feelings to both men and women with whom develop feelings for you.
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And you shave your head?????????

What does my shaved head have to do with anything?
Active Ink Slinger
I was too. I now know what I am. I am a gay cross dresser and proud of it.
Rookie Scribe
ok here goes with total honesty,,,want opinion's.....I dont like labels either...I I have a girl who was happy with sex-life, so I thought.....we got into role-play , sex with others around and P-N-P....when I smoked I would get this immediate feeling rushing over me...I immediately want sex...it got crazy,, we smoked and watched porn,didnt take long for me to notice I was watching a lot of blow job scenes,, or a girl with 2 guys , I was all of a sudden wishing I was the girl in the threesome...or the girl giving head...., I started to obsess about cocks and having one in my mouth then one in my ass, one fucking me in rythem with my blowjob , I would jack off and play with my anal toys for hours while watching , after a while of this my girl got jealous and said if you want to be the girl so bad I am going to turn you, it will add some spice to our sex..for months we played our game....first we would shower and get each-other all excited, she would bend me over and give me an enema....we would dryoff and walk over to the bed which has restraints at all the places she wanted restrained...I would lay back on the bed and get high then she would put me in the position she wanted and would bind me up tight...she would start to play with me then turn on pornos....mostly straight with blowjobs at first....she would get me so exicited then put on a bi-sexual movie,,,st first I would watch the girls doing what they were doing...she would then penetrate me with one of our toys ..she would fuck me so slowly at first then as the movies got real juicy she would really pick up the pace man it started to feel so good , she would fuck me in rythm with her hand on my cock,,,got to admit it felt so good..as time passed she started to dress me up for our game....wearing silky lingere felt so damn good , we started out playing our game as usual and I am so fucking horny I was getting so into it..she had me doggystyle on the bed ...restrained of course,, she had been fucking my ass so good but stopped and told me she had a gift for me in the other room and that she was going to go get it...while she was gone my mind started to wander,, what present would she have gotten me,,,wahy bring it up know,, when I was in x-stacy,,boy was I,, my head was spinning when all of a sudden it came to me that she had another guy out there and she was bringing him in here for me,,,all of a sudden im felling kinda funny...im so excited to be able to do ..what though,, when i realize that im thinking about sucking his cock,,not only that but im so super excited at the thought,,I start thinking how I would take his hard cock in my mouth,,how it would taste , how it would feel in my mouth...now im realizing im getting excited about his cock...and i realize that I have been watching more cocks and noticing them thinking to myself I would like that in my mouth,,,filling me up with load after load of his warm tasty cum...dont get me wrong we still have great sex....but find myself fantasizing when watching porn....of unzipping your pants.taking out your big cock and stroking it ,its so big, even getting more excited by your size,,I take you in my mouth, and hold just the tip and suck hard on it, as im loving your cock in my mouth it feels bette & betterr as you push it down my throat,, loving how it feels....I can taste your pre-cum,,taste so sexy,,,oh now I want your biggest hot load I can coax out of your awesome cock...I can feel thats its starting to get to you...your legs are starting to tense up..your cock is swelling ,,here it comes you start to pump my mouth then the first stream of cums hits the back of ny throat, as you pulling back to push it in futher out spurts another load this time right on my tongue,,all of a sudden you pull out and I open my mouth wide and you dump load after load in my mouth and down my throat,,,I take you softening cock back in my mouth and suck it all out....and now im getting you hard again...can tell your excited too...as it took all of 2 iminutes to get you rock hard,,and I mean rock,,8 1/2 inches of pure rock hard pleasure,,,.what was that,,i see,, you want me on my knees again,,im getting so excited..come get this ass its lubed and ready....so you go to town,,Im there getting the fucking of my life when I hear someone in the room,,but cant see from the right side..you start to slow down,, working a real rythem,,im loving itnext thing I know there is a friend of yours standing in front of me,, he asks me if im ready,,,ready for ??....I know know now,,,I love cock, cock..and cum in my mouth,,,I want it so bad..am I gay..or Bi....or ??

Should I go thru with it....
should I seek it out or wait till it might present itself..

can anyone tell me how sex with another guy is,,,do I want a big cock or not..fantasize about a large cock,,,any tips or Ideas on where to go to get this....or how to set something..
im really lost and need some guidance
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Quote by Randall2you
ok here goes with total honesty,,,want opinion's.....I dont like labels either...I I have a girl who was happy with sex-life, so I thought.....we got into role-play , sex with others around and P-N-P....when I smoked I would get this immediate feeling rushing over me...I immediately want sex...it got crazy,, we smoked and watched porn,didnt take long for me to notice I was watching a lot of blow job scenes,, or a girl with 2 guys , I was all of a sudden wishing I was the girl in the threesome...or the girl giving head...., I started to obsess about cocks and having one in my mouth then one in my ass, one fucking me in rythem with my blowjob , I would jack off and play with my anal toys for hours while watching , after a while of this my girl got jealous and said if you want to be the girl so bad I am going to turn you, it will add some spice to our sex..for months we played our game....first we would shower and get each-other all excited, she would bend me over and give me an enema....we would dryoff and walk over to the bed which has restraints at all the places she wanted restrained...I would lay back on the bed and get high then she would put me in the position she wanted and would bind me up tight...she would start to play with me then turn on pornos....mostly straight with blowjobs at first....she would get me so exicited then put on a bi-sexual movie,,,st first I would watch the girls doing what they were doing...she would then penetrate me with one of our toys ..she would fuck me so slowly at first then as the movies got real juicy she would really pick up the pace man it started to feel so good , she would fuck me in rythm with her hand on my cock,,,got to admit it felt so good..as time passed she started to dress me up for our game....wearing silky lingere felt so damn good , we started out playing our game as usual and I am so fucking horny I was getting so into it..she had me doggystyle on the bed ...restrained of course,, she had been fucking my ass so good but stopped and told me she had a gift for me in the other room and that she was going to go get it...while she was gone my mind started to wander,, what present would she have gotten me,,,wahy bring it up know,, when I was in x-stacy,,boy was I,, my head was spinning when all of a sudden it came to me that she had another guy out there and she was bringing him in here for me,,,all of a sudden im felling kinda funny...im so excited to be able to do ..what though,, when i realize that im thinking about sucking his cock,,not only that but im so super excited at the thought,,I start thinking how I would take his hard cock in my mouth,,how it would taste , how it would feel in my mouth...now im realizing im getting excited about his cock...and i realize that I have been watching more cocks and noticing them thinking to myself I would like that in my mouth,,,filling me up with load after load of his warm tasty cum...dont get me wrong we still have great sex....but find myself fantasizing when watching porn....of unzipping your pants.taking out your big cock and stroking it ,its so big, even getting more excited by your size,,I take you in my mouth, and hold just the tip and suck hard on it, as im loving your cock in my mouth it feels bette & betterr as you push it down my throat,, loving how it feels....I can taste your pre-cum,,taste so sexy,,,oh now I want your biggest hot load I can coax out of your awesome cock...I can feel thats its starting to get to you...your legs are starting to tense up..your cock is swelling ,,here it comes you start to pump my mouth then the first stream of cums hits the back of ny throat, as you pulling back to push it in futher out spurts another load this time right on my tongue,,all of a sudden you pull out and I open my mouth wide and you dump load after load in my mouth and down my throat,,,I take you softening cock back in my mouth and suck it all out....and now im getting you hard again...can tell your excited too...as it took all of 2 iminutes to get you rock hard,,and I mean rock,,8 1/2 inches of pure rock hard pleasure,,,.what was that,,i see,, you want me on my knees again,,im getting so excited..come get this ass its lubed and ready....so you go to town,,Im there getting the fucking of my life when I hear someone in the room,,but cant see from the right side..you start to slow down,, working a real rythem,,im loving itnext thing I know there is a friend of yours standing in front of me,, he asks me if im ready,,,ready for ??....I know know now,,,I love cock, cock..and cum in my mouth,,,I want it so bad..am I gay..or Bi....or ??

Should I go thru with it....
should I seek it out or wait till it might present itself..

can anyone tell me how sex with another guy is,,,do I want a big cock or not..fantasize about a large cock,,,any tips or Ideas on where to go to get this....or how to set something..
im really lost and need some guidance


Total honesty? Please put some white space in that wall of text. The only breathing room now are the ellipses. Thx.


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If you like fucking girls but also want to suck mens cocks and have them fuck you in the ass then you are bisexual.Since you want the men to fuck you I bet you also like for them to be in charge and tell you what to do .That makes you submissive .Try not putting labels on everything and just do what makes you feel good and you will be a lot happier
Lurker
You should just do what makes you happy.Dont put labels on your lifestyle ,it is what it is
Rookie Scribe
I'm 58 divorced a third time between my last two marriages I'd gotten the opportunity to be with a man i had 3 encounters stopped being sexual with men couple years before we met i knew she didnt receive oral loved giving after marrying always thought it i could get her to relax i became very miserable knowing id never find a woman just to receive oral so i posted ads on craigslist i found that I loved getting naked with men that were only interested in a blow job i found it very erotic undressing our bodies rubbing we were together for 8years i was growing tired of closest got careless left my emails open first time ever been caught between asking me if I enjoy sucking mens dicks and telling others before leaving about my homosexual desires I've been with a few men sometimes I would like giving oral sex to a woman but men turns me on more than a woman ever for years now I've enjoyed being totally oral when possible just giving and I'm not a sissy but a submissive feminine always thought myself as bisexual and find women hot but sexually intrested in men i love giving men what I always desired in early years lately Ive said I'm a gay man