So what is it exactly that turns you on about licking another females vagina?Granted from a straight guys perspective it's pretty hot but, when i think of two guys engaging in any type of sex, just seems so unnatural to me.
Pretty sure i said that it seemed unnatural to me. Or, unnatural for me? That might explain why i'm neither gay nor bisexual. Anal sex in general also seems unnatural to me. So do colonoscopies lol, i used to see anal as a turn on but when you come to realize that there's an anus ,rectum, sigmoid colon, very delicate nerves and tissue in there not to mention nasty bacteria, may be not such a good idea. Just because you may experience pleasurable sensations in that region doesn't mean it should be used as a focal point for sexual activety. The primary purpose of the asshole is to evacuate bodily waste. In design i don't think it's nearly as durable as a vagina, because the vagina is designed for sexual activety as well as child birth, more suited for wear and tear. Yea, yea i know use lots of lube and everythings ok. That's not always the case though.
I never said that being gay or bi was unnatural due to abnormal chemical imbalances in the brain as the experts back in the 80's said.
To be fair to all... it can be viewed as somewhat unnatural in the sense of it not being an act of producing offspring...which is what nature 'intended' sex to be. But, with that said, I have yet to have sex where I have intended to produce a sprog.
So, I conclude, that gay/lesbian sex is no more 'unnatural' than using a condom. Or whatever.
It seems to me that the answer to this is quite straight forwards.... if you're with someone you're attracted to (whatever your, or their, gender is) then the act of sex is going to be fuckin' hot. For the reasons sprite mentioned above.
Attraction is what attraction is. Sex leads on from that as per... it's all regardless of what everyone's genders are. No?
From your post it seems more as if you just don't understand how someone could want to have sex with someone of the same gender - because you don't want to fuck guys. How can anyone possibly answer that kind of question ('why are you attracted to the gender you're attracted to)? Why do you want to fuck women? Well, because you do. Attraction is not a choice, as far as I'm aware.
sexual love has no unaturalness to it
both the pussy and the penis are wonderful
i say lick away my lushy friends
I'm sorry, did I kill the thread, I was waiting for lovewhenuswallow's response to...
"So are you saying it's perfectly natural for a guy to want to watch two girls getting it on together but it's not natural for them to enjoy doing it?"
But alas there wasn't one.
Actually I thought lovewhenuswallow's question was a valid one. He said it 'seemed' unnatural to HIM, not to everyone, and asked what it was about licking another female's vagina that turned you on. It seems to me he is trying to see other people's points of view on the subject....
Sometimes the reason we form certain opinions is because they were foisted upon us by our parents and/or religion. I was raised as a catholic and as an adult, it was very difficult to accept these relationships were not 'wrong'. I think some of you are being a little harsh....
We are naturally sexual beings...how one expresses it is a matter of individuality...there is nothing natural about cultural norms forced on individuals.
u know what i am reading over your responses...mr originator of this post
i think you wanted the women to describe THEIR experiences to YOU..so you could have a good wank
it turns you on..and when we got upset you got defensive for this soooo didnt go the way you wanted it to
because..u called it UNNATURAL....which you possibly meant two men..not the two women that turn you on...
so here it is..u wanted to get off on other ladies experiences
hmmm cant say what offends me more that you called sex unnatural OR you expected us to be your vibrator
dont get mad if others find your post offensive...
nikki isnt like that..she gives her opinion straight from the hip...honest...
you should be grateful so many people weighed in on this...
and i think most were very diplomatic..unlike me
but then politics is so not my bag
Ignoring the 'unnatural' remark which did surprise me on such a liberal and beautifully open website such as Lush...I'll try to answer the question from my bisexual point of view. Personally (and I say that to avoid anyone thinking I'm speaking on behalf of all bi-girls) when I'm with another woman, however uninhibited and sordid the sex might be, I always think of it as being more sensual and erotic than with a man. Maybe it's the meeting of two female minds, the obvious fact that we know where to touch, the erogenous zones that often get missed but also (and I'm generalising) with no penetration (mostly anyway) it seems to be less rushed. Now the other side of that coin of course is that sometimes I want a good hard seeing to and only a cock will do and unfortunately woman (mostly anyway) can't cum over me and I couldn't give that up either. Not sure that answers your question but as others have said there is nothing unnatural about straight gay or lesbian sex, assuming it consensual it's all pretty damn lovely!