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Do you have sexual limits?

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The problem with a question like this is that there's probably something that I'm not going to mention, if only because I haven't actually thought of it yet.

Just to cover some bases...

Scat - no
Watersports - no
Draws Blood? - no
Unprotected? - Are we Fluid-Bonded?
Sub/Dom Roleplay - It would have to be my idea to try it.
Revenge Sex - No, and I will tell the person you're trying to get revenge on. You will look petty and we will laugh at you.
Happiness

My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
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I'll basically try anything that can be tried between one man and one woman (exception: feces/urine). I guess my sexual limitations are other people. If I wasn't involved in a long term, committed relationship then maybe id be more open to the idea of threesomes or the like but being in a long term committed relationship, I don't share and I dont want to be shared.
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It is really up to the person I am with, because I will try anything once. After all you can't know whether you like something if you have never tried it. At least that is the way that I see it. As of yet, I have not been asked to do something I didn't like. So as of yet, I have no sexual limits.
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Hello everyone,
I am new to the forum and am a fiction writer by avocation. I have been married for several years and have only acted out my bi-fantassies on line. Living in small town USA with a vision impairment makes it somewhat difficult to find another middle-aged bimarried guy who would be interested in sharing physically and or affectionately, but also just going to movies or classical concerts or for coffee. I find there are occasions when simply admitting my bi interest is enough to calm the savage beast within. Yes my limits are to sharing affectionately and physically if the opportunity presented itself. Friendship first with a bi guy with benefits not to far behind.. smile
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Have you ever had or do you still have a sexual limit without really trying to find out if you really like it? And no, I am not talking about , scat or under age sex...
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Scat... Blood... Pain... Anything that would leave marks on my body
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I like to think I'm liberated but anything that should go in the toilet or involves pain is not for me.

As for everthing else, when we play with others - we play safe so no barebacking.

And that's it, the rest is up for discussion
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Silly question everyone has limits. The question should be, Do you know your own limitations ?
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I like to think I'm liberated but anything that should go in the toilet or involves pain is not for me.

As for everthing else, when we play with others - we play safe so no barebacking.

And that's it, the rest is up for discussion

Now that's a discussion I wouldn't mind having.XHnM7upzXVgdMrXg
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50 miles and 8 inches.
Both reduce as I get older.
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Yes, but interestingly, they vary depending on who my partner is/was.
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Yes, but interestingly, they vary depending on who my partner is/was.

Aren't they your partner's limits rather than your own?
I would think that your limits stay the same, until you either expand them or contract them through experience.
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Aren't they your partner's limits rather than your own?
I would think that your limits stay the same, until you either expand them or contract them through experience.


Actually, no. My limits are to a degree determined by who I'm with and what I am willing to do with them; not necessarily what they are willing to do with me.
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Actually, no. My limits are to a degree determined by who I'm with and what I am willing to do with them; not necessarily what they are willing to do with me.

Your limits are what you are preparee to do and have done.
That doesn't mean you have to reach your limits with every partner. If you enjoy, for example, water sports, you might only want it with certain partners but it's still within your limits.
Things outside of your limits are so with all partners.
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Yes - There are things that are definitely off-limits with me. Not many, but certainly one or two.
I make it very clear that I don't do some things and that is that. In my present circumstances all my FWB are aware of the go and no-go things we all will and wont participate in, so there is no real problem at this point in time.
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Yes - There are things that are definitely off-limits with me. Not many, but certainly one or two.
I make it very clear that I don't do some things and that is that. In my present circumstances all my FWB are aware of the go and no-go things we all will and wont participate in, so there is no real problem at this point in time.

It should never be a problem to respect another person's limits.
That is the point of having them. Discuss them by all means but always respect them.
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Of course I do.
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I'll try almost anything once. Message me and ill tell you
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not too many limits, mild spanking,no scat maybe water sport, nothing permanent,s.ome humiliation would be arousing,maybe a little embarrasing situation while i was out on a date, fully dressed fem .
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anything nasty - gross, disgusting, humiliating, degrading - anything we are not in agreement on
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Yes I have limits. However with exploring my bi side my limits are changing
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It changes.

I can no longer do anal and even have a hard time doing online rp with anal in it as a result of me being examined and treated for internal bleedings and coloncancer. Now anything to do with that entrance can no longer be sexual to me and it being mentioned in during sex will completely turn me off.

I also cannot do very large cocks as I'm quite tight and it hurts too much.

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I am pretty open to sex with men, women, cd's and transsexuals. My only limit is that I do not love pain, scat or piss. That is really going to turn me off!!
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Quote by OldDog_BlackHeart
Silly question everyone has limits. The question should be, Do you know your own limitations ?


yes... perhaps it should be ... and

I think u learn them from experience ...



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I think everyone has limits whether you call them that or not: things you will or won't do. As for a list: I too am old enough to have come of sexual age in the era of AIDS, so I've been having sex off and on for many years and my 'limits' today are very different than they were 10, 20 or 30 years ago. For me, They just keep broadening & changing. I believe sexuality is fluid and desire, turn ons/offs, limits etc will also, hopefully change with time. A couple of longstanding hard limits are no scat and no choking/asphyxiation. Most other things are a matter of degree/subjective rather than the what of it. I like some bdsm-y kind of stuff but not all-eg. a well timed spank or three might be great but not into marks or welts... I like some bondage but don't ever gag me. What do others think?