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Lol, you only put one "blue ball" in there, Derek.



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All I know is I miss it and wish people were still into it. Honestly for me cybering can be hoter then masturbaiting to porn, because there is a sence of involvment there.
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OMG! You're Penelope??



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OMG! You're Penelope??



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You're Sk8ter ??

(I know it's about 10 minutes long, but it's hysterical!)
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You're Sk8ter ??

(I know it's about 10 minutes long, but it's hysterical!)


Absolutely brilliant and hysterical as you said. An inside look of a chat room. I loved it!
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Do you know what it is? Honestly? There are so many men pretending to be women on Lush that it puts people off cybering.

You see these profiles that pop up, usually a young, single, very attractive girl. They have a gorgeous avatar and some risqué photos on their profile page. They make a point of telling everyone they're a lesbian and that they are only interested in 'having fun' with other girls.

BUT...

Anyone with half a brain can work out that actually, those aren't photos of her. They were more than likely found online somewhere in an 'amateur photo gallery' and uploaded as window-dressing for the gullible and trusting.

What really makes me giggle is thinking about two guys jerking off at home, chatting to each other as lesbian girls online. They must know!

Fake Girl 1: "Lick my clit, baby!"

Fake Girl 2: "Ooo, yeah. Both of them?"

Fake Girl 1: "Hell yes. You make me so wet! It's like... squirting all over the place! LOL"

Fake Girl 2: "That's so hot. What do you taste like?"

Fake Girl 1: "Rainbow sherbet."

NO YOU FUCKING DON'T!

And that's probably why real lesbian members of Lush are reluctant to cyber.

Liz

This is just a male thing though, isn't it? Please say it is.
I haven't been sticking my virtual tongue up a female butt, have I?
What the fuck has my virtual hand been wrapped around, slowly sliding up and down?
I need to lie down...alone!
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I'm not into cyber sex but I decided to give it a try here on Lush (many moons ago) at the other persons request. Within a few minutes she wanted to bend me over and ram her cock into my ass. My interest in persuing it again dwindled to nothing
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I used to be a member before, since 2010 and I deleted my profile because I was getting duped constantly by guys pretending to be girls. So, I make it a rule to not "cyber" with anyone. I'll flirt, but that's about it. I may make an exception if I knew the person really well.

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Seems a lot of this could be solved by requiring your cyber partner to take a picture at your request, to pose a specific way, or give you a sign (a piece of paper with a hand written message identifying you as the recipient). Could it be faked? Yeah, for sure, but it significantly reduces the likelihood. Kik and Snapchat are also handy for ensuring the gender of your partner.
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Seems a lot of this could be solved by requiring your cyber partner to take a picture at your request, to pose a specific way, or give you a sign (a piece of paper with a hand written message identifying you as the recipient). Could it be faked? Yeah, for sure, but it significantly reduces the likelihood. Kik and Snapchat are also handy for ensuring the gender of your partner.
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I think that being a little more selective would definitely help. I don't mind taking my time. Maybe I'm a bit cerebral. Isn't that a big part of cyber though? That general, blah-blah, predictable so called "sexy" talk does absolutely nothing for me. It's all that the guys that attempt to play the roll know. It's full of cliché's and boring. I know exactly what you are going to say before you say it. And, I won't hesitate to laugh at you. That's a general red flag for me. Take a little time to know the person, beyond the pics and the page. Any pics beyond what is available to my general friends are earned, as is viewing. You trying to shove yours in my face isn't hitting on anything either. Come on too strong, too soon and I have no problem with ignoring you. It separates the weeds from the grain--unless weeds are what you are into. That's cool too. When I feed my sexual self, I need substance. I'm not looking to fall in love and I more than just enjoy play, but I'm not so desperate for stimulation that I jump at just anything that presents itself. I make that clear. It usually sends the faint of heart or desperate running, clears the field. It's what works for me.

But, some may not be as patient as I am.
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I think that being a little more selective would definitely help. I don't mind taking my time. Maybe I'm a bit cerebral. Isn't that a big part of cyber though? That general, blah-blah, predictable so called "sexy" talk does absolutely nothing for me. It's all that the guys that attempt to play the roll know. It's full of cliché's and boring. I know exactly what you are going to say before you say it. And, I won't hesitate to laugh at you. That's a general red flag for me. Take a little time to know the person, beyond the pics and the page. Any pics beyond what is available to my general friends are earned, as is viewing. You trying to shove yours in my face isn't hitting on anything either. Come on too strong, too soon and I have no problem with ignoring you. It separates the weeds from the grain--unless weeds are what you are into. That's cool too. When I feed my sexual self, I need substance. I'm not looking to fall in love and I more than just enjoy play, but I'm not so desperate for stimulation that I jump at just anything that presents itself. I make that clear. It usually sends the faint of heart or desperate running, clears the field. It's what works for me.

But, some may not be as patient as I am.


I think this is also pretty helpful technique, although I have seen some people pretty dedicated to their online female persona, and times doesn't always sort them all out. You're right in saying that guys tend to be pathetically predictable when it comes to talking lesbian sex... but on the flip side I've had girlfriends adorably innocent of lesbian sex and totally blown away that it could be more than just pussy eating. So I don't know. All that being side, I typically only cyber/sext women I have actually had sex with. -shrugs-
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I typically only cyber/sext women I have actually had sex with. -shrugs-


Well, of course, I'm only commenting in reference to my experiences within the limits of Lush and cybering. I'm even more particular in my RL relationships, so familiarity would make cyber issue free.
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and im definiely not a guy you can ask my momIve been a les my whole life never even been with a guy and i love to cyber
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You're right....I mean I am a bisexual cross dresser. I have been on lush for about 3 years now. When talking to men....all they want is sex...specially Indian men. They are not at all considerate about connecting at an emotional or intellectual level...so as to make the forthcoming cybering more sensual.all they want is get in, get off, get out. Even I have found girls here who are actually men and all they want is a quickie. I don't mind that....but at least be honest. I am still looking for people with whom I can connect and have a long lasting sensual cyber relations.
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hmmm i have had sexy chats "cyber" but its very rare for me to actually enjoy it.
for me the slight breezy kiss on the nape, or nails dragging between the shoulder blades, or scraping of teeth around the wrist... in real life, gives me more pleasure that most chats ever do/could. It could be my partner's lack of skill... or most likely just my lack of imagination. For me personally sex has to have an emotional part, otherwise i can't do it, enjoy it be interested. Mostly i am polite in the chat and continue to try to be engaged and type... as i browse other things including looking at shoes and clothes. I have never faked an orgasam in real life but in cyber... o god yes. In reality I have one maybe two orgasm max at a time but it seems every woman i chat with has multiples... so you know so do I and i squirt buckets and i scream and scratch and thus the fakery of it is so absurd that cyber is more joke to me than sexy. stories and images i like to interact with.
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If I go to a glory hole, the mouth could be anyone's. That's the beauty of it, it's who I want it to be in my own mind. Fuck the reality.
It would be different if you had made some emotional connection before cybering. But for random cybering it doesn't matter.

I second your thought, but the thing is that most of the fakes ruin it themselves..they say or do something that is impossible for a lady to do, that takes the fun away and makes you feel worse than where you started.
In short Fakers should fake only if they are good enough to not be CAUGHT.
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Do you know what it is? Honestly? There are so many men pretending to be women on Lush that it puts people off cybering.

You see these profiles that pop up, usually a young, single, very attractive girl. They have a gorgeous avatar and some risqué photos on their profile page. They make a point of telling everyone they're a lesbian and that they are only interested in 'having fun' with other girls.

BUT...

Anyone with half a brain can work out that actually, those aren't photos of her. They were more than likely found online somewhere in an 'amateur photo gallery' and uploaded as window-dressing for the gullible and trusting.

What really makes me giggle is thinking about two guys jerking off at home, chatting to each other as lesbian girls online. They must know!

Fake Girl 1: "Lick my clit, baby!"

Fake Girl 2: "Ooo, yeah. Both of them?"

Fake Girl 1: "Hell yes. You make me so wet! It's like... squirting all over the place! LOL"

Fake Girl 2: "That's so hot. What do you taste like?"

Fake Girl 1: "Rainbow sherbet."

NO YOU FUCKING DON'T!

And that's probably why real lesbian members of Lush are reluctant to cyber.

Liz

So true.
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Do you know what it is? Honestly? There are so many men pretending to be women on Lush that it puts people off cybering.

You see these profiles that pop up, usually a young, single, very attractive girl. They have a gorgeous avatar and some risqué photos on their profile page. They make a point of telling everyone they're a lesbian and that they are only interested in 'having fun' with other girls.

BUT...

Anyone with half a brain can work out that actually, those aren't photos of her. They were more than likely found online somewhere in an 'amateur photo gallery' and uploaded as window-dressing for the gullible and trusting.

What really makes me giggle is thinking about two guys jerking off at home, chatting to each other as lesbian girls online. They must know!

Fake Girl 1: "Lick my clit, baby!"

Fake Girl 2: "Ooo, yeah. Both of them?"

Fake Girl 1: "Hell yes. You make me so wet! It's like... squirting all over the place! LOL"

Fake Girl 2: "That's so hot. What do you taste like?"

Fake Girl 1: "Rainbow sherbet."

NO YOU FUCKING DON'T!

And that's probably why real lesbian members of Lush are reluctant to cyber.

Liz


Are there?! I would of expected that on sites such as Pornhub. But I would of thought it's a bit immoral doing it here. And the thought of those 2 guys is very amusing
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I've been moderating a lesbian social-site for more than 5 years, and cybering is a frequent onsite activity. As kind of the social-director for the site, I've cybered hundreds of times with other women, to the point where it just got tedious, as I was typing most of the creative 'activity', while they did most of the orgasming! I finally burned-out a year or so ago, and now only cyber with a couple of really close girlfriends who can keep up their end of the conversation.

Guys posing as girls is a frequent problem on sex-sites, and when I was on MySpace years ago, probably half the 'girls' I cybered with were actually guys, before I caught on to the clues, and figured out ways to tell the difference. But a few were so clever, they fooled me to the bitter end, and then rubbed my nose in it when they finally confessed, or I found them out some other way. That's why I don't cyber on open sites anymore, and why you won't see me in the chatrooms here.



I understand that a lot of guys do pose as girls on various pretexts, but there is a need in understanding the reason why they do so; which in most of the cases is gender dysphoria and they are not comfortable with the gender they are assigned at birth.

The result is they start experimenting, starting with "so called" fake profiles to see as how much the selected gender suits them. and once they do get in tandem with the gender of their choice they grow as a child does,taking care to learn the subtleties and peculiarities of the behavior of the chosen gender.

I believe there is need for all to treat them with compassion and help them out grow the fears and the negativity.(Trust me there is a hell lot of it).

P.S It is not cleverness of some sort that they behave like a female, they acquire this as a part of their nature.

I might be missing something here but I strongly believe that you folks should try to empathize such individuals and for once do try to help them.

A.
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I second your thought, but the thing is that most of the fakes ruin it themselves..they say or do something that is impossible for a lady to do, that takes the fun away and makes you feel worse than where you started.
In short Fakers should fake only if they are good enough to not be CAUGHT.


I respect your opinion but what I want to draw your attention to the fact that it is not just fakers who ruin it while it matters the most(thought there are more chances of them doing it). From where I see, an average minded human can spot a faker from a safe distance...only if they don't have a habit of rushing into things.
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All I know is I miss it and wish people were still into it. Honestly for me cybering can be hoter then masturbaiting to porn, because there is a sence of involvment there.


I agree! I love cybering with other women. It gives you an actual connection to another person. I enjoy being fairly detailed, which I feel like a lot of people don't reciprocate. That got really frustrating, which is why I came here and started writing my own stories. It doesn't give that same connection, but I can write my story, the way I like it. Also, the thought that other people have read my story and gotten off from it is really hot for me.
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The title of this thread sounds a bit like the title of an arts-and-crafts program on tv (e.g. 'creative with cork')


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What Liz said. So many guys pretending to be women, as if there's some secret magical thing that women only discuss amongst ourselves that if a man only knew would make panties drop around the world.

The fakers I've come across have all claimed to be either lesbian or bisexual (I identify as straight), and it's fairly immediately obvious in a chat that they're not female.

Guess what, guys? Yes, women on Lush talk--but it's the same way we talk in real life: kids, the ex, the other ex, laundry detergent preference (seriously), sex life (or lack thereof), more talk about the kids, etc. We don't dive straight (no pun intended) into the sex talk.

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With close friends or girls I've known for ages I find online fun can be very enjoyable. But like most girls on here I'm reluctant to go down this road because there are so many guys pretending to be a female.
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Its actually rather difficult for me to want to...
When I have been around so many so called lesbians on the site only to discover later that they are some old fat guy just getting his kicks..it makes me feel foolish and used..

Also I actually have to have to feel some sort of connection ( I know its just online and that probably makes me sound rather silly)
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Also I actually have to have to feel some sort of connection


this is actually key for me. i do cyber occasionally, and it's always with someone i know, and have a connection with and am just as happy chatting with about non-sexual things on a regular basis. i won't do it with strangers or people i don't know well or simply don't feel connected too. not at all a silly answer. smile

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this is actually key for me. i do cyber occasionally, and it's always with someone i know, and have a connection with and am just as happy chatting with about non-sexual things on a regular basis. i won't do it with strangers or people i don't know well or simply don't feel connected too. not at all a silly answer. smile



I'm glad someone agrees that it is important:)