I guess from my earliest sexual days I was a bit confused about my sexuality. When there was a special female in my life, I was very happy. However at the same time I knew I also need a man for what only a man can give a woman.
Maybe I am still a bit confused, but now I now that that is me and my life. I really need both sexes in my life. The need ruined a marriage, with a really good guy, when it became as obvious to him as it was too me that I would always have a girl in my life or maybe two.
No I have never had any doubts. Acceptance of who I am is very important to me.
I've had doubtd from the first man I touched. Was a LONG time ago, but something just didn't feel quite right. Probably the family and social conditioning that gender is clear and seperate than more than 2 and fluid. But this is how it is now. Don't like guys. I like girls and gurls. I'm a transbien, so to speak.
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I suspect we all do at some point, straight, gay, bi or pan. Maybe not everybody, but most people I should think.
no doubts at all. i know i am bisexual and love girl so much, but i dont think i could do without a cock or two.
Being raised in a church-going homophobic family I have had insecurities and doubt from the start. Hard to not have doubt when homosexuality and heroin addiction are one in the same.
All the time until about a year ago.
As Red said in the Shawshank Redemption.....
"Terrible thing, to live in fear"
I have never had any doubts. I started with guys when I was younger, partly because sexual play was easier between my buddy and I. We both were hot for women, but our girlfriends lack of willingness to have intercourse with us (they'd do everything else) drew us to having intercourse with each other. As long as I can remember I have been attracted to both men and women, and remember early on fantasizing about both. I'm not sure if we even had a label for being bisexual back then.
Being 50 I am from a generation where homosexuality, let alone bisexuality, was very much and out of the mainstream when I was growing up. When I started college and met my boyfriend is when I remember starting to identify myself as bisexual. We had many friends in the 80's come out of the closet and live openly gay. The odd thing we found was that the gay community we knew in college was not very tolerant of bisexuality; we often were told that we were in denial of being gay. Not so.
In college when I lived with my boyfriend we would often lay in bed together after sex and discuss us getting married, to women, having families, and continuing our bi relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 31 years and my wife for 30. He has been with his wife nearly as long. We were very fortunate that we met ladies that were interested in exploring bisexuality, and today they both would describe themselves as bisexual without any reservations.
No, I have ever had any doubts about my Sexuality.
nice thread, somehow helped me. I'm one of those who are still in the stage of being confused with sexuality. How can I find peace, if inside me I can't have peace.pXMZP0eErlHAOPyn
No never had any doubt at all......Growing up in the same bedroom as my older brother and sister did have an advantage after all.......xxxx
nope, women are lovely sexy and exotic creatures. Men are great protectors and wonderful companions. the hard part is just finding the good ones
never had any doubts, in fact i can easily like either gender as long as they come up to my mental image of beauty!
struggled with that uncertainty a little a while back, i was just so drawn to this couple who were friends of mine and i wound up asking to kiss them both fortunately for me they obliged
I guess I would have to say that I had my doubts at times. **Content removed by moderator for violating Lush terms & conditions.**
As I got older I became curious and didn't do anything with a guy until after I was discharged from the military. However, I do love both cock and pussy, but I prefer pussy over cock. There's just nothing like the velvety smoothness of a hot wet pussy encasing my cock deep inside.
But when I do have desires now to be with a man, I love to bottom and feel his cock deep inside of me. I can come when a man is initially penetrating me.
So yeah, I'm bisexual and have no doubts about it at all.
I also was molested by female and male members of my family so it took a while before I ultimately decided I'm sexual in whatever way I feel today.
I have never had any doubts nor confusion, I like both men (70%) and women (30%).
I am very open to advances from either, or talking-up either sex.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
I have admitted to myself today, that i am bi. I love women, but sometimes a being with a man is a good thing. Yes, my mind being in this has ruined a great relationship. Hopefully i can find me a good woman who understands this herself.
I have never had any doubts of my sexuality. Being bisexual has never confused me - others yes - but never me.
There was a time in my mid 20's when I openly called myself bi. That was before I had fooled around with any guys. Since then, I've fooled around with men more than a couple of times. Never seems to do all that much for me. For years I've referred to myself as straight but that hasn't felt completely right.
I definitely notice men and feel attractions. As far as porn goes, I like watching straight porn but I always want the dudes to be as hot as the women. I tend towards those female friendly porn clips. I also like videos of guys with hot bodies jerking off.
I don't feel quite bi enough to call myself bi, but something is there for sure.
I can only tell you about me....I am 62 yrs old, raised in the Bible belt, in strict upbringing.........
I can never remember being not bi......hope that makes sense.....When I saw the first naked male, I knew then, I wanted to explore his body.....I wanted to touch his prick, and suck it......and touch his rear........I can still see that image in my mind today........an uncut hairy prick.........wow, did I want it.
Well, I learned quickly, that sharing that with anyone in my circle was a wrong thing to do....I got blasted big time for even mentioning that desire........and the same in school.........and also church....But none of that changed what I wanted and felt.....Even as I was told that was wrong, and I had to hide my wants of bisex, I still fantasized of it........and practiced it.........and still do
I clasify myself equally drawn to men and women.........I still remember the first female I saw naked.......and the same result as the first naked male........instant want and desire.
So as I went along in life, I played the good heterosexual guy, but in the times alone, lusting for men........
I have always loved older men and women.........and still do........love looking at all the guys and gals with the sags and wrinkles........but as far as being bisexual, it is all I know..........
And still at 62, I still look at both men and women......
Acutally threesome is a very interesting thought..........smile
So I am a 62 yr old guy who enjoys it all........It is harder to find now, but when you do,,,,,,,,,oh my
If you want to chat about it, I am always open.......but I am bi, so if that offends, go somewhere else......smile and enjoy life........it is too short to let others rule and ruin your day......
Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can.
I have never had doubts about myself...I doubt stringers that claim to be. Why should anyone have to say...labels are for canned goods at the market.
I have never had doubts about myself...I doubt stringers that claim to be. Why should anyone have to say...labels are for canned goods at the market.
My friends are the ones I had my first threesome with (my bestie and her boyfriend) :P
