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HotBttmInBriefs
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I didn't mean for it to kick your butt. Sorry if you thought that.

I was just trying to add more perception to your thought on why so many who are bi-curious. There do seem a lot but many who list that aren't really just "curious" anymore. They have moved past it but can't quite own it yet. They need time before they can make that literal step.

I'm afraid to put it this way as some will try to say I am saying they have some kind of disease and I am not. If they did I would have the same disease. But it is kind of like an alcoholic. Many times an alcoholic can admit to themselves they are an alcoholic and even go to an AA meeting. But it takes months or weeks before they can stand up in a meeting and say it.

Everyone needs to work that out for themselves.
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I think guys being bi is a turn on, jus the same as two women getting it on. I get off on watching gay porn as much as lesbian porn or straight porn.
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I didn't mean for it to kick your butt. Sorry if you thought that.

I was just trying to add more perception to your thought on why so many who are bi-curious. There do seem a lot but many who list that aren't really just "curious" anymore. They have moved past it but can't quite own it yet. They need time before they can make that literal step.

I'm afraid to put it this way as some will try to say I am saying they have some kind of disease and I am not. If they did I would have the same disease. But it is kind of like an alcoholic. Many times an alcoholic can admit to themselves they are an alcoholic and even go to an AA meeting. But it takes months or weeks before they can stand up in a meeting and say it.

Everyone needs to work that out for themselves.

Or not. I think bisexuality is more complicated than categories or names. I have a coworker who was a lesbian until she was 37, met a guy and has now been married two year and calls herself straight. If I've been with both men and women for the last 20 years, but I'm currently monogamous to my wife, am I still bi? I have another coworker who was married for 20 years, got divorced, met a guy, and has been with him exclusively for four years. Is he gay?

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I have another coworker who was married for 20 years, got divorced, met a guy, and has been with him exclusively for four years. Is he gay?


Is he gay? Who cares but he sure is lucky!
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I didn't mean for it to kick your butt. Sorry if you thought that.

I was just trying to add more perception to your thought on why so many who are bi-curious. There do seem a lot but many who list that aren't really just "curious" anymore. They have moved past it but can't quite own it yet. They need time before they can make that literal step.

I'm afraid to put it this way as some will try to say I am saying they have some kind of disease and I am not. If they did I would have the same disease. But it is kind of like an alcoholic. Many times an alcoholic can admit to themselves they are an alcoholic and even go to an AA meeting. But it takes months or weeks before they can stand up in a meeting and say it.

Everyone needs to work that out for themselves.

I've been reassessing my thoughts on this and other threads of a similar nature and I've come to the conclusion that I've been a real hypocrite due to my past actions! Not easy to admit but it's true.
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I don't mind men being bi or even curious about it. Why should it only be okay for women to play with the same sex and it be socially acceptable?


Poppet rocks! giggles